Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ahh I see, yeah my friends idk I think a lot of people are hiding their sexuality. You know I don't think anyone of the same gender has ever liked me. Never really experienced any of that. Haha. But I'm in to guys. Don't know I've never liked anyone of the same gender, if I find a reason to I will. But since I don't I'm only into guys. Oh and what part of Georgia do you live in? It's pretty obvious I live in Atlanta. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ah, yeah, my brother's absolutley dumbfounded by my sexuality, he doesn't understand it and I can't blame him, I've went through so many "I'm this, no wait, I'm this" moments, I'd be confused too if I were him. Tifton xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I have one friend who tells me all the things he is, and sometimes I get so confused. Like sometimes he changes his mind so much, and I just kinda sit there and think. *tries to understand, but fails* But yeah I've always liked guys. I've never had interest in girls. Don't know why it's just never been a interest of mine. Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I have one friend who tells me all the things he is, and sometimes I get so confused. Like sometimes he changes his mind so much, and I just kinda sit there and think. *tries to understand, but fails* But yeah I've always liked guys. I've never had interest in girls. Don't know why it's just never been a interest of mine. Haha. Haha, wel at least my brother gets mine beftter than out friend, I don't even get hers, once she said she was bisexual (at that point we were dating and then we broke up shortly after and now we're like sisters, no one even guesses we've dated before) but now she's just like "I don't like girls but I say I'm bi because it's easier to explain" and the first time she said that I almost threw a fit, like she dated me but she doesn't like girls...and then she dated my brother, which was fun for me because I know so much abotu both of them I could annoy them to death xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I think that best friends will never truly be able to be lovers since it's a different level of friendship. And haha I don't have siblings so I don't have to deal with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I think that best friends will never truly be able to be lovers since it's a different level of friendship. And haha I don't have siblings so I don't have to deal with that. Yeah, luckily we realized we were more on a friend level before anyone got too attached. Lucky! Nah, luckily it isn't that bad for me, my brother and I are more like best friends then siblings and considering we look nothing alike no one can ever tell, when we're at stores most people think we're a couple and I'm just like "ew, no, that...no, he's my brother" xD I told him he's going to have to stop shopping with me so he can get a girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ahaha reading this and Dr. Phil in the background is hilarious. Yeah like I know one of my friends has potential to be really attractive guy, so as his friend he asked me to take him shopping and help him lose weight so he can be "a chick magnet" (yes he actually said chick magnet). I was about to fangirl because I would get to do a make over. It's still in process but he looks better now then before! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ahaha reading this and Dr. Phil in the background is hilarious. Yeah like I know one of my friends has potential to be really attractive guy, so as his friend he asked me to take him shopping and help him lose weight so he can be "a chick magnet" (yes he actually said chick magnet). I was about to fangirl because I would get to do a make over. It's still in process but he looks better now then before! Haha, sounds fun, my brother's always telling me how he's going to go and talk to the girls he thinks are pretty at the stores and stuff but he chickens out, I find it hilarious, it probably doesn't help that I tease him abotu it right in front of the girls. My brother used to let me do his hair but he won't anymore xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ahah, dang that's cruel. One time my friends and I went to the mall, and there was this really hot guy walking in front of us, and my friends pushed me into him. I died. Like no I was so red, and it was just so embarrassing. He just laughed and said you should be more careful. Oh and my friends were laughing their asses off in the corner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Ahah, dang that's cruel. One time my friends and I went to the mall, and there was this really hot guy walking in front of us, and my friends pushed me into him. I died. Like no I was so red, and it was just so embarrassing. He just laughed and said you should be more careful. Oh and my friends were laughing their asses off in the corner. I'll admit I can be very cruel to someone when their around someone I know they find attractive xD if my brother wasn't a trillion feet taller than me I'd push him into some of the girls, I've tried before but I pretty much just end up almost falling over trying to budge him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I'm not like that at all, I don't have much physical strength. You'd probably shove me 50 feet if you pushed me. XD But yeah I was so mad, I literally ditched them and went home for the day. Like I don't know I must have been really mad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah I'm not like that at all, I don't have much physical strength. You'd probably shove me 50 feet if you pushed me. XD But yeah I was so mad, I literally ditched them and went home for the day. Like I don't know I must have been really mad. Haha, aw, you poor thing, I'm not that cruel...well if I could push my brother I guess I'd be but he's like 6'5, I can't make him budge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Haha "I'm not that cruel". Not that cruel xDD Well imagine I was a really awkward 7th grader at the time, and I could not talk to attractive guys. So that was like death to me. Haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Haha "I'm not that cruel". Not that cruel xDD Well imagine I was a really awkward 7th grader at the time, and I could not talk to attractive guys. So that was like death to me. Haha Well...I'm slightly dramatic xD Yeah, my brother's really awkward when it comes to talking to girls so I'm just like "I'll talk to her for you" and he freaks then gets me as far away as he possibly can from her xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Oh gosh it sounds like something I would do to my friends. Just introduce them to all of my friends they think are attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 So apparently my girlfriend thinks she is depressive and will stay some days away from any way anyone have to contact her. Reasons? 1- When I tried to talk to her dad, he ignored me and questioned her about it, when actualy she wants us to talk and get along, but that won't happen cause of her father, and that makes her very sad. 2- And the main reason. Since November last year, we have been planning, with her mom in the side, for her to come visit me at my birthday(which is on the 29th this month), but that won't happen! We had everything, passages come and go for them at great prices, a list of good hotels they could stay for a reasonable price, and of course our plans to have our own quality lovers time(from walks, picnics, movies, go out shopping, fancy dinners on me, sleeping cuddles, kissing, to everything else we could do), but that simply won't happen! Why that? Well her father wanted ot come to, well that would be good right? Meet her parents, get her parents to know mine, getting the contact easier so she could come more and alone, I can live with all of that, in fact I would love all of that! So that's it, a lil bit more expensive wouldn't be a problem, it's my bday, so I could ask that 4 a gift my parents give hers some money to help make up for the trip, come on with her father together it wouldn't not even get to 800 bucks, even by changing to a different type of hotel room. So that's it, the best would happen but would cost a bit more, everything good and would happen the more convinient and would have a good end, right? WRONG! Well for some reason, her "lil" brother(the boy is 13, when I was 13 I used ot take the most crime targeted bus at 6 am and 9 pm everyday and where I lived I almost got robbed several times, once where I was taking out the trash), can't stay at home with her other 2 brothers(18 and 19 years old, that are on vacation and don't do a thing out of their lives), for just 3 days, so the kid would come here too, since now there would be 4 persons coming, they would need a different hotel room and more passages to come and to go and everything, which would get up to 1400 bucks! So that's how it would be, and still she wanted ot come and I wanted her here, I wouldn't mind all of that, I would even put up a smile and buy them gifts. But no, that won't happen, she won't be coming here, she is getting depressed and no one there have noticed it! Oh isn't it incredible when the happiest smile of the the person you love the most is turned into a frown that makes her cry herslef to sleep every night and sucks her strentgh to get out of bed more and more each day and you can't do a shit about it because you live miles away from her and your parents won't let you go because they want to meet her parent's first and you don't own a freaking car to go there, and even if you did it wouldn't matter because you can't do a thing since you are a 16/17 years old teenager! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 You're in a long range relationship? Yeah, this is why you don't get into one of those. Though you could try having both parties meet in a spot. I remember when my family was supposed to bring one of my cousins for a match making session with another family. So both of our families went to Kentucky (My family is in PA and there's was in LA) to meet each other (I was 13 at the time and wrestled with those scrawny brats and beaten the shit out of them.) and got to know each other. The session was determined a success and my cousin met his future wife. Try convincing both of your families to do something similar. Like scheduling (This is the impossible part) a type of get together. Like going to an amusement park or road trip to somewhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 So apparently my girlfriend thinks she is depressive and will stay some days away from any way anyone have to contact her. Reasons? 1- When I tried to talk to her dad, he ignored me and questioned her about it, when actualy she wants us to talk and get along, but that won't happen cause of her father, and that makes her very sad. 2- And the main reason. Since November last year, we have been planning, with her mom in the side, for her to come visit me at my birthday(which is on the 29th this month), but that won't happen! We had everything, passages come and go for them at great prices, a list of good hotels they could stay for a reasonable price, and of course our plans to have our own quality lovers time(from walks, picnics, movies, go out shopping, fancy dinners on me, sleeping cuddles, kissing, to everything else we could do), but that simply won't happen! Why that? Well her father wanted ot come to, well that would be good right? Meet her parents, get her parents to know mine, getting the contact easier so she could come more and alone, I can live with all of that, in fact I would love all of that! So that's it, a lil bit more expensive wouldn't be a problem, it's my bday, so I could ask that 4 a gift my parents give hers some money to help make up for the trip, come on with her father together it wouldn't not even get to 800 bucks, even by changing to a different type of hotel room. So that's it, the best would happen but would cost a bit more, everything good and would happen the more convinient and would have a good end, right? WRONG! Well for some reason, her "lil" brother(the boy is 13, when I was 13 I used ot take the most crime targeted bus at 6 am and 9 pm everyday and where I lived I almost got robbed several times, once where I was taking out the trash), can't stay at home with her other 2 brothers(18 and 19 years old, that are on vacation and don't do a thing out of their lives), for just 3 days, so the kid would come here too, since now there would be 4 persons coming, they would need a different hotel room and more passages to come and to go and everything, which would get up to 1400 bucks! So that's how it would be, and still she wanted ot come and I wanted her here, I wouldn't mind all of that, I would even put up a smile and buy them gifts. But no, that won't happen, she won't be coming here, she is getting depressed and no one there have noticed it! Oh isn't it incredible when the happiest smile of the the person you love the most is turned into a frown that makes her cry herslef to sleep every night and sucks her strentgh to get out of bed more and more each day and you can't do a shit about it because you live miles away from her and your parents won't let you go because they want to meet her parent's first and you don't own a freaking car to go there, and even if you did it wouldn't matter because you can't do a thing since you are a 16/17 years old teenager! Ouch u.u I feel your pain, bro. Honestly, the best you can do is, hope she can visit you on your NEXT birthday. But, try and find a job as well, even part-time. You see, I can tell you really like this girl. So, be ready for any inconvenience of that sort. The stuff costs 1400? Have 2000 ready, just in case. This plan can work, I KNOW it can, but you have to do the one thing you can do right now, and that's save up money (the worker's way, not the saving-up-allowance way) that way, you can bring her there without any problem. I'm sorry it can't be this birthday, but it's NOT over, you still have lives ahead of you. I'm starting to think it was a very good idea to open this club. x.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 So I seriously fell behind...Ummm, what exactly are we talking about now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Rapid and Panda were just chillin and talkin bout their outlook on some stuff And Gabriel opened up about some bad thing that happened, that caused him to not be able to see his girlfriend after all x.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Am I the only one who feels absolutely nothing despite all the gloom? It's almost like I can't feel at all! But you should know, somebody who you believe is honest can actually be a high caliber manipulator. I'm either honest or fall into that. I like when people tell me I'm honest. There are very few people I wouldn't toy with, but only one of them undeniably exists to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Am I the only one who feels absolutely nothing despite all the gloom? It's almost like I can't feel at all! But you should know, somebody who you believe is honest can actually be a high caliber manipulator. I'm either honest or fall into that. I like when people tell me I'm honest. There are very few people I wouldn't toy with, but only one of them undeniably exists to me. I bet that's me- *shot* And yeah, that is true x.x You should trust people, but you should also keep a tiny bit of care for that ^.^'' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I don't have to trust anybody and nobody has to trust me. Depending on who you're talking to, it might be better to be honest or hide any emotions or true intentions. DL, I will nurture you into sociopathy. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I agree that trust should be held in moderation. I, however, tend to ignore that and trust people far more than I should, 'cause I'm a dumby. But nobody's ruined my life yet...Owait. My stepmom did. Well still, the point is, I agree, but my own brain doesn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Am I the only one who feels absolutely nothing despite all the gloom? It's almost like I can't feel at all! Or you could, ya'know, just be trying to keep up some sort of heartless facade on this forum when you are in fact someone much more mentally weaker when it comes to reality. Lying's easy via words. ... Ignore me, I'm paranoid. But in any case, I believe it's more realistic to have a high-caliber manipulator than an honest person as your partner. Let's be honest, this world is a damned place full of untrustworthy people and events that only bring forth despair. An honest person will rarely attempt to hide all the misery in the world, and merely encourage you with words like 'be stronger', 'bear with it', 'it'll get better in the future', and 'I'll be with you no matter what happens'. However, let's place a manipulator into the role...isn't that much more suitable? The partner be under a perfect illusion that everything is just like a movie or romance novel, and that her manipulator is in fact an honest man which would put her heart at ease. Reality is flawed. In truth, humans are only given two choices in this world; live or dream. Now dreaming...it's much better than living, isn't it? Mask the misery. Mask the death. Nobody cares about the many people that die with each passing minute and day. Nobody cares about the many people that suffer in poverty and in abuse, in slavery and in torture. They only care about their own happiness, ultimately. So if someone can maintain that illusion of happiness, while convincing their partner that everything else in the world is also living happiness, then that would be great. Better than honesty. In the end, the only left is to admit one thing - that the imagination is superior to reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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