Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Picture from my friend's phone. Censored names and numbers. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– wHAT DO I DO???????????? he's not bad too. like i'm freaking out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchermitcher Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 so...are you the white guy, or the blue guy, or the 'him' in the texts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spinny Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Uh i mean, do you actually know them that well?Just dont rush. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 so...are you the white guy, or the blue guy, or the 'him' in the texts? it's from my friend's phone. ergo, I'm "him" Uh i mean, do you actually know them that well?Just dont rush. Obviously that means funk him right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchermitcher Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 so he just sent you screenshots of the convo? thats kinda...idk go for it meng Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Talk to him. Put in a good word. And tell your friend to stop being a pansy and do it on their own, regardless of what the person thinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Talk to him. Put in a good word. And tell your friend to stop being a pansy and do it on their own, regardless of what the person thinks. how was my friend being a pansy though so he just sent you screenshots of the convo? thats kinda...idk go for it meng !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i duNnO, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Because your friend is hiding behind the fact that they do not know what the other person is thinking. Unless there is more to this, like the fact that these people don't interact at all or see each other ever, then your friend is being a pansy by not taking the opportunity to find out how the other dude feels about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dova Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Getting advice and responding with i dunno is clearly going to increase the posting of advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Because your friend is hiding behind the fact that they do not know what the other person is thinking. Unless there is more to this, like the fact that these people don't interact at all or see each other ever, then your friend is being a pansy by not taking the opportunity to find out how the other dude feels about them. wait what. I'm not sure if you understand the situation. "Him" is me, the grey text is a guy (who I don't know) and blue is my friend. Getting advice and responding with i dunno is clearly going to increase the posting of advice ..........edgy, dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Oh. "Him" is being a pansy. That is a funking turn off. Nevermind. You're also being a pansy, and should just text the guy and talk to him. Just say "Hey". Openers mean sheet, as long as you try to articulate what you are trying to get out of the conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Oh. "Him" is being a pansy. That is a f***ing turn off. Nevermind. You're also being a pansy, and should just text the guy and talk to him. Just say "Hey". Openers mean s***, as long as you try to articulate what you are trying to get out of the conversation. It's a dangerous cycle, you see. This never happens, so I get like this, and I become a turn off, and thus it continues to not happen to me, so the next time it happens to me I become a turn off. well alright, I guess I'll just talk to him. He says he's not interested in Jews. oh boy. i said "Howdy". he replied "howdy" and "hello james" and now he's confused as to my name. even though he said it himself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 If you think he isn't worth it, just say that you're not interested and move on with your life. He is nothing but a waste of time along the way. The thing about trying to get someone to go out with you is that you invest some much time into what they think, that you never focus on what you want and how you are going to get it. The feelings are there regardless and they never get closure if something doesn't get done. You learn what you want and you learn about what you are trying to get. If people don't suit that measure and throw you off in some way that take you off in mood too much, they are a break up easily. Don't lower your standards for people that have low standards or not what you are looking for. Give it a shot, sure, but don't let it become your entire life if you don't think it is worth it. Saying that is never happens is an obvious lie at this point, since it just happened. That means that it can and might happen again, you know what it is like to go through that. You take in that feeling a little more each time and become comfortable with it. The next time it happens, it might be a surprise, but you are more accustomed to it than what you once were and shouldn't be caught off guard as much. It is a turn off for me because I don't want people who can't get their life figured out in the simplest of situations that hold the common person back. Life should be about taking a step to into what people don't know the outcome of, and learning from it so that they can figure out more about themselves. You never get anywhere by using fear to hold you back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 oKAy, so I may have gotten the wrong number and now I'm being called a f*** and am being asked extremely personal questions by an extremely hostile and creepy person. Sorry, but I'm literally dead. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Edit: Guy is a manipulative a******.Probably. I dunno. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Got the real number. I hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Block the number. Obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Block the number. Obviously. sorry, but as a kid who has no friends and spends all of his free time inside, my social and logical skills in this kind of situation aren't exactly great ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– His """ex""" gave me the friend's number. lmao. Blocked. Texting the real one but no idea what to say. "Howdy" didn't work, but "hi" sounds too shy and "hello" sounds too stern. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rai Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 "hey, how you doing" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 rai being the dawg he is I usually go for the "Yo, it's Gregg." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 rai being the dawg he is I usually go for the "Yo, it's Gregg." There's been a slight hitch in the plans. Obviously, I have to funk with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rai Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Gonna hide the number. Still no posting other people's personal info out there without their knowledge. Guy sounds like a bit of a wet mop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 Gonna hide the number. Still no posting other people's personal info out there without their knowledge. Guy sounds like a bit of a wet mop. You're no fun. He hasn't responded. Darn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 You're no fun. He hasn't responded. Darn.I went on a date with a girl who took 13 days to respond. People have lives and don't even look at messages all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 I went on a date with a girl who took 13 days to respond. People have lives and don't even look at messages all the time. but he was literally just talking to my friend. If he's not responding, it's not because he's busy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted July 18, 2016 Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 but he was literally just talking to my friend. If he's not responding, it's not because he's busy.It could be because he missed it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatch Steal Posted July 18, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 18, 2016 It could be because he missed it? I doubt it, given he destroyed his ethos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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