Headmaster Monokuma Posted April 3, 2013 Report Share Posted April 3, 2013 If he wants to live his life for his career, that's his choice. I don't see why you all have to pry into it so much when he seems to have understood how much work it takes to make it in the industry he wants to be a part of. I admire his dedication for one. I can't say I agree with how he expresses it so vocally, but I admire how much effort I can see he's going to be putting into it and the dedication that goes with it. I do think that his posts tend to look down on people who put a focus on their relationships, and I do think that can be toned down, but most of the people who he does that to tend to look down on his career oriented lifestyle first, which is incredibly rude. He knows that he wouldn't be able to attend to a family along with his career, which does take a lot more work then people tend to realize. So he doesn't plan on having one. Not everyone has a thriving need for human relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 3, 2013 Report Share Posted April 3, 2013 Thank you Judge. But the only reason I'm mean is: A) I don't feel the need to be nice unless I'm real familiar to you or I'm required to or I find you respectable. B.) It's how I'm naturally am. Blame genetics and environment for that. Nice people in my family won't last long. Not to mention, would you really want possible-VK-spawn-#1 to be a latch key kid, with a father who isn't there and grow up to be stain upon society and my family? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted April 3, 2013 Report Share Posted April 3, 2013 Well... your reaction seems pretty cold. Not surprising, given what I know about you. Could have probably handled it better, though. At least talk to her for five minutes, explain your solitary life plan, and why you wanna do it. Yeah, I know what it's like to miss out on things with family. I've been doing my job for just a bit over a year, and I've already missed Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, and several birthdays. Soon as my contract is up, I'm done here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Goddamn it. Two days and you people still aren't talking. New topic: Is it okay for women to cheat on their boyfriends or husbands while they're deployed? Apparently from their perspective, it's a okay. I fucking hate the people I'm forced to hang out in cars during family outings sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eisei Proxy Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Okay i'll talk... Basically, no it isn't okay, if women were deployed they would hate to come home and find their respective other cheating, there's that whole sanctity of marriage crap to contend with, too. Once it all boils down to the bear bones it's wrong and it ends up a double standard if seen from the other angle, should a woman cheat on a deployed man, it's wrong, if a man does the same, it's wrong, end of story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 I'm not very find of people I'm forced to be around a majority of the time, either. Ergo "forced." I'd prefer not to be with most people most of the time. Many people around are idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Proxy: Unfortunately, women I've talked to don't see it that way. They see men cheating meaning men are horrible. But when women starts cheating on her husband, it's because he's not as romantic as he used to be or it's starting to get boring. All the while most guys I've talked to would only dream of cheating only if nothing is going on in bed. Doesn't help that tumblrfemnazis are encouraging women to cheat on their partners when things go south or blame all men for women cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eisei Proxy Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 It#s part of the human genome to shift blame form ourselves onto others, why shouldn't it be done here?, nobody will actively take the blame for cheating, and if they do, it's either born of long-standing self-hatred or a progressive downward spiral of depression resulting in that conceptual self-loathing. or it's used as a manipulative tool, and less of a sincere regret, leaving it for appearance, this of course, is more suited to humanity's psychological state. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Of course sadly I'm playing a part in an affair. Not having sex mind you but I'm keeping my mouth shut about my older bro cheating on his girlfriend and vice versa. They don't know about each other having sexual relations with their friends. Now you might be asking why am I doing this to them? Because I want to see the fallout. I want to see my older bro snap again, his girlfriend pull the rape card and him most likely sent to jail for being a moron dating a girl 5 years younger then him. But personally, it's pay back for nearly snapping my neck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Sadly, people have yet to notice that when men talk down on women, they call it sexism and talk about it being horrible. Then, when women do [i]exactly the same thing[/i] to men, they call it feminism and praise them for it. -.-; As for cheating, no. It is never okay. If you can't keep yourself faithful to someone in a relationship, it doesn't matter if you're a man/woman, if he/she's deployed/away/whatever, then you don't need to be in that relationship in the first place. I'm gonna quote a picture I've seen a lot of women put on facebook: "Relationships are not tests, so why cheat?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eisei Proxy Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 VK: I see where you're coming from, personally i'd do the same thing in your position, may be a slight bit sociopathic and vindictive, but it's right to pursue revenge, in my opinion at least; "alls fair in love and war" comes to mind, nobody said it had to be your love. Gerra: It seems we all share the same ideological stance on cheating in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugendramon Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Of course sadly I'm playing a part in an affair. Not having sex mind you but I'm keeping my mouth shut about my older bro cheating on his girlfriend and vice versa. They don't know about each other having sexual relations with their friends. Now you might be asking why am I doing this to them? Because I want to see the fallout. I want to see my older bro snap again, his girlfriend pull the rape card and him most likely sent to jail for being a moron dating a girl 5 years younger then him. But personally, it's pay back for nearly snapping my neck. Word of advice here though, don't rule out other possible outcomes. Sometimes those who are both in fault to each other can reach forgiveness. Your show might end up ruined. I've seen it happen in a situation particularly like the one you've described. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 MUST I KEEP THIS CLUB ACTIVE? New Topic: Tell me. How trustful are you guys with your partners? I personally can't seem to find the logic in placing your love, emotions, care, etc, into a basket that could implode any moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Althemia Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 MUST I KEEP THIS CLUB ACTIVE? New Topic: Tell me. How trustful are you guys with your partners? I personally can't seem to find the logic in placing your love, emotions, care, etc, into a basket that could implode any moment.110% of my trust is in my partner. Mainly because of the fact that I do genuinely love them and I know that they do genuinely love me too, just from some of the acts that we've done for each other. Honestly, think about the long term is silly in terms of relationships. You should really just aim to make every day with your partner count. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Thing is, I don't really trust people. Hell, I don't really trust my family. Seriously, fuck my older bro, mom, and dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugendramon Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 What Lily said pretty much. Long distance relationships are such a pain in the ass to deal with, but once you meet up with your partner, you have the most enjoyable experience you could ask for. I trust her with my being and hopefully so does she. I do think of others, but it's perfectly normal and I don't suppose she has a problem with that much. On the fact that you feel you should "keep the club alive", do consider that the subject of love and relationships in internet forums might not always be the hottest of topics. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Eh true. But I dislike seeing clubs being inactive unless my attention is called else where. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Eh true. But I dislike seeing clubs being inactive unless my attention is called else where. No matter how much you don't trust your family, it's obvious you still trust me and your other Internet pals. We're more than a family, you know. You and I exclusively, I mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 No matter how much you don't trust your family, it's obvious you still trust me and your other Internet pals. We're more than a family, you know. You and I exclusively, I mean. More then a family Oh Hina, I didn't know we were married! Anyhow, back on track. That's because of several reasons: 1) You've earned my respect 2) Me telling you stuff about my life will not have negative outcomes on my life 3) I like venting with you 4) We still haven't done that psycho analysis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Oh, no. We're not married. That would also imply that we're in a family, but we've transcended that. So much to the point where you've completely changed as a person mentally, but still type the same things you would prior to meeting me with other people. 1) I'm a bit unsure how. 2) You're right. 3) I didn't know. 4) When I'm less busy. Anyway, I can't do this being paired with multiple people at once thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cocodomoco Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hi, How do i join this interesting club? Are you in a relationship?: Nope. Do you have love experience?: Erm i guess i could say yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miror B Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hi, How do i join this interesting club? Are you in a relationship?: Nope. Do you have love experience?: Erm i guess i could say yes. I'm pretty sure you just did~ And I have not been paying attention to this thing at all >.< Anyway, I can't do this being paired with multiple people at once thing. Good luck with that. Knowing YCM you're gonna get paired with the tree in the backyard.On the fact that you feel you should "keep the club alive", do consider that the subject of love and relationships in internet forums might not always be the hottest of topics. Amen to that. Especially when the internet is open to a wide variety of failed relationships like my one relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted April 11, 2013 Report Share Posted April 11, 2013 I know, Miror. YCM likes making pairings for humor, but I've always had quite a bit more than I preferred. Actually, I wouldn't want to be paired with anybody right now at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted April 11, 2013 Report Share Posted April 11, 2013 I just read in Akatsuki about you being paired with DL, though... As for trust, I generally don't trust people I know IRL. There are some times when it's required, especially with my job. (Goddess how I can't wait for my contract to end... -.-;) but, when I was in a relationship, I trusted her with everything I had and found. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted April 11, 2013 Report Share Posted April 11, 2013 I just read in Akatsuki about you being paired with DL, though... As for trust, I generally don't trust people I know IRL. There are some times when it's required, especially with my job. (Goddess how I can't wait for my contract to end... -.-;) but, when I was in a relationship, I trusted her with everything I had and found. Does somebody think I have that sort of relationship with DL? We haven't spoken in several weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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