.Rai Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Really guys? This is like say don't come out of the closet cause you live in a extremely conservative family. Follow your heart deadpool, but do it slowly. If it's consensual, there is no god damn reason you shouldn't go for it To be honest, that's not even what the consensus is. Fusion's response is level-headed. It's "Be aware of the impacts of it, because they are plentiful and non-trivial, and make an informed decision based on that." It's dumb to force somebody out of the closet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Really guys? This is like say don't come out of the closet cause you live in a extremely conservative family. Follow your heart deadpool, but do it slowly. If it's consensual, there is no god damn reason you shouldn't go for itComing from a non-straight person. Not entirely. But what Rai said. Smart doge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Hyde Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 It's over... The dream is dead! Your one true love is lady death anyways....HOW DARE YOU THINK OF CHEATING ON HER! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryusei the Morning Star Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Yeah, agreed with Hyde here, if there is even an imaginary person you would rather be with, then you don't have the level of love needed to pull this off. Sorry meng Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 1, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Homosexuality and being attracted to your first cousin are too different things and are treated differently. That is why few people care for legalizing nation wide. Mostly because of the ick factor. As for children born with deformalities or some impairment, that's only if both people carry recessive traits for any disorder. I am not 100% about our families inherited diseases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryusei the Morning Star Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Homosexuality and being attracted to your first cousin are too different things and are treated differently. That is why few people care for legalizing nation wide. Mostly because of the ick factor.As for children born with deformalities or some impairment, that's only if both people carry recessive traits for any disorder. I am not 100% about our families inherited diseases.You missed the point. It was about placing importance on your family in matter of your personal love life. There's been too many times when people live for others, and I didn't want you to have to go through that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 What you're not getting, Winter, is it's not living for others.But others effect how you live, that's a fact. It's not gonna be a good time if a large group of people are against you, which is something that needs to be weighed when making decisions.That's something for themselves, not others. How THEY are affected by what others do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raine Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Have your choices really been shut down to the point of hitting on your first cousin? There is... I don't know how exactly, it's... not about kids... people... you people... *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 1, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Have your choices really been shut down to the point of hitting on your first cousin? There is... I don't know how exactly, it's... not about kids... people... you people... *sigh*To be honest, I don't have any choices, and I'm not hitting on her. However last night I couldn't tell if she was trying to tell me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryusei the Morning Star Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 Bottom line, if he really loves her, he should go for it cause it seems she's interested too. Until he has the maturity to go for that decision on his own, he need to really question this "love" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 My own personal beliefs aside, it really comes down to a simple question. Are you prepared to be alienated from a large portion of the people you know (her included) should this go south? If you accept the obvious risks and are prepared to face the general stigma, go for it. If not, don't. Hope for the best, but plan for the worst. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchermitcher Posted February 1, 2016 Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 I don't...really understand the stigma against cousin marriage. Sure, actual first-tier incest I understand but cousins of any kind sounds like okay to me, potential children malformations aside(Although sure I can imagine that's a huge part of it, I don't feel like it's a big stigma over here). Is this only a Western thing? also deadpool for my own entertainment go for it, this sounds fun idk if i should advise you anything, this issue seems kinda delicate with the social stigma of first cousins and all but fusion's post seems really solid imo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 2, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 Alot of people are making it sound like I could if I wanted to. That is not the case. Apart from the negative stigma of being attracted with your cousin, I have little to no chance of it happening. I am not very attractive and my "personality" is not that great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted February 2, 2016 Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 In order to become Lord BullBull, one must grow a pair or two. I don't like the term "grow a pair" it always felt silly. One needs not be reckless to do great things.Also imma PM you to give you the story behind the quote so not to go off topic too much :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted February 2, 2016 Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 why would someone be growing 2 pairs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 2, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 I posted this in a status but I'll post it here. I have feelings for TWO of my first cousins.....I'm normal I swear, I don't have a thing for my cousins. I just used to be close to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted February 2, 2016 Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 I posted this in a status but I'll post it here. I have feelings for TWO of my first cousins.....I'm normal I swear, I don't have a thing for my cousins. I just used to be close to them.Now here's an interesting thing there. There's many a tale and study about how people growing up with a relative of similar age and opposite sex having these sort of feelings. So this could be a psychological thing and not entirely a romantic interest. It'd be difficult to determine though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted February 2, 2016 Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 Childhood fondness can be easily confused for romantic interest. Just sayin. And, honestly, the concept of a "one true love" is defunct. This attraction is far from a do-all end-all. It seems insensitive to just say "get over it" but you will find someone else. Trust me. You will find someone else if you stop focusing on these feelings. This is a choice you can make. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 2, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 Now here's an interesting thing there. There's many a tale and study about how people growing up with a relative of similar age and opposite sex having these sort of feelings. So this could be a psychological thing and not entirely a romantic interest. It'd be difficult to determine though... I mean, I don't have a romantic obsession with my first cousins.....I don't compulsively want to get with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted February 2, 2016 Report Share Posted February 2, 2016 Childhood fondness can be easily confused for romantic interest. Just sayin.And, honestly, the concept of a "one true love" is defunct. This attraction is far from a do-all end-all. It seems insensitive to just say "get over it" but you will find someone else.Trust me. You will find someone else if you stop focusing on these feelings. This is a choice you can make. Different people's feelings work differently. why would someone be growing 2 pairs Do look at the context and remember it's a BullBull we're speaking of. I don't claim to be an expert on bovinebovine anatomy, but I imagine a BullBull could well have two pairs of balls given it's twice the bull of your average bull, bulls being renowned the world over for their balls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 5, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 5, 2016 Childhood fondness can be easily confused for romantic interest. Just sayin.And, honestly, the concept of a "one true love" is defunct. This attraction is far from a do-all end-all. It seems insensitive to just say "get over it" but you will find someone else.Trust me. You will find someone else if you stop focusing on these feelings. This is a choice you can make.I personally don't think that marriage is a social construct but I wouldn't say one true love exists but...I don't know how well I can get over it. I see her on a regular basis, and she's is incredibly cryptic on this matter. I can't tell her feelings on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted February 5, 2016 Report Share Posted February 5, 2016 One true love does and has existed for certain people. I'm not one of them, but hey. Venus has a distinct plan for each soul. I'd approach the dilemma as asking for her help in the same way you're asking YCMers here, that between you and her you have feelings for her but feel like you're weird for having them and don't know what to do about them. That should be innocuous enough and gives her a chance to either reciprocate or advise you either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryusei the Morning Star Posted February 8, 2016 Report Share Posted February 8, 2016 Deadpool you realize a lot of us here have fairly terrible love lives right? You're pretty much asking the worse group of people for advise. The heart wants what it wants, follow that dude Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted February 8, 2016 Report Share Posted February 8, 2016 Deadpool you realize a lot of us here have fairly terrible love lives right? You're pretty much asking the worse group of people for advise. The heart wants what it wants, follow that dudeHey man, I am in a loving, committed relationship. Anyway, I honestly am not sure what you want here. We say do it, you say she they wouldn't go with it. We say don't do it, you say you love her them. If you are going to do something, do it. Otherwise, dwelling on it does you no good, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epicmemesbro Posted February 8, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 8, 2016 Lets be honest, I have to keep these feelings to myself. If I confess them I will face rejection and things will be more awkward for the both of us. The 14th coming up doesn't help at all... Ugh I cant tell if she knows I like her. She kinda made this flinched glance a few times, but was it just casually done? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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