~Marluxia~ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Name- Marluxia In a relationship- No... Love experience- Yes.. Mind telling the whole forum- Sure. WHy not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 I don't understand how that makes any sense whatsoever. Why would she have daddy issues? And just because she has standards does not mean she wants the best of everything. And why would she not have "a lot of male friends". I don't think you know a lot about girls. :I Remember who you're talking to and you'll understand perfectly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Gentlemen, I'm merely asking since across all the girlfriends that members of my family and friends had, women who had daddy issues or are self entitled to stuff or had a lot of male friends, tend to have problems in the relationship down the road. I've seen countless break ups due to these issues if they're severe enough. Then comes the moppyness, crying, and depressing talks of the boyfriends who I live with and you know how annoying that is? Also you all are talking to a guy who thinks getting into relationship with women is a complete and utter alien thought that'll lead to no good. I shan't elaborate on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Might as well join... Username: -Dharc- (please, call me Alex or Alexander.) Gender: Male, for the most part. Relationship Status: ...It's kinda really complicated... Relationship Experience: Well, I had a girlfriend over the summer (whom most of you know, no doubt), then some stuff happened...Now a lot of stuff is going on. Public?: Sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Hope you people are still accepting. Gabe Gender?: Male Are you in a relationship?: Yes. Do you have love experience?: Yes. Do you mind having your relationship status open to public?: Not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Marluxia~ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Went to a Lock- In yesterday.. MEt this really awesome girl.. Her name was Nadiea... We hung out the entire time, while we watched Pirates of the Caribbean and she wastched me play guitar. WHen we started to get tired, i lay down on the ground, and soon she comes next to me at uses my pillow... I gave her my phone and she put her number in. I asked her, "DO you have a boyfriend?" she said no. I smiled and told her I really like her. she was asleep, but she heard me.. the next morning wen I had to leave, i kssed her goodbye and left. I woke up aorund 12, and she texted me. I asked her if we could meet again, because i was thinking of asking her out.. Well, she told me she has a boyfriend of 4 months... Is aw the text, dropped my phone, hit the ground and cried. Heart break. Now I don't know what to do.. I really want to be with her, yet I don't want to the reason her and her boyfriend break up... SHe said if she didn't have him, We'd be able to date... I can't get her out of my head... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Went to a Lock- In yesterday.. MEt this really awesome girl.. Her name was Nadiea... We hung out the entire time, while we watched Pirates of the Caribbean and she wastched me play guitar. WHen we started to get tired, i lay down on the ground, and soon she comes next to me at uses my pillow... I gave her my phone and she put her number in. I asked her, "DO you have a boyfriend?" she said no. I smiled and told her I really like her. she was asleep, but she heard me.. the next morning wen I had to leave, i kssed her goodbye and left. I woke up aorund 12, and she texted me. I asked her if we could meet again, because i was thinking of asking her out.. Well, she told me she has a boyfriend of 4 months... Is aw the text, dropped my phone, hit the ground and cried. Heart break. Now I don't know what to do.. I really want to be with her, yet I don't want to the reason her and her boyfriend break up... SHe said if she didn't have him, We'd be able to date... I can't get her out of my head... *Sigh* Regretfully, I can relate somewhat. The only difference is, I went so far as to lying about saying yes to being with a relationship with her and everybody thinks it's true, including her, minus a lot of friends I told. tbh, dude, if I could give you some form of advice, it would be this: Ask her if she's happy with this other guy. If she says no, then tell her to break it off slowly so neither of the two get hurt as much. Then wait, you'll get your chance. Hope this helps. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Depends dood. All depends. If the guy isn't showing her enough affection nor attention, then I kinda suppose it'll be right. Then again, if she's willing to break up with her current boyfriend to be with you, will she do it again but this time, she'll break up with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Marluxia~ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Sadly, she said want sto make her relationship last. SO it's a lost cause... But she really understood me and was my type. WHy is it that every person we meet that we think is pefect is always taken... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 You can be worse off than that really. Trust me. At least you have a slim hope left. It'll sting for a while, but from the sounds of it you will move on to someone else soon enough. Just cope with the pain, trust your friends to keep you happy, and don't dwell and you should be fine. But... if after a couple of weeks, maybe a month, you still feel the same way, get to know her better and hope things will happen from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm scared I'm gonna get in trouble for saying something, since I'm not officially in the club... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm scared I'm gonna get in trouble for saying something, since I'm not officially in the club... Say something, you're fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Post anyhow, I'm fairly sure you'll get accepted anyhow. Besides, any feedback to help those in need is good feedback. I can't see a problem with posting it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 'Kay. Anyway, Marluxia, here's my advice: It's always best to have high hopes and low expectations. Keep hoping that she'll "come around" and decide to be with you, but don't be so preoccupied with that possibility that it takes over; some things just don't happen. My ultimate piece if advice is to say that you're there for her and you care about her. If you're meant for eachother, then it'll work out. If not, if you truly care about her, then you should want what will make her happy, and only she can decide what does that for her. If you ever need help with this or anything else, add me on Skype or MSN or PM me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thar Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 It's always best to have high hopes and low expectations. I'm sigging this. Is that alright? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ｄｈａｒｃ Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Of course, Yan. Everything I say is public domain, as long as you credit me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Went to a Lock- In yesterday.. MEt this really awesome girl.. Her name was Nadiea... We hung out the entire time, while we watched Pirates of the Caribbean and she wastched me play guitar. WHen we started to get tired, i lay down on the ground, and soon she comes next to me at uses my pillow... I gave her my phone and she put her number in. I asked her, "DO you have a boyfriend?" she said no. I smiled and told her I really like her. she was asleep, but she heard me.. the next morning wen I had to leave, i kssed her goodbye and left. I woke up aorund 12, and she texted me. I asked her if we could meet again, because i was thinking of asking her out.. Well, she told me she has a boyfriend of 4 months... Is aw the text, dropped my phone, hit the ground and cried. Heart break. Now I don't know what to do.. I really want to be with her, yet I don't want to the reason her and her boyfriend break up... SHe said if she didn't have him, We'd be able to date... I can't get her out of my head... OH man you came to the right place for this kind of problem. Okay so you don't really know her, but you like her. You can't say you know her because you just talked to her last night, and I will tell you this right now. DON'T fall for her. You have only seen the good sides of her. She has a bf. You never know what she would be like later on. I'm telling you this because I've gone through it, and I stopped liking the person. Girls come and go. She might seem perfect and amazing but try to set down ground rules for yourself. It's what I have started to do, and it helps me see who I truly like. Plus she would reject you, because one she just met you, and two she has a bf. OH and everyone who has applied for the club is accepted so post anything you'd like. c: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 OH and everyone who has applied for the club is accepted so post anything you'd like. c: Oh good, I was quite unsure and nervous if I should post or not... And Marluxia, sorry I didn't stepped up to help you man, I have been there, but I just dunno what to say, sorry but when ever you need, I might not be much but I've always got a free shoulder to someone lean into and I've always got plenty of time to hear, I might not be that good on public, but if you need to talk it all out, I am here to help. Actualy that goes for everyone else too, I've got two shoulders to hold up my friends, to ears to listen to them, two eyes to look out for them and two hands to extend for those in need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 WHy is it that every person we meet that we think is pefect is always taken... *nods* While you're joining clubs, go pickup a jacket for this one. I've got one. It's black leather, and custom made. Also, Rapid, weren't you telling everyone earlier that you don't ever do anything romantic? Which, I'm sure by most people'e definition, is the entire point of a relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miror B Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 WHy is it that every person we meet that we think is pefect is always taken... Think that's bad? Try meeting a girl who you fall for only to find out she's les and fell for your sister. But I shouldn't be trying to 1-up you, problems are problems after all. My advice? She has a bf, tell you you don't want her to break up with him just to go with you, and be her friend. Hopeful outcomes: Her and her bf find out they don't like each other, or you and her are bffs rather than people who meat once and never talk again. If you don't like the idea of talking to a girl you "like" while not being able to go farther, the friendship might not be for you. It's blunt I know but it's the best I could come up with. If you don't mind the idea of at least being friends, give it a shot. But if it starts going into bad territory (I'll let you decide what that means) then I suggest breaking it off the instant that happens to avoid issues. My 2 cents there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Renji, I don't think I said while I am in a relationship that I don't do sweet stuff. No I meant if I like someone I'd rather laugh, and soak them in. Some people leave such a mark on my heart. I love love love the people who can do that because it's really one of the best and worst feelings. It's good cuz I love every moment, but it's bad because sometimes those people I can't tell I love them. I'm weird like that, the people I really like I have a hard time realizing, and when I do I can't say a word. I just can't bring myself to tell them my feelings, because half of the time I'm only thinking about whats happening right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Think that's bad? Try meeting a girl who you fall for only to find out she's les and fell for your sister. :blink: Damn. Talk about getting burned. If I was there irl, I would be laughing my ass off, but I'd feel bad for you at the same time... Is that possible? Cause I feel like this is something you would see in a lost episode of That 70's Show, tbh. Weirdly enough, I know a girl in my school who told me she was lesbian last year, but broke that relationship off before the year ended for a guy I knew back in Kindergarten. And then BOOM! I find out she's pregnant. I know way too many female friends that are getting pregnant, are pregnant or already have had a baby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 It's funny, cause when people ask me "Hey, what's goin down?" my answer is "The average age of first-time parents." It's pitiful, but it's true. Seriously, why are people getting pregnant at like, 15 years old. That could cause problems for the kid. What happens when he sees an awesome toy on TV, but his mom and dad can't order it cause they aren't 18 or older yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agro Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 As long as a girl's got a boyfriend, I wouldn't try to intervene. When it comes down to it, you really just have to take your chances when they present themselves. If there's something in the way like that, then there's nothing doing for you. It's sad, yeah, but that's how the world works. Who knows? Next time you meet her, she may not be dating. Take that chance when it presents itself. As it is, there's not much to do about it. I'm telling you this because I've gone through it, and I stopped liking the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Maeso Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Sorry but this did caught my eye and atention out from any other topic, sorry, but... What happens when he sees an awesome toy on TV, but his mom and dad can't order it cause they aren't 18 or older yet? Is that what you worry about on that topic? '-' wow... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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