Wahrheit Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 The last time I spoke to them, they were suicidal. Does anyone know if they're okay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
·Toot Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 Them? They? Didn't know he was suicidal, but he got on while tipsy and posted porn. That got him the ban. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 1, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 I didn't know what pronouns he uses. Does anyone know if he's okay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 he posted porn. His name is Matt Lothe, you can find him on facebook if you want to check on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 Does anyone know if he's okay?Last I knew, granted a few weeks ago, he's doing fine. From what he told me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryusei the Morning Star Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 The last time I spoke to them, they were suicidal. Does anyone know if they're okay?He was down, and some jackass goaded him into posting porn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 He was down, and some jackass goaded him into posting pornpeople are responsible for their own actions. If he did not have such a level of self control, he shouldn't have been here in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 1, 2017 Report Share Posted January 1, 2017 He was down, and some jackass goaded him into posting pornYou're welcome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 people are responsible for their own actions. If he did not have such a level of self control, he shouldn't have been here in the first place.I don't think that's quite true. None of us are the worst things we've ever done. Certainly worthy of a time-out, but it's one thing to have "an episode" and quite another to have a habit. It seems kind of absurd, in that regard, that J-Max isn't banned, but Thar is. Just a thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 I don't think that's quite true. None of us are the worst things we've ever done. Certainly worthy of a time-out, but it's one thing to have "an episode" and quite another to have a habit. It seems kind of absurd, in that regard, that J-Max isn't banned, but Thar is. Just a thought.I have expressed multiple times that I am against jmax having been unbanned, but I have no sway, so whatever. Permaban should be permanent. Even then, there are avenues through which a ban can be repealed. Despite this, thar made an alternate account without the moderators' knowledge, attempting to bypass his punishment. Even he himself acknowledged after the fact that his actions were wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 J-Max hasn't posted in over half a year anyway. Permaban should be permanent. You have no idea who you're talking to and it's hilarious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 J-Max hasn't posted in over half a year anyway. Principles, or something. I have expressed multiple times that I am against jmax having been unbanned, but I have no sway, so whatever. Permaban should be permanent. Even then, there are avenues through which a ban can be repealed. Despite this, thar made an alternate account without the moderators' knowledge, attempting to bypass his punishment. Even he himself acknowledged after the fact that his actions were wrong.I still don't think it's a huge deal. I'd give him time and let him back if it were up to me. I don't know how old any of you are, but I will make the quick point that I used to be much harsher about the idea of permabans when I was younger. I'm only 23 now, mind you, but I give a lot of value to the idea of rehabilitation and compassion. It tends to work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smear Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 I was the one who banned Thar. Originally it was unknown how long he was going to be banned for until the mod team had a discussion. I was wanting to be more leniant, but in the end we decided for a permaban. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 I was the one who banned Thar. Originally it was unknown how long he was going to be banned for until the mod team had a discussion. I was wanting to be more leniant, but in the end we decided for a permaban.Is that really necessary? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 Rehabilitation isn't possible. Compassion would have been given if he posted more risque porn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 For the record Thar did come back on an alt account to say that he agreed with the mod's decision You have no idea who you're talking to and it's hilarious.Unless it was hella shade yo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 Rehabilitation isn't possible. Compassion would have been given if he posted more risque porn.Of course rehabilitation is possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 Of course rehabilitation is possible.In what sense? Send Thar off into the wild blue yonder, to a better forum that wouldn't help to sustain his depression but also accept it and nurture it more and more? What rehab set up will you do for a porn post? Guy needs help, we can't help him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 once again. There is a system for banned members to return. That simply didn't follow it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 In what sense? Send Thar off into the wild blue yonder, to a better forum that wouldn't help to sustain his depression but also accept it and nurture it more and more? What rehab set up will you do for a porn post? Guy needs help, we can't help him.No, just in the sense that people calm down if you give them a bit of time. Someone has already said he admitted what he did was wrong. Why would he do it again? He's not SD Dueler. Also, for the record, I'm not here to be his advocate or whatever, I just noticed this as I was reading another thread and I was quite taken aback. It seems to me that as the site continually grows smaller, it doesn't help a whole lot to categorically blacklist someone - particularly an active poster - unless absolutely necessary. But I'm not a mod, just someone who's been around a lot of websites for a long time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 No, just in the sense that people calm down if you give them a bit of time. Someone has already said he admitted what he did was wrong. Why would he do it again? He's not SD Dueler. Also, for the record, I'm not here to be his advocate or whatever, I just noticed this as I was reading another thread and I was quite taken aback. It seems to me that as the site continually grows smaller, it doesn't help a whole lot to categorically blacklist someone - particularly an active poster - unless absolutely necessary. But I'm not a mod, just someone who's been around a lot of websites for a long time.He had every opportunity to calm down. He kept pushing it further and further. Thar was asked to take a second to calm down. We told him that he needs to do something that would get him away from the incident before he took action. He acted on his on accord, warning and knowledge of what was going to happened. Regardless of what caused him to take action, he did. That isn't going to leave. Actually, it would probably only get worse by being on this site. Banning someone is rehab. Staying away from the catalyst is how he gets better. Even if he isn't going to do it again, he still did it. The activity on this site is dwindling. One person isn't going to increase that by anything significant. He knew what was coming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted January 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 He had every opportunity to calm down. He kept pushing it further and further. Thar was asked to take a second to calm down. We told him that he needs to do something before an episode. He acted on his on accord, warning and knowledge of what was going to happened. Regardless of what caused him to take action, he did. That isn't going to leave. Actually, it would probably only get worse by being on this site. Banning someone is rehab. Staying away from the catalyst is how he gets better. Even if he isn't going to do it again, he still did it. The activity on this site is dwindling. One person isn't going to increase that by anything significant. He knew what was coming.That's a fuller account than anyone else has given thus far, and now I understand. Still, too bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 That's a fuller account than anyone else has given thus far, and now I understand. Still, too bad.When I say that I caused it, I kind of did. Thar was acting out because someone in the Discord chat was being a dick, and Thar wanted to show him muscle. He acted just the same as the other party, but from the victim standpoint. When told to refrain and stop, he took that as a shot to his ego and went off like a bomb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 When I say that I caused it, I kind of did. Confuckulations. What do you want, a medal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted January 2, 2017 Report Share Posted January 2, 2017 Confuckulations. What do you want, a medal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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