DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Welcome, Pandora =0 Feel free to look around our humble abode ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I really doubt it. The thing is I'm not looking for the perfect someone. In my point of view everyone has something unique in them, and perfection does not exist. Lot's of girls want to get married to prince charming, but me I don't want that. I think that imperfections are what build character. so when you say "I had something happen to me" I don't really mind it. I mean even if something happens I doubt that it would affect me that much. A really wise person once told me that love come and goes. It's true it will never truly stay. So in my opinion my love is not influenced by whatever might have happened in the past. Mainly because I learned to forgive. I'm not the person to stay stuck, but when I was I eventually learned how to move on. And here I am today. Moderately Happy. You know, I get this friend who really needs to here this right now .3. Like, so bad it ain't even funny. And I apologize for assuming what I did of you, but I still have my doubts that you're a jerk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 You ever just look at someone and it becomes so apparently obvious that you're in love with them and all you can do is smile at the thought? God, she's beautiful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 You ever just look at someone and it becomes so apparently obvious that you're in love with them and all you can do is smile at the thought? God, she's beautiful. You've had lots of omgomomg affections for people tho xDD How's this one different? :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I'm honestly confused as to why my brother told me to join this group...I mean I know it's because I've been having issues with stuff like this but I don't think he really read over these carefully before telling me to join...I guess it's a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 You've had lots of omgomomg affections for people tho xDD How's this one different? :D Well, this is about the senior I've mentioned a few times on here before. I fall in love with everyone in different ways every time, but with this girl, I just know. If we can't be lovers, we have to stick together as friends. It's just something that's surfaced between us; something that can't be misplaced or wavered or ignored any longer. I worry that no one will outmatch her in my heart. I worry that I'll always compare. Ahhh she's just heaven. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I'm honestly confused as to why my brother told me to join this group...I mean I know it's because I've been having issues with stuff like this but I don't think he really read over these carefully before telling me to join...I guess it's a good thing. Who is your brother btw? inb4itshouldbeobvious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EliminateHRN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I'm honestly confused as to why my brother told me to join this group...I mean I know it's because I've been having issues with stuff like this but I don't think he really read over these carefully before telling me to join...I guess it's a good thing. I told you, you didn't have to join if you didn't want to, I was just giving you a suggestion. Oh, I might as well join, seems like an interesting club. Username: EliminateHRN, but you can call me Hunter if you wish. Gender?: Male Are you in a relationship?: Not currently. Do you have love experience?: Eh...not really. Do you mind having your relationship status open to public?: Not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 ^^^ That would be my brother, EliminateHRN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 So many times, but half of those times it was just my weird attraction to everyone. xD Well NOT everyone, mainly people I barely know. I never really fall for close friends. I find that my friends and I are just the weirdest group of people. Like all of us are completely different from each other. I'm the happy go lucky one that says stupid things. Idk I'm just good at bringing peoples spirits up. Maybe not over the internet, but in real life yeah. At least that's what people tell me. I guess I'm too silly for my own good! But I do have those really serious days, where I take everything literally. Yeah no one can out debate me on those days. I sometimes think I scare anyone who come in contact with me that day. It's actually a bit funny. Oh and I'm honestly confused as to why my brother told me to join this group...I mean I know it's because I've been having issues with stuff like this but I don't think he really read over these carefully before telling me to join...I guess it's a good thing. Seriously if you have any problems I'm sure anyone on here will be happy to help ya. Heck if they listen to my rambling, then I'm positive they can listen to anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 So many times, but half of those times it was just my weird attraction to everyone. xD Well NOT everyone, mainly people I barely know. I never really fall for close friends. I find that my friends and I are just the weirdest group of people. Like all of us are completely different from each other. I'm the happy go lucky one that says stupid things. Idk I'm just good at bringing peoples spirits up. Maybe not over the internet, but in real life yeah. At least that's what people tell me. I guess I'm too silly for my own good! But I do have those really serious days, where I take everything literally. Yeah no one can out debate me on those days. I sometimes think I scare anyone who come in contact with me that day. It's actually a bit funny. If I remember correctly, I've experienced both sides of this. The sillyness and the seriousness btw. And I think I fell for you too hard for my own good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 It's honestly nothing, I'm just getting over a "break-up" (we never technically made the relationship official but everyone said we were dating) and it came out of no where, they just didn't want a relationship until after high school, which I get but they could've not lead me on like that, and I'm honestly just trying to get over that, I had never liked anyone like I liked them, we just kind of clicked...I'm kind of over it now but I'm kind of not, and recently I've become extremely attracted to someone who I'm scared to talk to and I'm not exactly sure if it's because I'm trying to get over my "ex" or because I just genuinly like the person so I've kind of just stopped talking to my "ex" and I never really talked to the other person other than RPs so...anyway, I'm rambling and this probably doesn't even make sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 It's honestly nothing, I'm just getting over a "break-up" (we never technically made the relationship official but everyone said we were dating) and it came out of no where, they just didn't want a relationship until after high school, which I get but they could've not lead me on like that, and I'm honestly just trying to get over that, I had never liked anyone like I liked them, we just kind of clicked...I'm kind of over it now but I'm kind of not, and recently I've become extremely attracted to someone who I'm scared to talk to and I'm not exactly sure if it's because I'm trying to get over my "ex" or because I just genuinly like the person so I've kind of just stopped talking to my "ex" and I never really talked to the other person other than RPs so...anyway, I'm rambling and this probably doesn't even make sense. Ahh...x.x That sounds a bit tough Y'know, You either need to find yourself someone new, or try to find a hobby or something to get over it >.< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 If I remember correctly, I've experienced both sides of this. The sillyness and the seriousness btw. And I think I fell for you too hard for my own good. Hey, the harder you fall the stronger you will be when you get over me! It's honestly nothing, I'm just getting over a "break-up" (we never technically made the relationship official but everyone said we were dating) and it came out of no where, they just didn't want a relationship until after high school, which I get but they could've not lead me on like that, and I'm honestly just trying to get over that, I had never liked anyone like I liked them, we just kind of clicked...I'm kind of over it now but I'm kind of not, and recently I've become extremely attracted to someone who I'm scared to talk to and I'm not exactly sure if it's because I'm trying to get over my "ex" or because I just genuinly like the person so I've kind of just stopped talking to my "ex" and I never really talked to the other person other than RPs so...anyway, I'm rambling and this probably doesn't even make sense. It's not "rambling" because I've been there. It's gonna be hard to get over this person, but my piece of advice is you have to let go first. It will only continue to hurt you. Try to look past all of the memories, and sweet moments you had. As nice as they were, now they are gone. I'm gonna have to compare my experience here, I really, I mean really liked this one guy, and he was amazingly perfect, but he moved and I did not let go for a long time. Now that I look back at it I get mad at that. I mean I was only holding on to memories. Yeah it's nice to have those but you have to know it's not gonna happen again, and at some point you have to let go. Once you do I promise you things will get easier. Oh and you said something about liking someone you don't really know. Hmm well I don't advise it, try to get to know the person. Push back that fear of talking, let go. Just be yourself. Don't compare your past feelings, make new ones for the person you'r getting to know. You want to be relaxed around people, because they can pick up when your nervous or stressed. Don't over think this whole situation. Keep it simple, and your life will be more simple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Hey, the harder you fall the stronger you will be when you get over me! I've already moved on in a sense. I still think you are sweet and considerate, but I respect your choice to avoid love atm. And besides, time heals all wounds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for understanding. OH so in other news I got asked by my friend 20 min before the world ended, and at that moment it's like I saw his true colors. He was a jackass. Literally the week before I told him in the 6th grade I had a crush on him. So his gf ends up breaking up with him a couple of days later, and like a good friend I comfort him, and talk to him about it. You know all the normal stuff. Maybe five days later he asks me out, and when I ask him why he does not even know. Seriously?*facepalm* So I reject him because one: I don't like him, two: he just wants a girl, three: seriously why would you even think I was so stupid as to not see the fact that you were only asking me out because you didn't want to be single. So then he gives me this sob story, and makes me feel like a jerk. (I get really sensitive when I reject or break up with people) Then it gets to the point where I just turn off my laptop. The next morning there he is again Giving me the pity act. I feel like that really ruined the friendship we had, because well literally 4 days later he's hitting on my friends sister. -_- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 It's not "rambling" because I've been there. It's gonna be hard to get over this person, but my piece of advice is you have to let go first. It will only continue to hurt you. Try to look past all of the memories, and sweet moments you had. As nice as they were, now they are gone. I'm gonna have to compare my experience here, I really, I mean really liked this one guy, and he was amazingly perfect, but he moved and I did not let go for a long time. Now that I look back at it I get mad at that. I mean I was only holding on to memories. Yeah it's nice to have those but you have to know it's not gonna happen again, and at some point you have to let go. Once you do I promise you things will get easier. Oh and you said something about liking someone you don't really know. Hmm well I don't advise it, try to get to know the person. Push back that fear of talking, let go. Just be yourself. Don't compare your past feelings, make new ones for the person you'r getting to know. You want to be relaxed around people, because they can pick up when your nervous or stressed. Don't over think this whole situation. Keep it simple, and your life will be more simple. Thank you, that actually really helped, I'm friends with most of my ex's and this one doesn't even know I'm upset about it so in ways, to protect them I'd liek to keep it that way and still be friends, but I think it's kind of working, someone told me they thought my ex was "cute" and I'm normally always a jealous person and used to be jealous as all get out when it came to my ex (something I really should work on) but it honestly didn't bother me all that much this time. I guess I'll have to figure out a way to start a conversation with this person then... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for understanding. OH so in other news I got asked by my friend 20 min before the world ended, and at that moment it's like I saw his true colors. He was a jackass. Literally the week before I told him in the 6th grade I had a crush on him. So his gf ends up breaking up with him a couple of days later, and like a good friend I comfort him, and talk to him about it. You know all the normal stuff. Maybe five days later he asks me out, and when I ask him why he does not even know. Seriously?*facepalm* So I reject him because one: I don't like him, two: he just wants a girl, three: seriously why would you even think I was so stupid as to not see the fact that you were only asking me out because you didn't want to be single. So then he gives me this sob story, and makes me feel like a jerk. (I get really sensitive when I reject or break up with people) Then it gets to the point where I just turn off my laptop. The next morning there he is again Giving me the pity act. I feel like that really ruined the friendship we had, because well literally 4 days later he's hitting on my friends sister. -_- Sounds like the bad version of a womanizer there. And isn't it a rule that a guy should have somewhat of a reason to ask a girl besides "uh, I don't want to be single"? I don't know if I'm sounding like a hypocrite right now, but forgive me if I am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thank you, that actually really helped, I'm friends with most of my ex's and this one doesn't even know I'm upset about it so in ways, to protect them I'd liek to keep it that way and still be friends, but I think it's kind of working, someone told me they thought my ex was "cute" and I'm normally always a jealous person and used to be jealous as all get out when it came to my ex (something I really should work on) but it honestly didn't bother me all that much this time. I guess I'll have to figure out a way to start a conversation with this person then... It's easy just say Hi. Literally that's all it takes. Have some confidence, be who you are. I'm sure any guy on here can tell you they like it when a girl is herself. You'll be fine, I'm sure you'll be able to start a conversation with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 It's easy just say Hi. Literally that's all it takes. Have some confidence, be who you are. I'm sure any guy on here can tell you they like it when a girl is herself. You'll be fine, I'm sure you'll be able to start a conversation with him. Haha, I'm sure it is that easy, for how outgoing I normally am around friends and family I normally get really shy when it comes to people I like. Well...this person isn't exactly a guy this time around... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 OH sorry I've been off today. I should have been more considerate, but it still applies. I like open minded people who can throw anything at me. Everyone is. I think it's because it's unexpected, and it's really easy to talk to those people. Oh and were pretty alike. Idk I always have trouble talking to guys I think are attractive, but with friends I'm more open. Don't forget to tell me what happens afterwards! Haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Wow, I fell behind quickly. Rapid's right about being yourself for one main reason. Nobody likes a lier, and if you try to be someone you aren't then you're lying to yourself and the other person, if that makes sense. If she falls in love with the person who you try to pawn yourself off as, then it's not really you she likes either, it's your persona. Personally,I hate it when girls pretend to be interested in the same stuff I am only to find out they made everything up just to get my attention, because then when I wanna relax and watch my anime she's always like "Anime is for nerds and people who can't get women. Why do you watch that?" and then I lose things to talk about and boom. Social Link eliminated. All because this person couldn't be honest to me and herself. More importantly, if you're outgoing around your friends, I see no reason why you can't be outgoing around the person you like. It all comes down to just ignoring your fears and going in with a smile on your face. EDIT: Frigin' YCM ninja's >.> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 OH sorry I've been off today. I should have been more considerate, but it still applies. I like open minded people who can throw anything at me. Everyone is. I think it's because it's unexpected, and it's really easy to talk to those people. Oh and were pretty alike. Idk I always have trouble talking to guys I think are attractive, but with friends I'm more open. Don't forget to tell me what happens afterwards! Haha! It's fine, most people wouldn't really expect it from me, and you just met me so it's not a big deal. Haha, alright xD Wow, I fell behind quickly. Rapid's right about being yourself for one main reason. Nobody likes a lier, and if you try to be someone you aren't then you're lying to yourself and the other person, if that makes sense. If she falls in love with the person who you try to pawn yourself off as, then it's not really you she likes either, it's your persona. Personally,I hate it when girls pretend to be interested in the same stuff I am only to find out they made everything up just to get my attention, because then when I wanna relax and watch my anime she's always like "Anime is for nerds and people who can't get women. Why do you watch that?" and then I lose things to talk about and boom. Social Link eliminated. All because this person couldn't be honest to me and herself. More importantly, if you're outgoing around your friends, I see no reason why you can't be outgoing around the person you like. It all comes down to just ignoring your fears and going in with a smile on your face. EDIT: Frigin' YCM ninja's >.> I know exactly what you mean! It's the reason me and my ex-boyfriend didn't work out, he was so...fake in the beginning and then when we got into a relationship he was so different, I felt awful for it but I had to break up with him, he ended up going from being this totally amazing, perfect guy to someone who was more of a brother/best friend and it was awkward, that's one reason I'm always myself no matter who I'm talking to, but I will admit if the person I like likes something and I've never seen it before I'll give it a shot but if I don't like it I won't make out like I do, like the "ex" I was talking about, she was really into a show called Grey's Anatomy, I had never seen it before but checked it out and ended up really liking it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I don't really mind. It seems like all of my friends are coming out of the closet. They all think I'm the big bad wolf and that I'm like gonna destroy all of Atlanta because of this, when in reality I'd probably just nod and do all of the normal stuff I usually do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I don't really mind. It seems like all of my friends are coming out of the closet. They all think I'm the big bad wolf and that I'm like gonna destroy all of Atlanta because of this, when in reality I'd probably just nod and do all of the normal stuff I usually do. Haha, it's normal when someone's gay for me, most of my friends are from online since I'm home schooled and where I live there isn't much to do, one reason I'm at least moving to a bigger city in Georgia when I'm old enough but I'd rather leave the state all together, but a majority of my friends are gay/bi/etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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