(GigaDrillBreaker) Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 This topic is prompted by a recent skype conversation. I would like to note that this is not me asking for advisement, rather just curious on everyone's views on the matter. What is the soonest one should consider attempting a romantic relationship? Some believe that effective relationships can begin in High School, while others feel it should not even be attempted until mid 20s. Opinions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 I think the general consensus in my family & other relatives is 16 at the earliest.Personally, that sounds like a good number. I mean at that age, you could actually drive your date somewhere.Generally that also means the date is over 16 (but preferably under 18) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchermitcher Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 love aint bound by age although please do follow the law Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thar Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 I had a puppy love relationship when I was 6, but that's all it was was puppy love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cin Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 I wouldn't really put a limit an age on a relationships, I suppose it is down to the maturity of both people. Most young relationships don't last anyhow, but it's a learning experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 I wouldn't really put a limit an age on a relationships, I suppose it is down to the maturity of both people. Most young relationships don't last anyhow, but it's a learning experience. Pretty much this. Any age is fine really, depending on the maturity level. Of course following the law is a given. But I don't think that really there's one good starting age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 Hina and I are the perfect age for each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rooster Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 There is no age for relationships. None at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 God forbid two preteens get into a relationship, they might actually gain some information that will be useful later on in their lives. Someone please explain how this is actually a genuine conversation, because I sure as fuck don't consider it to be one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 God forbid two preteens get into a relationship, they might actually gain some information that will be useful later on in their lives. Someone please explain how this is actually a genuine conversation, because I sure as fuck don't consider it to be one.Because it's a conversation a lot of parents have to have about their children when they get to the age to even think about dating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rooster Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 Because it's a conversation a lot of parents have to have about their children when they get to the age to even think about dating? Because it's a conversation a lot of parents have to have about their children Because it's a conversation a lot of parents parents But Giga was not having a conversation with his parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ihop Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 I wouldn't attach an age to it, more just when both parties are emotionally ready, which needn't be at any particular age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 It is a social construct that exists defined by appropriate age of parent consent, and readiness. I had "relationships" in kindergarten. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 "Thinking" about dating? Just be however feels comfortable with somebody who has mutual feelings. You should never let superficial stupidities like "what everyone else thinks 'cause what they think actually changes what happens between us" cause significant peer pressure to you. Apply a case-by-case basis to these things, not a principle that supports ignorance and foolhardiness. Though Daemon apparently thinks our ages matter enough to mention it. It's deeper than that, you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 You're right, it isn't relevant and goes much deeper than age. Relationships themselves are defined more than by age, and age isn't such a degree as it was 30 years ago when the caliber to define men was much more defined and represented (accepted, I guess) in society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 But Giga was not having a conversation with his parents. parents generally decide when they want to allow their children to date. My point was not to Giga but to Night that the reason we were having this conversation is because it is one that possibly all parents have to consider when raising their kid. That's why it's relevant vvvvv It is a social construct that exists defined by appropriate age of parent consent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flash Flyer - Sakura Posted March 3, 2015 Report Share Posted March 3, 2015 If you're mature enough to handle one, then I don't see why you can't have a relationship under 16. Of course, being younger means you can't drive + any "dates" are limited to school and/or under parental supervision. [Or you have to take date on the bus, which I doubt he/she would want to do] Just make sure you follow the law, and things should be okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cool Girl Posted March 4, 2015 Report Share Posted March 4, 2015 I agree! My mom told me that if you're in love, always talk to her first about what I should do. So I guess if you need advice, just talk to a close friend to help figure it out. I don't know. I'm not in love...yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted March 4, 2015 Report Share Posted March 4, 2015 Whenever I think I am in love, I masturbate. It usually is just hormones building up, and the release is pretty nice to just cool down. The feeling usually goes away, and I realize that I don't like the person or that I was in love with them, I just need relief. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
- Minimania - Posted March 4, 2015 Report Share Posted March 4, 2015 I had one when I was eleven. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaMuddy Posted March 7, 2015 Report Share Posted March 7, 2015 Whenever you're ready to accept rejection in a responsible way, and when you're no longer an immature douche. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted March 14, 2015 Report Share Posted March 14, 2015 Okay so like, date whenever the fuck you wanna. IT LITERALLY DOES NOT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE. Ether way you're gonna have a learning experience. Personal experience: When I was in my early teens I dated sooo many people, and it was amazing. Yeah it was all for fun, and most of the relationships I had didn't mean a thing. I mean I made good friends, so it didn't matter ( I broke some hearts tho). Puberty was one hell of a roller coaster, but I eventually got out of it and moved on to more serious means of dating. But I don't regret any of it, I needed those experiences just like anyone who dated me. They helped me grow, and mature into the almost adult that I am today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rooster Posted March 14, 2015 Report Share Posted March 14, 2015 I swear, there are kindergarten kids who have relationships. There are also 4th grade kids going on proper dates, so the age will never matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bury the year Posted March 14, 2015 Report Share Posted March 14, 2015 I really don't give a damn, as long as you're of the right age if you want to do sexytimes. Because if not, things could get really nasty for one party if the other decides to press statutory rape charges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted March 15, 2015 Report Share Posted March 15, 2015 I really don't give a damn, as long as you're of the right age if you want to do sexytimes. Because if not, things could get really nasty for one party if the other decides to press statutory rape charges. Yeaahhhh, as long as it isn't rape, then it's cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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