Spirit of DMG Posted February 13, 2013 Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 Talk to him? No. Her? I talk to her... We've established that as long as certain topics are avoided, we can still be, and are, in fact, close friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted February 13, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 O_o Honestly if I were you, I wouldn't even want to be NEAR her .____. Was the break-up at least okay, or was it sudden? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted February 13, 2013 Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 I actually am curious to hear the story but idk if you'd wanna share it. Also Hina You are seriously the most amusing person ever xD omg I can't even tell if you are serious or not xDD Hey, why wouldn't I be serious, Moe-DL-chan? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 13, 2013 Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 Man it's going rough for some of you guys on here. I hope everything turns out alright. I on the other hand plan on having a nice valentines day. Thinking about getting cupcakes for the flute section in band. I can't help but love all of them, they are all so nice and sweet. Oh and don't think I'm leaving out any of my other friends, I plan on finishing all of my letters tonight. Gonna have a great valentines day. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted February 13, 2013 Report Share Posted February 13, 2013 My Valentines day is just going to be me trying not to let my head get at me like it does everyday. So essentially, I'll be a bitter weak jerk. Exactly like I feel most of the time. I'm just getting so angry at my bodies inability to let go, and I'm sick of it. But of course tomorrow I'll see her, just like everyday, and if she's the slightest bit nice to me, I'll get hopeful and just get hurt by the end of the week. Now, sorry for sounding like a whinny piece of crap. Though I'm sure no one will really care. I can only hope everyone else has a good day, or at least not an entirely horrible one. So yeah, enjoy everyone have fun with your significant other/ your friends/ whoever you spend time with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 I could potentially have a good day, if bout for the fact the higher ups like making us guys with lower rank stand around hunting leprechauns or unicorns or something. I don't even know what we're doing most of the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Firstly, good luck with your situation MI. You'll need it. ;) Second, I got a huge issue. But I'd like to know if anyone would like to hear it. I really feel like sharing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 That's what this club is here for, C4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 VALENTINE'S DAY IS TOMORROW AND I CURSE MYSELF FOR WEARING MY HEART ON MY SLEEVE GOODNESS So much is going to happen tomorrow and I don't know if I'm ready for that, but if I always wait for when I'm ready, then nothing will get done. Ahhh should be an interesting day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 It'll be okay, Marisa-Sama! We'll both get through Singles Awarness Day somehow! Hmmm... Come to think of it, the environment it causes creates a perfect opportunity to say something to a certain senior, if you haven't already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Okay, so most of you are already aware of my situation with me lying about being in a relationship. Well, I took advice from a friend of mine and decided to take a step back and not worry about it, ESPECIALLY since she isn't a Christian like me. And, that relieved some tension and I was glad about it. HOWEVER... Today, I decided to sit somewhere else during my lunch period, and a Candy Gram Pre-Sale was going on, so I decided to try and get something, though I waited all lunchtime and I didn't get a chance to pay for something until the end of the day. But while I was waiting to no end, I saw her near the main entrance along with another girl who annoys the hell out of me. And it turns out, that annoying girl found out my dirty little secret, and my suspicions about there still being a man my "girlfriend" has betrayed were right from the beginning. I had feared that somebody would find out eventually, and now I fear that this girl will start spreading this to everybody without hearing my side of the story. Before, i had intentions of going to see Dr. Phil, but I knew that my mom would grow suspicious of this had she found out. *Sigh* Now I know this girl definitely betrayed the man he was with, and my life is at risk once again. And this time, the risk is even higher now that I know some of the truth. And I didn't even need to ask her avout this other man. Can somebody help me by any chance? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 You keep saying she betrayed him, an you just pointed out that she's not Christian. C4, do you remember back when this was first brought up? Poly-Amerous? Recall that? Yeah... Try asking about it. Just say you heard her talking to someone about it. Which would be the truth. As for the other situation... Just confront her, really. Only thing I can think of. Try to explain to her about it, and if that doesn work out, maybe one of these other guys has something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 [quote name="Reiji Kokonoe" post="6143300" timestamp="1360812774"]You keep saying she betrayed him, an you just pointed out that she's not Christian. C4, do you remember back when this was first brought up? Poly-Amerous? Recall that? Yeah... Try asking about it. Just say you heard her talking to someone about it. Which would be the truth. As for the other situation... Just confront her, really. Only thing I can think of. Try to explain to her about it, and if that doesn work out, maybe one of these other guys has something.[/quote] 0_o Enlighten me again about the poly-amerous thing? I forget. And I think you're missing my point somewhat. Someone was suspicious about the whole relationship thing from the start and she just flat out says to me, "You don't kiss, you don't talk. And she said her boyfriend is picking her up. You two aren't together." Not only did I find out what I wanted to find out, it came at a risk. I just don't think confronting her would get anywhere tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted February 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 You say your life is at risk But for all we know, this guy could just be a big wimp Think about it, if he wasn't, why would this girl be cheating on him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thar Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Hey DL, ya mind changing my status to "in a relati-" *wakes up* ... Goddammit... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Wait wait wait wait wait. Hold up Are you "dating" a girl who is cheating on her "official" boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 He didn't know that she was cheating on her boyfriend with him. Unfortunately, the only way make yourself look good will end up with her getting hated for it. I mean, she deserves it for using you like that, but that's what it comes down to.As for "Single Awareness Day", my comment on it is "Let me know when you've wasted five or six years regretting that you never had the courage to ask out the person you've had feelings for." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reinforce Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Oh, this is already the fifth valentines day that I'm regretting that but what will happen will happen, and besides, the day is nearly over for me anyway so I won't have to cope with being single on valentimes day for much longer at least. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 As for "Single Awareness Day", my comment on it is "Let me know when you've wasted five or six years regretting that you never had the courage to ask out the person you've had feelings for." My reply is "Let me know if you've never seen a point to the day nor had anybody to have feelings for instead of making a hasty generalization about cases to the whole group. Thank you and please learn from your recklessness." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Okay so while my friend didnt amange to confess, he ddid well...guess her money to buy her own chocolate o-o well at least it was something so I didn't go ahead with my threat and esides she gave him chocolate back so alls well that ends well for now though im wondreing whenll they finalling get together and make out because im getting ored of their every-single-day loveydoveyness. anyway as for me i dunno its kinda hard to epxlain things jsut happen..oh hell i nverer kenw how hard it was to type after drinkning dsjkereufewbethegfd apolgze ifmy typeuing is illegible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 I managed to read it, Mercy, no worries. Though, did you forget where the "B" button is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 He didn't know that she was cheating on her boyfriend with him. Unfortunately, the only way make yourself look good will end up with her getting hated for it. I mean, she deserves it for using you like that, but that's what it comes down to. Thank you. Glad somebody understands my situation, cause you just summarized it for me Roxas. ;) You say your life is at risk But for all we know, this guy could just be a big wimp Think about it, if he wasn't, why would this girl be cheating on him? I say my life is at risk because I am unaware of WHO this guy is, and if he's kind of like those stereotyped easily-breakable guys who can snap at the slightest sign of betrayal (Not saying he is, but you just never know), then I'm screwed. I know that this man still is around, but I gotta find out who he is. When I do, I can determine how he is, what he does, and what makes him tick. I think the only time I had a slight understanding on who he is, is when I heard his name was Chris, but I might be wrong on that. Plus, I would understand being with a wimp has its means of backfire. But she could have at least break up with him and give it about a week or two BEFORE coming on to me. "Don't just go asking around like the only reason for you doing that is to get in every man's pants and expect different outcomes!" is what I would say if I was courageous enough to do so. -_- Granted, she hasn't done anything like that, I just wish I wouldn't hesitate to confront her. Basically, my Asperger's constantly gets in my way of doing what I know is right. You wanna know why? Even though I myself am doing the right thing, if it involves upsetting a girl that I had befriended, then guilt will be poured onto me regardless of it being the right thing or not. I try to resist it, but I fail miserably. I hate the guilt sometimes, cause I know that I should be doing this, but why do I always have this feeling of guilt and regret for upsetting women that I wish to be out of my life? :unsure: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 He didn't know that she was cheating on her boyfriend with him. Unfortunately, the only way make yourself look good will end up with her getting hated for it. I mean, she deserves it for using you like that, but that's what it comes down to. As for "Single Awareness Day", my comment on it is "Let me know when you've wasted five or six years regretting that you never had the courage to ask out the person you've had feelings for." As for this comment, my response is why the fuck do I want a boyfriend or girlfriend when I'm happily single and focused on my projects. The projects which I need for my portfolio to help me get my dream job which will require all my time and energy leaving no time for pleasantries like going out, talking to loved ones, or even socializing with my friends. Even then, if I do become a video game designer and for what ever strange reason have a girl or boyfriend, my job will require me to live at work, only going home to sleep for 9 months at least. Do you really think I'm that idiotic? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Do you really think I'm that idiotic? After reading that, yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 14, 2013 Report Share Posted February 14, 2013 Thank you. Glad somebody understands my situation, cause you just summarized it for me Roxas. ;) I say my life is at risk because I am unaware of WHO this guy is, and if he's kind of like those stereotyped easily-breakable guys who can snap at the slightest sign of betrayal (Not saying he is, but you just never know), then I'm screwed. I know that this man still is around, but I gotta find out who he is. When I do, I can determine how he is, what he does, and what makes him tick. I think the only time I had a slight understanding on who he is, is when I heard his name was Chris, but I might be wrong on that. Plus, I would understand being with a wimp has its means of backfire. But she could have at least break up with him and give it about a week or two BEFORE coming on to me. "Don't just go asking around like the only reason for you doing that is to get in every man's pants and expect different outcomes!" is what I would say if I was courageous enough to do so. -_- Granted, she hasn't done anything like that, I just wish I wouldn't hesitate to confront her. Basically, my Asperger's constantly gets in my way of doing what I know is right. You wanna know why? Even though I myself am doing the right thing, if it involves upsetting a girl that I had befriended, then guilt will be poured onto me regardless of it being the right thing or not. I try to resist it, but I fail miserably. I hate the guilt sometimes, cause I know that I should be doing this, but why do I always have this feeling of guilt and regret for upsetting women that I wish to be out of my life? :unsure: All you need is twenty seconds of courage, and then everything will fall in to place. As for this comment, my response is why the fuck do I want a boyfriend or girlfriend when I'm happily single and focused on my projects. The projects which I need for my portfolio to help me get my dream job which will require all my time and energy leaving no time for pleasantries like going out, talking to loved ones, or even socializing with my friends. Even then, if I do become a video game designer and for what ever strange reason have a girl or boyfriend, my job will require me to live at work, only going home to sleep for 9 months at least. Do you really think I'm that idiotic? Well your not idiotic, but to prosper in life a person needs friends, and family. If you shut yourself out to become successful then your never gonna make it. It's important to have relationships. They can be romantic or just friendly, but we all need them. Learning how to react feel, and being able to tell the difference between harmful people is important. I'd say learn it now, and not later on in life when your busy. So find that balance where you can have friends and maybe even a relationship but still get good grades. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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