Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Awww, thats cute. Patrick (my boyfriend) and I are one of those shy couples who are very shy with eachother because our feelings are so strong for eachother. Patrick is a really shy person, but he is very nice and respectable and always makes me smile. He always puts nice love poems that he writes and gives me starbursts and stuff in my locker. So whenever I open my school locker, there is always something nice from him. ^-^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 hey, me and my gf are relatively shy as well. And making her smile before we became a couple was almost at the near impossible point due to her bad experiences with men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Oh, what happened with your GF and men? Patrick and I can't even talk to eachother normally, but we try to talk to eachother alot and soon I'm sure we won't be os shy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I'm sure you know how in certain relationships a guy may take advantage of the girl. That's what happened to my gf, along with all of her friends. It left them with a.........distaste for most men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Oh, I see. Yeah, alot of guys are jerks, but there are some that really do have a heart. There are a few guys at my school who just get GFs and then dump them just to break their hearts. Its horrible, but it never happened to me or any of my friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 yeah but it's happened to every guy she's encountered it almost left her thinking there's no such thing as a guy with a heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Damn, thats horrible. Every guy? Thats just mean. I feel bad for your GF, but I know that she got someone who really appreciates her, right? Don't break her heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I won't. You know despite knowing all this I never really understood why in TV and films for relationship it's always the guy that has to be bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desu the Blue Nerd Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Well I wish you luck with Patrick. He seems like a nice guy. Though you always have to be careful with us guys. I just hope he's one of those guys who will never try to hurt a girl emotionaly or god hopes not, physically. My friend Noah (a.k.a. Whizzer_1 a.k.a. grumpy) was rumored to hit this girlfriend when they broke up. They got back together and I also think the girl who was the girlfriend was lying. That girl was a pain in the butt. She manipulated my friend so we wouldn't become friends and twisted his feelings. I found out she had a crush on me. She was also nice in some kind of twisted evil way. My friend also tells me he has had at least seven girlfriends. Trust me he never has. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 7 gfs? Even if that was true, he'd have no dignity and a greed problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah, thats genderist. Sometimes girls are the cruel ones. Girls just get boyfriends to make there friends jealous, then dump the guy. Thats only from Girly Girls though. The ones who put on WAY too much makeup and the ones who try to be 'popular.' I'm not at all anyone like that, for I'm a tomboy who does have a heart, but I've seen girls do that to guys. Its horrible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Tell me about it. In Legally Blonde it was almost as if the lesson is this: once the guy has served his purpose, dump him and find the next guy to get you higher up the ladder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I never seen Legally Blonde, but that lesson is horrible to teach people. To me the worse thing to see is a guy's heart broken. Girls are more emotional, but there are some guys who have a well understanding and are very kind, to see those guys get their hearts broken from cruel girls is horrible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 hey, some guys are emotional too. The worst part is to heart break at all. I've seen it happen at my school a few times, where some girls merely see guys as just toys: use them for a while, then throw them in the trash Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah, its horrible. One of my friends used to hae a boyfriend, but then the guy dumped her completely horribly. He just left her and said the meanest of things to her, then dumped her. She didn't even do anything to the guy, it left her heart broken for a long time, until luckily a kind guy came across her and helped her move on in life, then they became a couple and they are lasting quite long. They really are a perfect pair, so sometimes miracles happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 true, though I'm not the type to believe in miracles. Both me and my gf have had WAY too many down times in our lives, when we became a couple it seemed the right fit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Same here. Exactly the same for me and my boyfriend. Our lives corssing together on one path made everything seem correct. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 and most of my friends understood that quite well. But families simply don't. They feel if the guy/girl has been through these scars, he/she must be a bad candidate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah, my friends are ver suportive, especially the one who was hurt, but found her way back into the light with her new BF. She is the one who I can talk decently to about me and my boyfriend. She doesn't tease me, but because she is my friend, she does sometimes in small ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 so are mine, and I can talk to them all the time in my relationship. With families all they say is that your friends are too young to understand this concept, so they can do nothing but BS you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 oh, its not the same in my family, they just tease me whenever Patrick's name is said. And sadly I have to go, it was fun talking to ya, cya. The Crimson One,Miranda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 ok then. For mine they never tease (family has no humor) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junk Raver Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Not Since July No, sadly. I am Boyfriend Hunting Tho :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desu the Blue Nerd Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah' date=' thats genderist. Sometimes girls are the cruel ones. Girls just get boyfriends to make there friends jealous, then dump the guy. Thats only from Girly Girls though. The ones who put on WAY too much makeup and the ones who try to be 'popular.' I'm not at all anyone like that, for I'm a tomboy who does have a heart, but I've seen girls do that to guys. Its horrible.[/quote'] Anybody who is like that is a horrible person.Tell me about it. In Legally Blonde it was almost as if the lesson is this: once the guy has served his purpose' date=' dump him and find the next guy to get you higher up the ladder[/quote'] Horrible lesson. Though isn't it supposed to be comedy? That's kind of the point. I have plenty of friends who are girls. I see them as equals. Except at childrens card games. j/k (about the children's card games part)hey' date=' some guys are emotional too. The worst part is to heart break at all. I've seen it happen at my school a few times, where some girls merely see guys as just toys: use them for a while, then throw them in the trash[/quote'] That is very kind of you to think that way. It is true that both boys and girls do that. I'm most insulted when my gender do it. I can't stand when any of our species think about using somebody that way but when they do thse people might as well burn for eternity for twisted someone's heart and destroying their soul. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 hey, some people's mind are just like that: they see everyone else as a mere expendable pawn in their goal to reach the ladder's top. I too try to reach for the top, but I don't squish everyone along the way. Granted some people may say "then you're a fool, that's how the real world works, you have to squish everyone in order to reach the top", but I refuse to accept that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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