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Dating Advice for a Shy 14-year-old boy...


Johan Liebert

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Don't be afraid of getting rejected. Worst case scenario, she says no. Next girl :)

Now, to be fair, a girl I asked out once ended up spreading a story around school about how I asked her out and I was a laughing stock for a really long time. The problem is, if you don't ask someone out, you never know what will happen. And don't be big about it either. You get more chances than one to do it, so just do it.
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Remember, no doesn't always mean no just respect women and try to find a girl you can connect with on a personal level instead of asking out the pretty girl with the large boobs. 

 

Then again I'm 20 and have literately no dating experience, mostly because I'm antisocial and hate people, so I can't really give sound advice. 

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Now, to be fair, a girl I asked out once ended up spreading a story around school about how I asked her out and I was a laughing stock for a really long time. The problem is, if you don't ask someone out, you never know what will happen. And don't be big about it either. You get more chances than one to do it, so just do it.

 

That's a valid point, i shouldn't have been blunt lol. But i think that can be avoided if you're close to a girl first before you ask her out, so you know what kind of personality she has. Unless she's really good at hiding it.

 

I agree though, you never know what opportunities you might be missing if you don't initiate first. A girl you talk to might end up being the one you marry. Slight possibility

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Now, to be fair, a girl I asked out once ended up spreading a story around school about how I asked her out and I was a laughing stock for a really long time. The problem is, if you don't ask someone out, you never know what will happen. And don't be big about it either. You get more chances than one to do it, so just do it.

 

Woah woah, I thought you were gay. 

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I get turned on by books more than anything. And I am not talking about the literature.
Bisexual is so based on physical attributes, sexes of people. I am talking about gender.
Geez, Bisexuality is so mainstream, bro.

Both are pretty mainstream actually.

 

Also, dont just ask someone out. At least get to know them a little & not through friends or word of mouth.

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Not by LGBTQ standards. Bisexuality is a legitmate term, while pansexuality is still under the umbrella terms. In terms of numbers, there are more turned to bisexuality than pansexuality in the community alone, atleast a 25% increase. Bro, you're in my court now.

Numbers mean nothing to me. Spout all the percentages you want they'll fall on deaf ears.

 

I know more pansexuals then bisexuals so I'm going strictly on personal experience.

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Numbers mean nothing to me. Spout all the percentages you want they'll fall on deaf ears.
 
I know more pansexuals then bisexuals so I'm going strictly on personal experience.

....then you really can't have an opinion on it here if you're judging on personal experience. I am talking about an entire community here, not based on my personal experience.
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....then you really can't have an opinion on it here if you're judging on personal experience. I am talking about an entire community here, not based on my personal experience.

The problem with basing on an entire community is that you'd need to find "everyone" within the community yourself before I could consider your argument valid. Because like I said, numbers mean nothing to me.

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The problem with basing on an entire community is that you'd need to find "everyone" within the community yourself before I could consider your argument valid. Because like I said, numbers mean nothing to me.

You don't need to find everyone. That is complete percentage. Nothing is complete. I am talking strictly about the numbers because the community did it based on more than just a few people, it was out of the entire community or those who fell in. Which, if I do remember correctly, was somewhere in about 3,000,000 or more. And, if you're talking about mainstream, you have to include the higher account of people.
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You don't need to find everyone. That is complete percentage. Nothing is complete. I am talking strictly about the numbers because the community did it based on more than just a few people, it was out of the entire community or those who fell in. Which, if I do remember correctly, was somewhere in about 3,000,000 or more. And, if you're talking about mainstream, you have to include the higher account of people.

Still not good enough for me.

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