Kyng's Old Account Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAXSgssptc0I just couldn't stop laughing to this, I just couldn't!Discuss this, and divorce in general, more so how it can spiral out of control into situations such as the above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Something tells me that there is something wrong with this woman. Seriously, is she allergic to niceness? Anyway, stupid reasons like someone being too nice shouldn't be grounds for a divorce at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 What are you saying? The mere desire of wanting to divorce warrants the divorce in and of itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyng's Old Account Posted August 4, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 What are you saying? The mere desire of wanting to divorce warrants the divorce in and of itself.Maybe the same doesn't apply across the pond, but in the UK divorce usually requires some form of decent reasoning for a divorce. Wanting a divorce in itself seems pretty sketchy in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Wow, this chick is a dumbass xD I understand wanting a divorce, but I can't even fathom why she would. From the sound of things, she has it better than most other people in the world, let alone America. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Maybe the same doesn't apply across the pond, but in the UK divorce usually requires some form of decent reasoning for a divorce. Wanting a divorce in itself seems pretty sketchy in the first place. My point isn't in any terms of legality. I personally believe the desire to divorce is sufficient. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 My point isn't in any terms of legality. I personally believe the desire to divorce is sufficient. It is, but if she's just doing it because she's bored or wanted to be on TV, which is what I took away from this, then that's just a waste of everyone's time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyng's Old Account Posted August 4, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 My point isn't in any terms of legality. I personally believe the desire to divorce is sufficient.Well my point still stands - usually, if you want to divorce, there is a reason behind it. I can't avoid thinking that what you're saying is "Divorcing for the sake of divorcing" is sufficient, to which I'd disagree in saying that it is a waste of everyone's time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Crouton Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 YCM probably doesn't know this, but black women are crazy. Not all of them show it, but the ones who are "sane" have a crazy sista inside ready to come out and act all ignit. This is actually pretty normal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 YCM probably doesn't know this, but black women are crazy. Not all of them show it, but the ones who are "sane" have a crazy sista inside ready to come out and act all ignit. This is actually pretty normal. I wouldn't say all of them do, but to be fair every black women I've ever met has ._. But again, there's probably some that don't have a crazy side to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sora1499 Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 My parents are divorced. This is fucking retarded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wizarus Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Like the top comment said, she's obviously been seeing someone else during the marriage, but couldn't find an excuse to cut him off. Poor guy. I'd like someone to make me full-course meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 YCM probably doesn't know this, but black women are crazy. Not all of them show it, but the ones who are "sane" have a crazy sista inside ready to come out and act all ignit. This is actually pretty normal. Everyone has madness within. Black women are generally dealt the most difficult hands (both when considering the population of North America as well as that of the world as a whole), so they're under the most pressure to identify with depictions of so-called wild women because it's less alienating and/or painful to defy societal boundaries imposed on them than it is to try and compromise with abusers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cin Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Wonder if she was covering the real reason she divorced him. Telling someone they love you more than twice a week is freaky? I tell my mother that more than 2 times a week. And the food, you can just refuse it you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dad Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 There's only one proper response to a lady like this: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 Men have to maintain a balance of aggressiveness and generosity because of survival instincts--you appear more attractive to women if you prove you're able to hold your own and defend a family. Granted, we aren't slaying mammoths on the plains anymore, but it still lies in the blood. Despite this, they already tied the knot. What did the women expect going into it? It's still remains a foolish reason for divorce. Almost kinda odd that this divorce seems to lie on the other side of the spectrum from other common reasons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elijah~ Posted August 4, 2013 Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 That was quite ridiculous. Couples go into court because the woman/man is being mistreated, beaten, etc. this couple had a wonderful relationship and a divorce was not needed. This woman should probably regect on her mistakes or see a psychiatrist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Instinct Posted August 5, 2013 Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 That reason for divorce is really stupid but in my opinion the whole thing seems scripted lol I do agree with Sixty32Zero's point on balance though. Most girl's don't want total jerks but on the other hand they're not too attracted to incredibly nice guys either. A "nice guy" typically agrees with everything the girl says, is insecure and over thinks a lot, and doesn't take the lead on anything, like by always asking her what she wants to do on dates and in relationships. That's a good definition of "too nice" I can't speak for all girls tho since I'm not one, but from what I've seen most girl's prefer a guy who isn't a pushover, is confident with himself around people, and gives a girl attention while also attending to his own priorities and goals in life This probably doesn't apply to the guy character in the show since he seems like a genuine cool guy so sorry if I'm off-topic lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Therrion Posted August 8, 2013 Report Share Posted August 8, 2013 She is idiotic. Divorice is only needed in certain cases, and I don't see being too nice as one of them. However, if she was uncomfortable for any reason whatsoever, it is within her right to want a divorice. I just wish the reasons were more senseable. On the sub topic of balance, I agree. I'm always far too nice and forgiving in my relationships and I've been cheated on all but twice (meaning 5 cheated). Usually, they tell me later that they miss my kindness and say the one they're now with is an asshole, however, they also throw in that they wouldn't want someone AS nice as me. It is obvious that girls lose interest or feel uncomfortable when the guy is too caring/loving/forgiving (funny how they see a romcom and think they want that, by the way), but also don't want the egotistical jerk a lot of men strive to be to women. -Case Closed- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CinnamonStar Posted August 8, 2013 Report Share Posted August 8, 2013 someone's got time fo' dat =D If it's not a show, there might be other reasons or perhaps the couple life just didn't work out anymore. The children must go through a bad time. But then again, it's their money. Personally I would think twice a shitload of times (besides situations of abuse of course) before going through the process of a divorce. And before going through the process of a marriage as well. I can agree with the balance on generosity and self-assertion tough. Well personally, I like a guy with his head on his shoulders (not his head through the fucking roof, but should be able to take the initiative and stand on his ground). The man in the video seems like a real angel though. I would take the home-cooked meals.=o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enrise Posted August 8, 2013 Report Share Posted August 8, 2013 The man in the video seems like a real angel though. I would take the home-cooked meals.=o So would I. And I'm not even that kind of person. But for the four-course meals that are home-cooked? Hell yeah I'll room with him for that. But if that's her reason for divorce, then she needs to get her sh*t straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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