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Kinda depressing nowadays, based off of my experience. I don't often see you being... well, pleasant to be with. It esp. shows when love comes up, imo. Also a bit rude, like Rod said.

 

 

However, very mature and knowledgeable. A simple attitude change could do a lot of good.

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Kinda depressing nowadays, based off of my experience. I don't often see you being... well, pleasant to be with. It esp. shows when love comes up, imo. Also a bit rude, like Rod said.


However, very mature and knowledgeable. A simple attitude change could do a lot of good.

But I'm not depressed modern day and I had been for years before, how in earth could I be more depressing now
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You continuously give off an air of overconfidence and appear to look down your nose at any other member that is not Koko, Caeda, etc.

 

Even if you're right, you go about explaining and arguing things in a rude way that is unfortunate, because I know you're a nice, helpful. loving guy and that's really all that's standing in the way of people seeing that. :\

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My biggest problem is that you act like an a** when you aren't trying to act like one (i.e. your overall bluntness). If you could try to direct your bluntness in a non-aggressive way, it'd be a major improvement. Also, you tend to have an elitist attitude that really needs to be cut down imo. I don't know about everyone else, but it makes me want to watch what I do so I don't tick you off.

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I love how self-serving these topic are.

But, well, I already make a statement if you ever do something I don't like. They're either really indirect or really direct. Oh, but I don't mind how people say you behave at all. At least, not if you're not being an idiot, which I don't really see....

Oh, and another reason I like you is 'cause of all the talks on and off Skype throughout multiple years. I've invested a lot of time and emotion into a few of your bouts.

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Way too direct and, most of the time, extremely rude when expressing your opinions. But you're seldom wrong, so people could learn stuff from you.

 

And you're much better at dealing with love than I am.

 

All of this, and you were one of my favorite mods :3

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I never got the feeling we really get along but never actually disliked each other except for a few mishaps that definitely put the other into a negative light. Regardless, I've always thought you and Caeda made a wonderful pair and even when I was younger and had a serious distaste for online relationships you two still proved as an example of a couple that worked amazingly and for that I respect you.

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You need to loosen up.

 

You're far too ridged. You don't know how to adapt to situations. There are times to be blunt, but there are also times to be fucking soft. You don't always need to hide behind a mask.

 

As you know, life fucking sucks. It's going to kick you in the balls and laugh about it. But you have to adapt. Masks are handy tools, but they're also damning prisons. You have to learn how to best handle various situations using multiple faucets of your personality.

 

But you can't do that, and I understand why. You've been hurt by people who claimed to be your friend. I watched as Cherry and Andx did that to you. But you know what? So what? 

 

They're done. Cherry is long gone from your life, and as far as I know, so is Andx. I've seen him post maybe once or twice, but I'm fairly sure you haven't made the effort to contact him, and considering the note you two parted on, I doubt he really talked to you for long once he got back.

 

You have to learn to adapt Black. You don't know how to do that, that's understandable, but you have to learn that the only side you show is the only side people are going to know. The only side you show to most of YCM is the overly blunt, overly cocky person. But fuck, there are TIMES for that kind of person. But that time isn't all the time. Sometimes you have to be softer. Sometimes you have to nicer.

 

Sometimes we have to take off the masks we wear.

 

But overall I don't like you. So yeah.

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For a long time I thought you legitimately disliked me as a result of your horrible attitude. Having spoken to you on skype now I can tell thats just the way you talk, and you dont mean to be a jerk, but it really does feel like it to most of us.

 

If you could:

 

A: Tone down the swearing. There's nothing inherently wrong with it, but it generally makes you sound like an unreasonable airhead, and makes your arguments, sound as they might be, seem less stable.

 

B: Try keeping people's persons out of your critiques. Calling a card bad or broken or underpowered and explaining why is great, and you do that. But you also tell people they are stupid for making said card, or are stupid for believing one way or another about some topic or other, and that also not only makes your arguments appear less valid, valid as they may in reality be, but it pushes people away.

 

Then I think all of these comments on you above me would change very drastically.

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