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[Tourmaline]

So it's perfectly fine to offend an entire group of people because love is involved? And I really wouldn't call it love yet.

Yar har har Kokonoob.
Silly, NAIVE Kokonoob.

Well, well, well.... *I slowly clap and smile lightly as I'm looking out a window when you enter the final boss room.*

Your character arc was entertaining, but it looks like the eroge that is your life doesn't go much further than this battle. You must merely make the right decisions and be felled by me. Your story will be a tragic one, but you shall still remain in the hearts of those party members who you left behind to perish on my floor a few rooms back.

Heh....
Heheheh.....
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
I always knew YOU would be the one tenacious enough to persist to my feet as you do now! Your chances at success never existed, no matter what sort of resolve you and your party firmly held! As I crushed the will of all others who tried, I will shatter your spirit and reveal to you the Kokonoob you truly are! Prepare to die!
*Final boss music.*

Level: 63
HP: 170000
MP: 4500
Strength: 300
Magic: 350
Defense: 190
Magic Defense: 215
Agility: 200
_________________________
WHAT DO?!
-ATTACK
-MAGIC
-DEFEND
-ITEMS
-RUN AWAY
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Of course it's fine. Offend whoever you want in the name of love. I thought you were aware the power of love conquered all, including the supernatural, despite how heartless love really is.

In terms of physiology, that is.

Anyway, how can you dub it valid or not when you're neither of the people in question? Are you capable of seeing their private conversations and their true emotions? If you are, send me a message somewhere so that we can discuss the use of such amazing powers.

I can't remember if people here were still talking about sexual orientation. I don't really care about gender, sex or species. I'm kind of like a blank circle. A white apathy going on forever, not caring to be stained by the color of any gender/sex/species. I wonder how long it'll take for an interspecies relationship to be legal.

[Great Unclean One: VK]

 

Tis perfectly describes my orientation.

[Merci]

I'm kind of like a blank circle. A white apathy going on forever, not caring to be stained by the color of any gender/sex/species.

 

False. You're just an N-sided polygon, as mortal and finite as the rest of us, not a blank immortal capable of claiming oneself to be. Also, you stain yourself more than you know, all human beings do. They think they're all so pure, but this vanity in itself can cause impurity and improper judgment. And just like the rest of us, you would hesitate when faced with a species that disgusts you - you will force yourself to adapt to it, to conform to your ideals, but the fact is that you hesitated and were temporarily stained.

 

Your attempts at surpassing humanity (whether intentional or not) amuse me.

 

 

Spike and I love each other, and that is what matters here~

 

So THAT'S what Koko was saying during that confusing conversation yesterday! Congratulations, Striker! Hope you two last a good long while.

 

...also, it's kinda funny. You sounded so emo and depressed in that Skype convo, but here you seem so...flamboyant. It must be the confidence of being behind a screen.

[Great Unclean One: VK]

Merciful, all these stains create a beautiful collage that paints a picture of us.  Our impurity proves our purity of being human.  Don't fight it.

 

Remember, Uncle Nurgle loves you the way you are.  Don't ever, ever change.

[Tourmaline]

[quote name="Merciful Idiot" post="6136309" timestamp="1359985691"]False. You're just an N-sided polygon, as mortal and finite as the rest of us, not a blank immortal capable of claiming oneself to be. Also, you stain yourself more than you know, all human beings do. They think they're all so pure, but this vanity in itself can cause impurity and improper judgment. And just like the rest of us, you would hesitate when faced with a species that disgusts you - you will force yourself to adapt to it, to conform to your ideals, but the fact is that you hesitated and were temporarily stained.   Your attempts at surpassing humanity (whether intentional or not) amuse me.[/quote] And your attempts at mixing your philosophy with sweeping generalizations to make them look objective are empty, have no knowledge (nor foundation for this case) and are absurd. Wholly invalid and laughable, like the other pessimistic stupidity you love spewing.

[Merci]

And your attempts at mixing your philosophy with sweeping generalizations to make them look objective are empty, have no knowledge (nor foundation for this case) and are absurd. Wholly invalid and laughable, like the other pessimistic stupidity you love spewing.

 

If humanity never attempted to pursue the absurd, we never would've gotten to this current level of technology and civilization that we possess today. It is because of the feats considered ridiculous being accomplished that we are here today. I'm merely stating things from a philosophically logical standpoint that may or may not be correct. You might not agree with me today, but you might on your deathbed.

 

Everything is laughable and nothing is truly invalid in this world, as the perceptions of each human differ from one to another. What may be 'I am your father' to one person may be 'I [i]killed[/i] your father' to another.

 

 

Merciful, all these stains create a beautiful collage that paints a picture of us.  Our impurity proves our purity of being human.  Don't fight it.

 

Remember, Uncle Nurgle loves you the way you are.  Don't ever, ever change.

 

 

 

I'm not o-o

 

I was referring to her---

[Agro]

NOTHING IS INVALID?

 

I HAVE WINGS AND CAN FLY MOTHERFUCKERS!

[Tourmaline]

If humanity never attempted to pursue the absurd, we never would've gotten to this current level of technology and civilization that we possess today. It is because of the feats considered ridiculous being accomplished that we are here today. I'm merely stating things from a philosophically logical standpoint that may or may not be correct. You might not agree with me today, but you might on your deathbed.

Everything is laughable and nothing is truly invalid in this world, as the perceptions of each human differ from one to another. What may be 'I am your father' to one person may be 'I killed your father' to another.

This has nothing to do with what you were originally saying to me. Especially because I already understand this. You're simply making huge assumptions with NO information to go off by, so I'm disregarding you.

[Ｄｈａｒｃ]

So...It looks like I missed quite a bit, thanks to a spotty internet connection...Umm...If I may say something that was brought up in my Mathematical Analysis class today:

 

 

 

The harder you try to prove something, the more effort you put into explaining it, that just shows everyone how pathetic, infantile, and overall moronic your argument is.  If you spend hours and days explaining one thing to someone, you aren't making your point to anyone but yourself.  To all others forced to listen to you shooting off at the mouth, you like a total imbecile, one who tries to claim what he/she says is a FACT, but is in no way able to convince perfectly rational people (yes, I am aware of the oxymoronic nature of that statement) of that.  For what is the truth if no one can believe it?  Your argument is nothing but a fortress around a shadow, trying to protect it from the light so it doesn't run away from you.

 

Now, granted, that may not be exactly the right thing to say, I feel it's at least mildly appropriate.  So Hina, I love you, but I'd tell you to stop if you hadn't done so already.  Merciful, stop, because it's obvious that your shadow's fortress has been besieged by all manner of luminous catapults, and while no superficial damage exists, the weakening foundation is enough evidence that you should surrender.

 

And now can we please talk about love/romance/whatever the fukc this thread was about again?

 

P.S. — I don't care if what I said makes no sense, I acknowledge my stupidity.  More people need to do the same.  Not naming names, though.

[Gabriel Maeso]

And now can we please talk about love/romance/whatever the fukc this thread was about again?

 

Well...I have been having some small problems on that, the thing is that, I cannot seem to get my gf into much of the mood, not talking about sex, since a while ago she has been quite down, even tho she is not depressed anymore, I can still ntoiced that something is lacking, the best guess I could get, and the one that turned to be most likely true, is that we are lacking romance, I really dunno how to get over that, I know I want to and will, but I dunno how to...I have even consider reading those self-help(is that right? I cant remember how they are named...) books, that honestly I never had good eyes for, not judging who likes them tho.

[Ｄｈａｒｃ]

Well, if you want to get the romance back, be romantic. Do little things, like holding her hand constantly, or writing little love notes in places for her to find, or do fun little things like laser tag and stuff. If all else fails, ask her what she wants to do, no matter how small.

[Simping For Hina]

Romance usually only works if both of you two feel something though. Otherwise, it is just an acceptance of it or could be really awkward sometimes.

[Gabriel Maeso]

Well, if you want to get the romance back, be romantic. Do little things, like holding her hand constantly, or writing little love notes in places for her to find, or do fun little things like laser tag and stuff. If all else fails, ask her what she wants to do, no matter how small.

I wish it was simple as that to do those things... she lives in a diferent state than me, and none of us are 18 yet, so we cannot take a plane or a bus to go see each other. In Brazil you can only travell by yourself without needing parents aproval when you complete 18.
I dunno if you saw when I let out a big thing about our failed plans(I think it was aorund page 95), I can PM it to you if you want.

And also, without actual touch and being close so we can do nice plans, I dunno how to be romantic.

 

[quote]

Romance usually only works if both of you two feel something though. Otherwise, it is just an acceptance of it or could be really awkward sometimes.

[/quote]

We do, it ain't just a crazy passion or a long hook up, we do love each other deeply.

[Rapidfire]

I wish it was simple as that to do those things... she lives in a diferent state than me, and none of us are 18 yet, so we cannot take a plane or a bus to go see each other. In Brazil you can only travell by yourself without needing parents aproval when you complete 18.
I dunno if you saw when I let out a big thing about our failed plans(I think it was aorund page 95), I can PM it to you if you want.

And also, without actual touch and being close so we can do nice plans, I dunno how to be romantic.

 

 

We do, it ain't just a crazy passion or a long hook up, we do love each other deeply.

 

Little things... What I mean by that is do normal things like compliments and stuff. One way to make anyone happy is pretty much sending a really really cute/nice message. Not to long. Fact it can be 3 words... Not I love you, because I don't feel like it explains a persons feeling enough. I know one thing that drives me crazy is when someone anyone smiles at me. It sends butterflies through me, and it makes me feel all warm inside. Stuff like that gets to people. Hey I'm not the best with relationships, and you don't have to be ether. Just be you. That's why the other person is with you... Right? 

[Gabriel Maeso]

Little things... What I mean by that is do normal things like compliments and stuff. One way to make anyone happy is pretty much sending a really really cute/nice message. Not to long. Fact it can be 3 words... Not I love you, because I don't feel like it explains a persons feeling enough. I know one thing that drives me crazy is when someone anyone smiles at me. It sends butterflies through me, and it makes me feel all warm inside. Stuff like that gets to people. Hey I'm not the best with relationships, and you don't have to be ether. Just be you. That's why the other person is with you... Right? 

Yeah, I mean, she fell for me and was for who I am as a whole. The message thing, well we stay up till midmorning almost everyday chatting and stuff, but I was thinking about sending by mail a package for her, that would help right?

[Rapidfire]

Yeah it would. Like a lot. Go for it! It'll make her really happy. 

[Gabriel Maeso]

Yeah it would. Like a lot. Go for it! It'll make her really happy. 

Well I just need to get her postal box code now, I know that she will send me something that she made me for my bday that was last week, so I will get all the info I need. So yeah, I will go for it, wish me luck everyone.

[Ｄｈａｒｃ]

Sorry, wasn't aware of the situation; I've been out of this thread for about twelve pages. I know how you feel, though...My current girlfriend is across the country from me, and my last one was in a different country altogether. To be honest, I've never been physically with any girl, so I can't give very good advice, as I'm pretty sure my girlfriend doesn't really want me to be with her anyway nowadays...But I'm going off on a tangent here, sorry. I don't wanna make this about me.

[Gabriel Maeso]

Sorry, wasn't aware of the situation; I've been out of this thread for about twelve pages. I know how you feel, though...My current girlfriend is across the country from me, and my last one was in a different country altogether. To be honest, I've never been physically with any girl, so I can't give very good advice, as I'm pretty sure my girlfriend doesn't really want me to be with her anyway nowadays...But I'm going off on a tangent here, sorry. I don't wanna make this about me.

Hey it is alright, our situation is alike, my ex was forma nother country, and my actual is on a diferent state, well not across the country, but still a bit far. But if you want to talk about anything, well this is the place, but if you want more privacy we can talk about it on a PM, Im willing to help.

[Ｄｈａｒｃ]

Alright, well, I suppose that this is as good a place as any...So, as some of you know by now, I'm somewhat in a relationship with Dem. But it seems like, to me, she doesn't even want me to care...Every time I try to care for her or support her or show her that I live her, she shoves me away and says she's fine...I can't stand it...

[Nathanael D. Striker]

Alright, well, I suppose that this is as good a place as any...So, as some of you know by now, I'm somewhat in a relationship with Dem. But it seems like, to me, she doesn't even want me to care...Every time I try to care for her or support her or show her that I live her, she shoves me away and says she's fine...I can't stand it...

 

Well from what you told me earlier on Skype, you worked things out with her. Believe me, it is not fun to not know where you stand with someone. The agony is not fun.

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

So, this is going to be ridiculous and dumb because I know what I need to do. And I know that I'll do it.

 

But hey, I need reassurance. It doesn't hurt.

 

The girl I've liked since October, the senior I've mentioned quite a few times before, is graduating in a few months.

 

We're incredibly close, and I'm with her often. And I just - there are no words for her. Whoever invented this language didn't anticipate her. And my God, when I look at her - it's the most serene feeling. She's effortlessly stunning. 

 

We act like a couple, but that's just because of our close dynamics. She's straight, but sometimes I feel like she could be fluid with her sexuality. Or that maybe, just maybe, I could make the difference (that's me being idealistic, but it's incredibly strong the feeling I get from her when I'm with her). I just feel like I need to say something because if she truly could be into me, I don't want to miss out on moments I could have with her romantically. But then again, she's leaving after the summer, so I don't know if it's the right thing to do.

 

DO I TAKE THE RISK AND TELL HER HOW I FEEL? OR LEAVE IT ALONE BECAUSE SHE NEEDS TO FOCUS ON COLLEGE?

 

((again, I know what I'm going to do, just ahhh I need encouragement))

[Phantom Roxas]

I want to say don't make the same mistake I did and that you should tell her how you feel, but you're in a different scenario than mine. If you have a mutual friend who is aware of your feelings, or you would trust them with, then use them to help boost your confidence. You definitely need to tell her you like her, but make sure that she's comfortable with your confession.

[Merci]

But...but...I wasn't even... ugh. I wasn't even being negative...

 

@Agro: Exactly. If a person is deluded enough, they might just think that. That's what I meant.

 

Just let it be.

 

@Marisa: You [b]MUST[/b] tell her how you feel! Seriously, you [i][b]must![/i][/b] There's nothing for you to regret, so you [i]have[/i] to tell her! If she's leaving for college, it'll make you wait THAT MUCH LONGER to tell her your true feelings. Without a doubt, it is definitely the right thing to do. Even if she turns out to think of you as just a friend...that's alright, isn't it? Makes things a little more awkward, but pretty much the same as usual. Tell her. You MUST tell her your feelings for her. ^_^

[Spirit of DMG]

Marisa-Sama.... Yes. Tell her how you feel. If it turns out that she doesn't, can't, or even just won't feel the same or accept it, you'll only regret it more if you don't tell her. Sometimes the results of honesty are regret, but if you don't tell the truth, then it'll only ever lead to regret. There's only one way you're ever going to truly know how she feels about you, and you already knew what it is.