Rapidfire Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 As long as a girl's got a boyfriend, I wouldn't try to intervene. When it comes down to it, you really just have to take your chances when they present themselves. If there's something in the way like that, then there's nothing doing for you. It's sad, yeah, but that's how the world works. Who knows? Next time you meet her, she may not be dating. Take that chance when it presents itself. As it is, there's not much to do about it. Don't take it personally. Everyone I have dated ended up like that. Sorry about that I should have been more sensitive. You know me I say stupid things all the time. Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Don't take it personally. Everyone I have dated ended up like that. Sorry about that I should have been more sensitive. You know me I say stupid things all the time. Haha. Perfectly fine. I think we're all like that at some point. More often than we'd like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 It's a bit ironic but all I really do is follow my heart. I'm serious, it takes a wile to reach whoever I like, but I'd say I have an okay chance of getting them. Though I always get liked by the guys that I don't have feelings for, or I have to be the first one to make a move. Eh I don't really mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 I feel it's harder for me. I never really know what my heart is telling me. He's quiet, that one. At least you're cool enough that people like you. Some of us aren't so lucky. Though maybe that'd be different if I wasn't so self depricating half the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Really late on this, but what the hell. Gender?: Male Are you in a relationship?: Almost was, but lost that Do you have love experience?: Yes Do you mind having your relationship status open to public?: I'd prefer it was. So, I decided to join because, and DL already knows the full story, but basically, I waited for this girl I was really in love with to finally be ready to be more than just friends, after both of us telling each other we love each other, and then she broke my heart by going back with this asshole who cheated on her. I don't want sympathy, I don't want anymore people going "I'm so sorry" or "She just wasn't right for you." I just want to move on. This seemed like a good place to start And now I wait for acceptance... or denial xD EDIT: Oh Agro's here too? He knows that as well xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Sorry but this did caught my eye and atention out from any other topic, sorry, but... Is that what you worry about on that topic? '-' wow... Well, if I have to put in a more serious way, it's basically saying to think about the kid before you become a teenage parent. That's just one example, and really, it's the least of the problems you will encounter. Everyone's worried about how it'll affect the parents, but, I don't really care what happens to them. They knew the consequences of what'd happen if they had a child. The child, however, had no say in the matter. The kid has been born to parents with no job, no income, and apparently, no regard for second- and third-order effects. How about we stop feeling sorry for teenage parents and start thinking about the children of teenage parents? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Well, if I have to put in a more serious way, it's basically saying to think about the kid before you become a teenage parent. That's just one example, and really, it's the least of the problems you will encounter. Everyone's worried about how it'll affect the parents, but, I don't really care what happens to them. They knew the consequences of what'd happen if they had a child. The child, however, had no say in the matter. The kid has been born to parents with no job, no income, and apparently, no regard for second- and third-order effects. How about we stop feeling sorry for teenage parents and start thinking about the children of teenage parents? Oh, well pardon me then, its just that the way you put that actualy was oepn to diferent interpretations on that, sorry. But I agree that insteed of worrying on the parents there should be worries on the child, in fact I've known some examples of that, two which the parents stood up to the child's sake, anyway, the fault is for the parents to blame, and once again I'm sorry for my previous read of your post. (by the way, I got a small question, has nothing to do with the club tho, sorry in advance for such question, my " ' " key is not working on this site on around 80% of the time I press it, it works fine in any other place, does anyone has got the same problem as me or it's just some weird random thing here?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 The thing is, it's not always as easy a story as it seems with teenage pregnancies. Mistakes can happen to easily, and if one person believes against abortion, then that mistake must stay with you for the rest of your life. For people unused to it all, it's all to easy to make the error. I kinda have some experience in the matter, so I know how easy it is. I'm missing something between Aggro and Rapid aren't I? Sorry if it sounds insensitive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 22, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 The thing is, it's not always as easy a story as it seems with teenage pregnancies. Mistakes can happen to easily, and if one person believes against abortion, then that mistake must stay with you for the rest of your life. For people unused to it all, it's all to easy to make the error. I kinda have some experience in the matter, so I know how easy it is. I'm missing something between Aggro and Rapid aren't I? Sorry if it sounds insensitive. They were dating, Rapid broke it up Happened to me a while ago too Rapid's a heartbreakah ;P Also, Y-kun is accepted :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Marluxia~ Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Thanks.. All of you.. If you don't mind, I'd like to help you the best Ic an and add you all to my friends list. You're all very nice and understanding. The good news is, she said if she wasn't dating or her and her current boyfriend don;t work out, she'll be with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Thanks.. All of you.. If you don't mind, I'd like to help you the best Ic an and add you all to my friends list. You're all very nice and understanding. The good news is, she said if she wasn't dating or her and her current boyfriend don;t work out, she'll be with me. You can add me if you want, I don't mind at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 If any of you guys need someone to talk to, you can add me on Skype and I'll be happy to listen. Having someone to talk to helps greatly, and I'm glad that I have people to talk to as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 If anyone ever needs to talk, feel free to PM me on here. I don't have skype and such, just becuase I would only be able to use it after my parents went to bed, and there's no point then. Feel free to add me as a friend... I only think 2 of my friend here I really talk to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miror B Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Thanks.. All of you.. If you don't mind, I'd like to help you the best Ic an and add you all to my friends list. You're all very nice and understanding. The good news is, she said if she wasn't dating or her and her current boyfriend don;t work out, she'll be with me. I have friend notifs on accept only so feel free to add me and I'll reject you if I don't like you ;D (but no really I'll more than likely accept. I only have them on approve so I can say no to the randoms who go all "BE MY FWEIND!!!") Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.WHAM Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Can somebody sum up the topic for me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 They were dating, Rapid broke it up Happened to me a while ago too Rapid's a heartbreakah ;P Also, Y-kun is accepted :3 I really am. I tend to break it up, or just reject them. It's kinda scary how true it is, I'll obviously get rejected if I don't talk to them enough to know them, but hey I'm a jerk and I admit it. But it's 2013, and I wanna change for the better. Which means rejecting a lot of my feelings, so I can KNOW the person more before I follow my weird thoughts of liking people who I'm not close to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 Sounds good. Better than getting depressed about it. Anyways, thanks for accepting me .3. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTFauKorean Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 holy crap this place moves faster than my Ex-GF's hips ziiiing jk on that, but yes this board/topic w.e zooms by pretty fast Yet through out all the 3-4 pages I caught up with all I've read was multi-pronged advice varied by experience and assumption and sad saaaad pandas so on the lighter note I'd like to change the topic to. hilarious moments of your past relationships or the alternative why your squeeze was fucking greatest babe of all time orrrr out of your league crushes and how hilarity ensued post moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 They were dating, Rapid broke it up Happened to me a while ago too Rapid's a heartbreakah ;P https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=43T7vJzaJHU First thing I thought of when I read that. Mainly cause I really like this song. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 I'm lost on the topics, can sumone tell me the current one or tell me if there is one? Sorry, this thing just got back for me and I just had a stressfull night on the love part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yosuke-kun Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 I'm lost on the topics, can sumone tell me the current one or tell me if there is one? Sorry, this thing just got back for me and I just had a stressfull night on the love part. Rapids a heartbreaker. That's the closest there really is to an actual topic. I really am. I tend to break it up, or just reject them. It's kinda scary how true it is, I'll obviously get rejected if I don't talk to them enough to know them, but hey I'm a jerk and I admit it. But it's 2013, and I wanna change for the better. Which means rejecting a lot of my feelings, so I can KNOW the person more before I follow my weird thoughts of liking people who I'm not close to. I don't think it's that you're a jerk. I've only talked to you once, but you didn't seem like that bad a person. More likely, you had something happen that made you somewhat more conscious or afraid of people than you normally would have been. Honestly, you'd be surprised how often people have something like this without initially knowing that this is what it is, and just think they have something wrong with themselves. Ironically though, even though this is often started by people, people are also the cure. So, I doubt you're a jerk. You're probably just waiting for that right person to seal away your darkness. Note to self: stop analyzing people and quoting Fairy Tail when you do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PandoraCMN Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 Gender: Female Are you in a relationship: No Do you have love experience: Not really Do you mind having your relationship status open to public? No, not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 Rapids a heartbreaker. That's the closest there really is to an actual topic. Oh...I guess Rapid is not the only one now that I stopped to think about it, anyway, I think we should not talk about it unless its something the person want to talk about, well I dunno I am just talking about how it would be with me, I dunno about other people on such subjects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 'Heartbreaker', eh. Hearts do not break. They always mend, you know. They're not these fragile little things you call glass - that shatter. A heart's more like plastic. It can fall, it can slam against the floor, and resist many other things - heartbreak included - but the only things it can't withstand are of course lethal things. Like knives, or sheer brute force continually pressed upon it. Every guy and every girl will recover from every heartbreak eventually, except for that one woman who committed suicide upon her boyfriend breaking up with her. If I look at this from a logical viewpoint, love is a chemical produced in the brain forcing two individuals with suitable genes to mate together. Now when one is cut off from the other, of course the brain (stupid as it is) tries to force you to get back together, regardless of how many other sections of your brain know what happened between you two. It's just a chemical, a painful one, but just a chemical and nothing more. Just keep telling yourself that if one day you lose faith in the public-approved ideal of love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Rapids a heartbreaker. That's the closest there really is to an actual topic. I don't think it's that you're a jerk. I've only talked to you once, but you didn't seem like that bad a person. More likely, you had something happen that made you somewhat more conscious or afraid of people than you normally would have been. Honestly, you'd be surprised how often people have something like this without initially knowing that this is what it is, and just think they have something wrong with themselves. Ironically though, even though this is often started by people, people are also the cure. So, I doubt you're a jerk. You're probably just waiting for that right person to seal away your darkness. Note to self: stop analyzing people and quoting Fairy Tail when you do... I really doubt it. The thing is I'm not looking for the perfect someone. In my point of view everyone has something unique in them, and perfection does not exist. Lot's of girls want to get married to prince charming, but me I don't want that. I think that imperfections are what build character. so when you say "I had something happen to me" I don't really mind it. I mean even if something happens I doubt that it would affect me that much. A really wise person once told me that love come and goes. It's true it will never truly stay. So in my opinion my love is not influenced by whatever might have happened in the past. Mainly because I learned to forgive. I'm not the person to stay stuck, but when I was I eventually learned how to move on. And here I am today. Moderately Happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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