Johan Liebert Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Well, where do I begin? We have like so many similiarities; anime, we're both kind of weird, we both have some depression, and whenever we talk to each other on facebook, both of us say that we have that butterflies-in-your-stomach-feeling, to list a few. We've talked outside of Facebook before, but it's been a while. So yesterday, I asked her if she had a crush on me, and she said a little bit because nobody's been so nice and had so interests with me. So, I said I respect her feelings, I feel the same way, and I didn't really know what to do. So she said we should wait and get more used to each other because I'm pretty shy/nervous around girls... Any advice, ideas, anything to comment on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Congratulations, you now have more dating experience than 90% of YCM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eury Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Don't back down. Keep doing what you're doing for about 2 more weeks, then ask her out. Unless she does so first. However, don't be TOO clingy. Make sure she also has her space. From what you're saying, you pretty much got her in the bag with no worries so good job mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chairman ali Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Honestly the first advice is don't post it on a card making forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Don't back down. Keep doing what you're doing for about 2 more weeks, then ask her out. Unless she does so first. However, don't be TOO clingy. Make sure she also has her space. From what you're saying, you pretty much got her in the bag with no worries so good job mate. Yeah, I see what you mean. Oh, and thanks. :) I'm not like too clingy, but so far she doesn't seem to mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
'tyleR Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 I just want to say be careful if you both suffer from minor depression. Make sure you make each other happy and can bring each other up, not drag them down. Other than that, have fun, that's the only advice I can give! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enrise Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Save your money. Cause otherwise you'll be in debt. ... Wait, you're 14 years old... Forgot I said anything. What is it with people going into relationships at such a young age? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
'tyleR Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Save your money. Cause otherwise you'll be in debt. ... Wait, you're 14 years old... Forgot I said anything. What is it with people going into relationships at such a young age? - 14 isn't that young. So long as he keeps it in his pants he'll be fine. It's basically like testing the waters, but if you're mature enough then it can last for awhile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 - 14 isn't that young. So long as he keeps it in his pants he'll be fine. It's basically like testing the waters, but if you're mature enough then it can last for awhile. Oh, don't worry, I will. xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Therrion Posted August 11, 2013 Report Share Posted August 11, 2013 I think dating at a younger age is actually beneficial. It gives them some experience, teaches them some of their faults they may have not noticed, and helps the maturity process (for some). If I hadn't dated the girls I had, I wouldn't be who I am today, and not only that, but I wouldn't know many things I now know about myself, such as that I really enjoy romance more than lust and poetry. Have fun with her, and don't expect her to last forever. I know that is harsh to say, but just don't bank on it and don't lie to yourself saying it will. Just let it happen, and if it happens, you did so much right that you deserve it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elijah~ Posted August 11, 2013 Report Share Posted August 11, 2013 Congarts bro! I've been exactly where you are except for the Facebook part. I just wanna say that you treat her good but not to good. Also, don't flatter herwith gifts too often but every once in a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted August 12, 2013 Report Share Posted August 12, 2013 Congrats. See, you're lucky you mustered up the courage to straight up confront (albeit on facebook) a girl about her/your feelings directly at 14. You're off to a good start. Being 20 if I said "do you have a crush on me" it'd be fucking creepy. I will now retreat back into my cave of solitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted August 15, 2013 Report Share Posted August 15, 2013 Therrion: Just curious, what happened during your relationships that turned you off lust and poetry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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