Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 Ha good for ya. But me on the other hand... Not so good. I'm just in a terrible mood right now. I guess the best thing to do is to sleep on it. Haha Aww, what happened? You wanna talk about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 I'm good but one jerk told me "good luck finding the perfect guy." Alright it may seem nice but you don't know the context. He was talking to me about his gf who he's only been seeing for about 2 weeks, and how they already did some stuff. So I told him straight up hey your making a mistake, your rushing, she's gonna get bored, she's gonna say "I don't wanna be in a relationship based on being physical." All of that stuff, and then I'm just annoyed cuz I've been having a rough week, and night just everything. So anyways I'm like hey let's change the topic because I bet you he thinks I like him or something. (Since not even 4 weeks ago I told him to find someone to like, cuz I can't deal with him.) Seriously way to be so inconsiderate. One I don't care about your relationship, or what you think. Two why does he think I'm jealous. Seriously I'm not, I don't get jealous. I was just trying to help you. No need assume that I'm unhappy being single (which I'm not, I actually like it) or that I'm looking for a prince charming. Because I'm not I'm just looking for myself right now. And I'm starting to think that he's trying to hurt me or something. Which we all know is not gonna happen. More like I'll lose all of my respect for him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 I'm good but one jerk told me "good luck finding the perfect guy." Alright it may seem nice but you don't know the context. He was talking to me about his gf who he's only been seeing for about 2 weeks, and how they already did some stuff. So I told him straight up hey your making a mistake, your rushing, she's gonna get bored, she's gonna say "I don't wanna be in a relationship based on being physical." All of that stuff, and then I'm just annoyed cuz I've been having a rough week, and night just everything. So anyways I'm like hey let's change the topic because I bet you he thinks I like him or something. (Since not even 4 weeks ago I told him to find someone to like, cuz I can't deal with him.) Seriously way to be so inconsiderate. One I don't care about your relationship, or what you think. Two why does he think I'm jealous. Seriously I'm not, I don't get jealous. I was just trying to help you. No need assume that I'm unhappy being single (which I'm not, I actually like it) or that I'm looking for a prince charming. Because I'm not I'm just looking for myself right now. And I'm starting to think that he's trying to hurt me or something. Which we all know is not gonna happen. More like I'll lose all of my respect for him. It's going to suck for him when what you said does happen. Shouldn't the first few weeks be dedicated to getting to know each other on a deeper level or something? Anyway, he does sound like a jerk tbh. You were only trying to help you, and I don't think you deserved him treating you like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 One of the best counterarguments said by the average person is "you're just jealous" and it's easy for someone to fixate on that one idea. When they do, it's hard for the opposing person to prove otherwise - because making any effort to prove thus would only backfire at them. It's stupid, really. I don't think he's trying to hurt you or anything, but I believe he thinks you're interested in him, or something along those lines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTFauKorean Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 I'm good but one jerk told me "good luck finding the perfect guy." Alright it may seem nice but you don't know the context. He was talking to me about his gf who he's only been seeing for about 2 weeks, and how they already did some stuff. So I told him straight up hey your making a mistake, your rushing, she's gonna get bored, she's gonna say "I don't wanna be in a relationship based on being physical." All of that stuff, and then I'm just annoyed cuz I've been having a rough week, and night just everything. So anyways I'm like hey let's change the topic because I bet you he thinks I like him or something. (Since not even 4 weeks ago I told him to find someone to like, cuz I can't deal with him.) Seriously way to be so inconsiderate. One I don't care about your relationship, or what you think. Two why does he think I'm jealous. Seriously I'm not, I don't get jealous. I was just trying to help you. No need assume that I'm unhappy being single (which I'm not, I actually like it) or that I'm looking for a prince charming. Because I'm not I'm just looking for myself right now. And I'm starting to think that he's trying to hurt me or something. Which we all know is not gonna happen. More like I'll lose all of my respect for him. This would be my area of experience. He has an ego like most assholes do. Hell I had/have a hell of an ego to. "good luck finding the perfect guy" = "yo bitch I am the perfect guy" He thinks a little to highly of himself and he thinks everyone could easily fall for him, including you. More than likely, he's labeled you in his mind part of the "hard to get group" which he probably has a couple others grouped in there as well. With that he has many others, one including the "already got her group." which means because of his ego, he's not afraid of losing her and completely forgets about that even being a possibility. this will lead to he can't read the signs which then leads to can't read the really obvious signs which leads to finally getting it and then a panic for excuses which leads to can't keep up with legitimate excuses. which leads to loss which leads to one of 2 things 1. ego completely crushed rethinks his life 2. ego not even scratched, he immediately twists it into "bitch was crazy anyway" even if it was his fault, doesn't even see it. so if your question is "is Mr. asshole trying to hurt you?" the answer is no, not on purpose. he doesn't know he is, because he thinks he will always be forgiven with a little bit of charm and so since no one will stay mad at him, he will assume no one got hurt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 .....Nearly every single post in this club is a post of wisdom and experience, isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTFauKorean Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 .....Nearly every single post in this club is a post of wisdom and experience, isn't it? That's like more than half the point of this place aint it not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 True enough. You know, sometimes I don't think often enough before I post. That might be a reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 31, 2013 Report Share Posted January 31, 2013 I don't see as much wisdom as I see either someone saying that they fucked up or complaining about some guy or girl. But then again, I guess when I see a "wisdom" post, I want to argue it but don't so I end up just disregarding it in general. This thread moves too fast when I stop paying attention :\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 When I first talked to him he was such a jackass, like he only talked about how many girls he got, and tried so hard to impress me with that. Sadly I'm not like that, I actually find it repulsive. Like I don't wanna know what you did before, nor do I care. I'M SURE NO GIRL IS ATTRACTED TO THAT. -___- Well anyways I actually got him to open up to me after we first talked, and he had a great personality. He was really nice, and caring, and funny. Just awesome. And he told me oh I want a normal nice relationship. I of course rejected him because well no matter how nice he was I saw right through the words "forever" and "I love you". Like seriously how dumb do you think I am? So after like two weeks he has a gf, and he did not change one bit. Still acts like a jerk, and does stupid stuff. And then he thinks I'm jealous? I'm sorry for being a good friend and actually caring about the fact that this girl is just like any other user you have been with. I'm sorry I still thought ahead for you. I'm sorry I actually listened through all the bull you said. I'm sorry I actually gave you a chance. I'm sorry. I really am. But let's make this clear I'm not jealous or will I ever be. The day I become jealous will be the day I really fall for someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Hey Rapid, what percentage of guys that you know do you consider assholes?Seems like a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Uhh maybe 3%. Not a lot at all, I only consider guys who hurt my friends, or bluntly throw an emotional bomb at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugendramon Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Though you seem to always mention those you do consider assholes. I don't think I've read a lot of your happier experiences in this thread, as opposed to the negative stories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Actually I have a lot of good memories. If you want I'll talk about those more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Well it'd probably be better read.From what I remember your past love stories could be turned into about a dozen above average romantic comedies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 I'm guessing it would be a drama romance, actually, since Rapidfire doesn't actually fall for the guys. I'm honestly curious as to when she'll fall again for a guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Well it'd probably be better read. From what I remember your past love stories could be turned into about a dozen above average romantic comedies. Oh my god! I remember one time I threw up all over this guy I really liked. See I was like in 7th grade or so and we were at someones birthday. And his dad decided to be cheap and put wine in to a diet coke bottle. So we were out playing tag, and we got thirsty and got drinks. Well I poured some "coke" in to my cup and drank some without even breathing. Only after did I realize I drank wine by accident... Later were going home, and he's walking me and were having this really good conversation. Til I start feeling a bit sick. Not wanting to ruin the moment I keep it to myself. So we walk some more when well I turn and puke all over him. He pretty much freaks out, calls me some pretty mean things, and throws his shirt off and leaves me. So of course I never meant to throw up all over him. I was actually not eating a lot at the time because I was really insanely insecure back then. So just that little amount of wine on an empty stomach made me puke. Yeah... But even tho I was devastated and in tears I still look back at it and laugh. EDIT: Tyop at first. Forgot the "r" in shirt! Ahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 What'd I say? Priceless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 I have so many more, it always amazes me. Like last year we were out by the river. And so we were playing soccer, and someone kicked it in to the river. So the guy I liked decides to get in to the small raft to try edge near the ball. He finally grabs it and I decide to help him out by pulling the raft closer. So he gets near the edge and I let go cuz I thought he could get back on shore.... Not the case at all. He slips because of the sudden movement and falls in to the river. So I'm just there laughing so hard it hurts. So then he gets mad and chases me around the neighborhood screaming "COMME ONNNN! I KNOW YOU WANT MY MUDDY HUGS!" So he finally catches up to me and hugs me to the point where it ruins my shorts which just happen to be white! I mean come on those stains are hard to get out of white shorts. (he was muddy cuz he fell in to the really shallow parts). Yeah it really is fun being me! Ahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 This is all coming together. Classic comedy. And then, Rapid will finally actually fall in love with someone, and we're all gonna be like "What kind of worm hole did we fall into?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 When I do fall in love, I hope they don't reject me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 When I do fall in love, I hope they don't reject me. Isn't that what everyone hopes when they fall in love? Believe me, I've been there too many times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 When I do fall in love, I hope they don't reject me. You'll probably be rejected, or thrown away. No offense, but that's how love tends to work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugendramon Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 You'll probably be rejected, or thrown away. No offense, but that's how love tends to work. Assuming that that's how it works is, forgive me for saying so, kind of rude for those whose relationship did work. Hell, not all relationships that become real love always start as such. Me? I love Chloe like no one else in this world, but it wasn't always like that. We were classmates at a foreigner's class in France. I appeared as weird to her, she even had a crush on the worst guy in the class. Then I asked her out, and she wasn't very serious about it. But we spent more time together. And it became more serious. We learned more about each other and we were in love. Love is completely erratic. You can't say it "tends" to work in any way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted February 1, 2013 Report Share Posted February 1, 2013 Assuming that that's how it works is, forgive me for saying so, kind of rude for those whose relationship did work. Hell, not all relationships that become real love always start as such. Me? I love Chloe like no one else in this world, but it wasn't always like that. We were classmates at a foreigner's class in France. I appeared as weird to her, she even had a crush on the worst guy in the class. Then I asked her out, and she wasn't very serious about it. But we spent more time together. And it became more serious. We learned more about each other and we were in love. Love is completely erratic. You can't say it "tends" to work in any way. Sure I can. I can say 'people tend to break up much more often than stay happily ever after', can't I? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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