Merci Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 I honestly can't understand how a couple can just be in a bedroom all alone, lie down and cuddle, and not have it escalate to play or sexual activity :/ maybe it's just me and my twisted view of things. For me, the perfect date would be something romantic. Something like inviting her to go on a journey with me on a ship sailing across the ocean under a starry sky. Or maybe something more simple, like just taking a walk over grass underneath that starry sky. Starry skies are [i]amazing[/i], they make everything that much better. I always try my best to do the extravagant things that every other boyfriend seems too lazy to do. It helps win a girl's heart for a long while~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugendramon Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 [quote name='Merciful Idiot' timestamp='1358143762' post='6120344'] I honestly can't understand how a couple can just be in a bedroom all alone, lie down and cuddle, and not have it escalate to play or sexual activity :/ maybe it's just me and my twisted view of things. [/quote] Well, did I ever actually say it never escalated to anything? I just figured I'd spare you guys the details, you can't blame me for that. >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 I can blame you for whatever I like. Especially leaving out details. How do you expect Coist to do anything if you horde information? ... Oh, right, no Coist here... uhhh... But I can still blame you for whatever I want. Also, about laying in bed, unclothed, cuddle, and it not escalate... that is entirely possible. I've done it. And I rather enjoyed it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.WHAM Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 It's very possible. Frustrating at times but doable. However when you do it every day and nothing but that happens that's the strange part. Im terrible with that though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 Perfect date? I've never really gone out for a 'date'. Aside from just going to her house and spending time with her there, because naturally that would be amazing. I guess the best one I've had and one I'd love to repeat was we went to county park on a school trip of all things. Towards the end when the sun was setting we just sat on a bench, staring out at one of the most amazing views in near perfect silence holding each other. We kissed, and I'd never felt happier being with her than at that moment. I promised myself and her I'd take her back there one day, but stuff happened, and the rest is history. Oh nostalgia and a semi-photographic memory have much of a two sided sword you can be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 Well I've never been on a date. Mainly because my parents are super protective, but during the summer. I hang out with a lot of people since my parents aren't with me (because I visit my family in Europe). But I remember last summer me and this one guy I really liked went for a coffee. We did nothing romantic, fact we just had fun. After the coffee, we worked on improving his bike (because we both love riding, and we wanted to improve his bike.) After that we walked home, and went our separate ways. There was no mushy crap, or hugging, or any of that. We truly just laughed, and enjoyed each others company. That to me was perfect. All I really want when I'm spending time with someone is to have fun. I think that is the whole point of going out for the day, to basically have fun, and smile. Plus everything is more fun when there is no romance. Even tho that was not a date, it's what my perfect date would be like. Full of joy, and laughter. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTFauKorean Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 Because I haven't been on a club of this forum in a long time and I've had to many moments with this shiz-net [color=#666666][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(252, 252, 252)]Username- lol, I don't care what you call me [/background][/size][/font][/color] [color=#666666][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(252, 252, 252)]Gender?: M[/background][/size][/font][/color] [color=#666666][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(252, 252, 252)]Are you in a relationship?: was, is, its complicated[/background][/size][/font][/color] [background=rgb(252, 252, 252)][font="tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"][color="#666666"][size=3]Do you have love experience?: everyone does, but I have a variety is the difference[/size][/color][/font][/background] [color=#666666][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(252, 252, 252)]Do you mind having your relationship status open to public? not at all[/background][/size][/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 15, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Accepted ~ And, it's complicated? Care to share? =0 @Rapid - .....That's no fun at all xD Touchy-stuff makes dates worth it ;D *shot* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1358217119' post='6121185'] Accepted ~ And, it's complicated? Care to share? =0 @Rapid - .....That's no fun at all xD Touchy-stuff makes dates worth it ;D *shot* [/quote] Really pushing him off a boat several times, bond fires, racing, smashing ice cream in to each others faces while we're eating it, having your own code, biking all across the country side and then talking breaks in meadows, picking wild fruits and getting chased by bees, and playing pranks on each other. You don't think that's perfect? You'd rather make out then that? Whoa... You are missing out. And through all of that never once have we kissed, or considered anything we do romantic because in all reality it's more fun being rule breakers then lovers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 15, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 The thing is, it's really amazing But, if you are going out with someone After such a fun day The best thing ever is to relax in each other's arms, cuddling You can't experience that normally ^.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Yeah, and like I said before that is way to boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 15, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 In YOUR opinion xD In my opinion, it's one of the best things ever, cuz it's so nice and warm :3 ya gotta learn to appreciate those moments~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Cuddling is one of the best things in a relationship. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 I have only experienced cuddling once. I think I told you guys the story of that already. It was an awkward moment to say the least. And guys, I have Winter Formal coming up, but I haven't asked anyone yet. What do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PokeMaster Calvin Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Hey this looks like a nice club Name: Calvin (Aiden IRL) [color=#5A5A5A][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3]Gender?: Male[/size][/font][/color] [color=#5A5A5A][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3]Are you in a relationship?: It's complicated, expecting to go out on a date with someone, but not really in a relationship[/size][/font][/color] [color=#5A5A5A][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3]Do you have love experience?: Yep, pretty good amount[/size][/font][/color] [color=#5A5A5A][font=tahoma, helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3]Do you mind having your relationship status open to public?: Nope not at all[/size][/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.WHAM Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 @ Hayate & Rapid Why not do both? It seems like the most entertaining route Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapidfire Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 [quote name='Mr.WHAM' timestamp='1358227876' post='6121316'] @ Hayate & Rapid Why not do both? It seems like the most entertaining route [/quote] Because I hate being still for long periods of time. I can be the most chill person when I'm alone, but if someone else is with me... Well I'm a busybody. I don't know but my friends actually seem to like that, since I'm always dragging them somewhere. Some people slow me down, and keep me chill, but most of my friends are pretty hyper. So cuddling to me, would be okay... I'm not a fan of sitting there wasting time, I'd rather make memories in this amazing world, then watch them being made. And this is why I have some pretty kick ass experiences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 That was probably my second-favorite thing, though. Laying there naked in her bed, just cuddling, and not doing anything else. It was perfect. My first favorite was that trip to the lake. Another time I really liked was when we sat on the couch watching [i]Stardust[/i] and eating hotwings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reinforce Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 [quote name='Striker' timestamp='1358222993' post='6121256'] I have only experienced cuddling once. I think I told you guys the story of that already. It was an awkward moment to say the least. And guys, I have Winter Formal coming up, but I haven't asked anyone yet. What do? [/quote] Well, if you have someone in particular you would like to go with, probably try to ask them as soon as possible. If you don't, there is a good chance that someone else will ask them before you work up the courage to do so and if that happens, you'll probably miss your chance to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTFauKorean Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1358217119' post='6121185'] Accepted ~ And, it's complicated? Care to share? =0 [/quote] It's a long story that's hard to condense. Despite not looking like Brad Pit and having Abs like Taylor Lautner I've never found it really hard to hook up with someone. I'm thinking it has something to do with most of the guys I know are just not even trying so they never really get to find out (I'm thinking more than likely they are afraid of rejection). I'm pretty assertive when it comes to this and a majority of the time it has nothing to do with me seriously looking for someone to have a long term 'something' with. That's probably why I'm just not afraid of rejection, mainly because even if I am to be rejected, I really don't care. The more you do it the easier it got because you continue to learn what kinds of things will pick up certain kinds of partners. I would think a lot of my relationship actually aren't really relationships, its usually like one date, a one night stand and its over by next morning. For the most part this really doesn't seem to bother my various partners at all... I don't know maybe its just because those are the type of people I just happen to be hooking up with. there are always a variety of reasons - pity date - for fun - nothing better to do - because someone suggested it - opportunity - actual genuine interest - horny - love? *questionable and possibly challenged There has been a couple that last longer than a day and night and those few we're really quite something, but again because of many external and limiting circumstances beyond my control, (usually it being my folks hate her) those too, although lasting much longer come to a close. To be honest I'm not to bothered by the whole instability, what bothers me is the ones that I do find worth the extra time usually never end up sticking around for reasons beyond my control and thanks to that I almost never bother for the long term anymore. so to answer your question its complicated because I always seem to be with someone, but something I already planned not to last.[quote name='Striker' timestamp='1358222993' post='6121256'] guys, I have Winter Formal coming up, but I haven't asked anyone yet. What do? [/quote] I can only say go for it, be assertive, if you don't try you wont know usually if you go balls out how could they really say no? if you make it a publicity stunt it will come to a guaranteeing yes. I mean that's really the easiest part to be honest The hardest part is how to make it worth her/his time, depending on who you are, while waiting for the event and going through the event itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steel Crimson Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Double - I don't favour those tactics, I do understand but I see that being completely honest with my parents brings better results in terms of me understanding them and them understanding me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 [quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1358229260' post='6121326'] I'm not a fan of sitting there wasting time, I'd rather make memories in this amazing world, then watch them being made. And this is why I have some pretty kick ass experiences. [/quote] [s]YESYESYEYSEYYESYESYEYSESTHISDESCRIBESMEPERFECTLY[/s] Me too. Well, I tend to get more negatives than positives, but the experiences are still worthwhile living~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.WHAM Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 IM just saying why not have awesome experiences and be romantic. It's not like both aren't possible at once. Striker just go find someone u wish to go with or attend by yourself/with friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Limited Edition KING Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Speaking from experience cuddling with someone is amazing it does suck when it's over though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steel Crimson Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 I completely agree, cuddling is awesome but the end of the cuddle is always slightly painful, I am a clingy person anyway and don't really like to leave the side of my partner, she is the same way really which is good because one clingy and one not would be awkward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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