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Oh... well... does skype record calls? and you would not understand a word we would be saying, we speek portuguese.

Buf if you have skype add me, just check my profile for my account.

I would understand :3

 

Haha, I think I will add you later ;D

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Okay guys, just checked the tracking thing on the post office site... it has been delivered, but she will only get home form college late night... actualy that fact of her college is really getting me down lately, we barelly have time together, when we are together she normaly complains about being hungry or sleepy and leaves not long after she gets online, and she hasn't been feeling well lately, she has been quite distant... things are going real bad, and getting to worst since my phone is nuts, I have classes all day on the only day she is free, I haven't been at my best either cause she has been down... I really am an insecure little bitch some times...

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Okay guys, just checked the tracking thing on the post office site... it has been delivered, but she will only get home form college late night... actualy that fact of her college is really getting me down lately, we barelly have time together, when we are together she normaly complains about being hungry or sleepy and leaves not long after she gets online, and she hasn't been feeling well lately, she has been quite distant... things are going real bad, and getting to worst since my phone is nuts, I have classes all day on the only day she is free, I haven't been at my best either cause she has been down... I really am an insecure little bitch some times...

 

Awwh well you know classes can really just throw a bunch of work at you, and I really think you should calm down a bit. I'm sure she's fine. She's probably just worn out. 

 

 

Oh and did I mention how fucking unfair it is that I'm a freshman. Seriously there are these really really attractive guys in my class, and they are so nice, and funny too. But sadly I don't wanna flirt back since I'm like 15, and they are around 17. But it's ironic how much time I spend with one of the guys. I literally work on a case with him, and I spend my Sunday afternoons listening to him talk in this really good country accent. Like damn it. I sometimes wish I was older so I could actually like guys like that and not get called a slut by half the school. -__-

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If you really like a guy 2 years older than you, who cares if the school calls you a slut?

I wouldn't care .-.

 

I don't exactly think I like him. I'm just going through a phrase. Now if I like a person for more then two months then I can trust myself in getting close to them, and at one point telling them. The thing is, he's a great person but he just doesn't leave me with that " I need more of you" feeling. See I'm starting to know when I actually like someone, and I promise you. I don't like him on that level. Yes I'd totally go on a date with him, but I don't think he would get under my skin. 

 

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And eh, I'd rather not have that title. 

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Awwh well you know classes can really just throw a bunch of work at you, and I really think you should calm down a bit. I'm sure she's fine. She's probably just worn out. 

Yeah, on the second day she already had like 7 works to do... but the think tht pisses me the most is tha ton her only free day, I have classes all day...
well I think I should just get used to it for now that there is a part of her life that I praticaly don't exist other than an ocupation holder. untill our phones are back working and she doesn't have a notebook, we will have very limited contact.

 

(btw she is oppenign the package at this very moment... can't record it tho...

her giggles are just so lovely~<3<3<3<3<3<3

awn!!! her soft and slight moaning hums of her tasting the chocolates~<3<3<3<3<3<3

I may be acting even sweeter than the chocolates at this very moment, warning you may get diabetes from this post over sweetness.)

 

Oh and did I mention how fucking unfair it is that I'm a freshman. Seriously there are these really really attractive guys in my class, and they are so nice, and funny too. But sadly I don't wanna flirt back since I'm like 15, and they are around 17. But it's ironic how much time I spend with one of the guys. I literally work on a case with him, and I spend my Sunday afternoons listening to him talk in this really good country accent. Like damn it. I sometimes wish I was older so I could actually like guys like that and not get called a slut by half the school. -__-

 

Actualy I don't recall you mentioning that... but I can understand that, I have seen that happening before, dunno really what to say other than that you shouldn't care much but what people say, but I know very well how things people say can be harmfull... so I'm sorry I can't really help. :/

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Gabe, college takes everyone's time, but none the less be vigilant and try to connect to her emotionally or you might have a huge problem on your hand.  If she's tired, try to make her relax via rubs and shit.  Women should still like back and or foot rubs.  If she all of a suddenly pull a 180 and start pretending is fine, something is wrong and start investigating or else you'll lose her forever.  From what I've seen, this is an indicator that she might something on her mind.  If for any reason she admits to being wrong or tries to distract you from a conversation about something, she's hiding something bad and potentially a relationship breaker.  Just focus on reminding her that you're there.

 

Rapid, as long as you ain't being a slut (Which is apparently hard for women your generation.) you'll be fine.

 

Just remember, if you fucked more people (Which includes sucking, tugging, etc.) then the square number of your age, you're a slut and beyond the point of saving.

 

Honestly, if he's 4 YEARS OR OLDER then that's a problem.  But none the less be vigilant.  Who knows what he's doing nor who's he's doing at that age.  But then again if you don't like him, leave him gently.  Do not tease, do not say anything that might give him hope or anything.  And make sure you're sure about this.  Think long and hard.  Once he's gone, most likely he's gone for good.

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Gabe, college takes everyone's time, but none the less be vigilant and try to connect to her emotionally or you might have a huge problem on your hand.  If she's tired, try to make her relax via rubs and shit.  Women should still like back and or foot rubs.  If she all of a suddenly pull a 180 and start pretending is fine, something is wrong and start investigating or else you'll lose her forever.  From what I've seen, this is an indicator that she might something on her mind.  If for any reason she admits to being wrong or tries to distract you from a conversation about something, she's hiding something bad and potentially a relationship breaker.  Just focus on reminding her that you're there.

 

I apreciate what you tried to say, but... seriously, do not say that again, that for a couple reasons, 1- She ain't like that and I find it ofensive and disrespectful that someone would say that about her, I don't like when people disrespect my princess, no matter who it is. 2- Do not poke my scars, she has been doing a long and tiring job to cover them up, but they are still easy to reach.
Actualy that goes to everyone.

 

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Sorry, got a bit out of myself there.

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I didn't know but now I know so thanks.

 

I'll keep that in mind for the future.  Though do realize I was said that with good intentions and it's how I'd react.  Then again I'm fucking paranoid and probably be more paranoid in relationships.  Thank god I stay the fuck away from that cluster fuck.  It's just not my cup of tea.

 

I'd rather die alone then with someone.

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I didn't know but now I know so thanks.

 

I'll keep that in mind for the future.  Though do realize I was said that with good intentions and it's how I'd react.  Then again I'm fucking paranoid and probably be more paranoid in relationships.  Thank god I stay the fuck away from that cluster fuck.  It's just not my cup of tea.

 

I'd rather die alone then with someone.

 

I understand that you said that with the best of the intentions, and I thank you for that. But keep what I said in mind. and I now you there on the paranoid part.
 

And I'd rather be left here after the one I'm with dies, so they don't have to live with the pain of losse, I can handle that by myself, but can't let the one I'm with feeling it.

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And that, VK, is where you and I are polar opposites, as you have no doubt noticed. Honestly, I'd probably give my left leg to have that girl back... Though I think I've moved on enough to where I'd be comfortable with seeking someone else. I really don't like being alone...

 

Rapid... I don't know what to tell you. Honestly, I don't see why people get so worked up about age. I really don't care.

 

Gabe: So, she apparently tried the chocolates. anything after that?

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Gabe, college takes everyone's time, but none the less be vigilant and try to connect to her emotionally or you might have a huge problem on your hand.  If she's tired, try to make her relax via rubs and shit.  Women should still like back and or foot rubs.  If she all of a suddenly pull a 180 and start pretending is fine, something is wrong and start investigating or else you'll lose her forever.  From what I've seen, this is an indicator that she might something on her mind.  If for any reason she admits to being wrong or tries to distract you from a conversation about something, she's hiding something bad and potentially a relationship breaker.  Just focus on reminding her that you're there.

 

Rapid, as long as you ain't being a slut (Which is apparently hard for women your generation.) you'll be fine.

 

Just remember, if you fucked more people (Which includes sucking, tugging, etc.) then the square number of your age, you're a slut and beyond the point of saving.

 

Honestly, if he's 4 YEARS OR OLDER then that's a problem.  But none the less be vigilant.  Who knows what he's doing nor who's he's doing at that age.  But then again if you don't like him, leave him gently.  Do not tease, do not say anything that might give him hope or anything.  And make sure you're sure about this.  Think long and hard.  Once he's gone, most likely he's gone for good.

 

Haha. Me? Oh man clearly you don't know me. I have a sexy imagination, not a sexually active body. I'm too good to do stuff like that. And I wanna clear this up, I'm a virgin. And I'm not gonna lie I don't give a care. Sex is so not on my mind right now. Really I'd rather cuddle, and watch movies with my partner. 

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And that, VK, is where you and I are polar opposites, as you have no doubt noticed. Honestly, I'd probably give my left leg to have that girl back... Though I think I've moved on enough to where I'd be comfortable with seeking someone else. I really don't like being alone...

 

Rapid... I don't know what to tell you. Honestly, I don't see why people get so worked up about age. I really don't care.

 

Gabe: So, she apparently tried the chocolates. anything after that?

Her mom and dad showed up to see what I sent her, she snuggled and sniffed on the sweatshirt so she could scent me, her parents saw what I gave her, and now we are chatting on skype since then.

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Gen:  I'm paranoid and I'm naturally heartless.  That doesn't go too well.  Sure I'm just as venerable if not more emotionally as everyone else. Hell, even when I think about relationships, I get voices screaming in my head how it'll all end.  I get visions in my head of how he or she is just using me.  Then I always see fucked up relationships in my life confirming my suspicions.  Not to mention I enjoy being alone.  It gives me time and concentration to do what I love.  Not to mention my dream job will not leave me time or energy to pursue and maintain a relationship.

 

Rapid:  While I do not doubt your status, just keep in mind this.

 

It's a slippery slope for women and men due to their hubris.  Sometimes even more so for women.

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Rapid:  While I do not doubt your status, just keep in mind this.

 

It's a slippery slope for women and men due to their hubris.  Sometimes even more so for women.

 

Well, I'm really just out of words. I can't believe that you actually think that I of all people would blow a guy off. Seriously? I'm not even gonna bother changing your views on me. 

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I didn't say you would.

 

I'm just saying beware and be careful at your current age.  It is in my limited understanding of women at your age that you'd be pressured into that kind of shit.  Back in my time in middle and high school, I've seen (In some cases literally) some girls younger, some girls around your age, and some older doing even more nastier shit.  Then again I was in the more "ghetto" areas so that might have something to do with it.

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@Rapid: Well said. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't have said it any other way.

 

So, I'm in a bit of a struggle right now. It has been almost a week since I've talked to Spike. I'm getting worried about him cause I don't know what's going on. Yea, I could be worrying myself to death though I do miss him greatly.

 

*drinks some water*

 

On a side note, I've been a bit sick lately though it isn't serious enough for me to stay home from school. So that adds to my struggles atm. Other than that, I'm doing fine.

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I didn't say you would.

 

I'm just saying beware and be careful at your current age.  It is in my limited understanding of women at your age that you'd be pressured into that kind of shit.  Back in my time in middle and high school, I've seen (In some cases literally) some girls younger, some girls around your age, and some older doing even more nastier shit.  Then again I was in the more "ghetto" areas so that might have something to do with it.

 

I don't really think you should judge girls "My Age" on some stereotype. And I'm not being mean but seriously don't try to prove something you have no idea about. I hope you get the fact that all girls aren't just sluts, and you really shouldn't throw words like that at people you don't even know. 

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Like I can keep up with all these name changes.  That and I'm too lazy.   But don't despair, it might be the storm if he's up north.  Or he's busy with work or family.  But I can't beat you there, if I was with someone I'd want to talk to him/her/it all the damn time.

 

 

Anyhow, Rapid, if I thought all women were sluts I would have said so flat out and treated the female members of the club much more harshly as I've met sluts before and they annoy me.  I would have rained destruction, insults, and shit down on you all if I thought all women were sluts.  Alot.

 

But I don't think they're all sluts.  Just a horrible few ruining their lives and I actually pity and lament the lost of some possibly creative minds.

 

I only allowed the rotten apples to spoil my view of women in my locale.  Online and in other places, I'm neutral until someone or something changes that.  

Plus I base most things on what I see happen or have experienced, in this case, I saw the worst examples and thus based it on that.  Sure, I still give people the benefit of the doubt, but my expectations are set low.  That's why I didn't hanged out with jocks and hipsters. They only fulfilled my expectations in the worst ways but they still have redeeming qualities and for that I helped them out when they had problems. They weren't as bad but some things they did I never forgiven.  In this case, I see/have experienced/heard you as an moderate-moderately high intelligent female that seem to have an understanding of what she wants.  Hence my expectations of you are actually quite high.  To me, I see you as similar to my friends.  Not the sick fuck ones like certain people but normal and well adjusted.  If I had thought of you any lower I would have shown it.  Instead, I try to get across that your one of the few people I actually stand to be around.  Like Hina.  She's wonderful to have around and I enjoy talking to her.

 

 

Now I was trying to convey (Badly) was me wanting you to know not to ruin your life.  To not get started to do that stuff now where it'll ruin your life, have rumors carried around with you and ruin any chances at happiness.  I actually know you don't really need it but none the less, it's better safe then sorry.  It's just that in my head, you might be pressured into something you don't want and it'll ruin your life and I don't want that happening to the few people I enjoy talking to.  

 

What I'm trying to get across is this.

 

You're on the right road to life, don't slip now.  Don't ever.  I hope you never slip nor get off of it.  I slipped long ago one part due to me and how naive I was to people, one part due to others hating my guts.  Don't let other people or yourself let you slip.  Those kinds of people tend to blindside you.

 

Of course.

 

I can't really judge you at all.

 

Nor can I judge anyone else in this club due to not knowing them all that well compared to my IRL friends.  Thanks to the stuff we went through and did, we know each other's morals and mind setting.  All I can do is give you my concerns, hopes, and advice.

 

Also realize I don't post anything here out of hostility.  In fact the tone of that advice out of hope.  You seem to got a good thing going so far.  It's refreshing to know someone isn't in a FUBAR relationship once in a while.  Well, even if you guys and gals aren't here with my IRL, it's nice having good/bad news that you guys bring.  It could be certainly worse compared to the shitstorms I have to live through in my family.

 

How about we forget about this before it turns into something ugly.  I admit I might have worded all of this badly and let it spiraled into something I know (Hopefully) we don't want in this club.

 

Please?

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Honestly I have a paper due in a couple of hours, and I really don't have the mental power to read anymore. Like I got to half of what you said before it all started turning in to me just looking at letters. But I kinda get ya. I still feel as though you should have a nicer way of thinking about this stuff, but trust me. I can't slip when it comes to stuff like that. I have faith in myself, and I'm not worried because I tend to use common sense. But alright I saw a please at the end of that sentence so I'm guessing that paragraph was sincere? Eh, alright.

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