Mugendramon Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357779670' post='6116734'] :3 And don't worry While I was into younger girls a while back I've grown to more...mature tastes =P [/quote] I wonder just how ambiguous could this statement be. As a 16-year old, I like girls my age... but I can't help looking up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 yeah its a common thing to look upwards in age. thats why im not full tilt "NO DONT DATE OLDER PEOPLE". i just want people to know to be more careful in those kinds of situations. bad stuff happens all the time and you dont have to actually be in the same place as a person for them to hurt you. be safe everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357780349' post='6116751'] yeah its a common thing to look upwards in age. thats why im not full tilt "NO DONT DATE OLDER PEOPLE". i just want people to know to be more careful in those kinds of situations. bad stuff happens all the time and you dont have to actually be in the same place as a person for them to hurt you. be safe everyone. [/quote] This sounds so caring :3 Congrats ;D [quote name='Mugendramon' timestamp='1357780209' post='6116746'] I wonder just how ambiguous could this statement be. As a 16-year old, I like girls my age... but I can't help looking up. [/quote]Nonon I meant older women, in their early 20s xDDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357780679' post='6116756'] This sounds so caring :3 Congrats ;D [/quote] both some of my close friends and myself have been the victim of stuff like this. i dont want it to happen to anyone else. its not something anyone should ever go through. and also i care about people a lot. and i always try to help in any way i can. a lot of people like to call me their older sister and im okay with that. *shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357781047' post='6116762'] both some of my close friends and myself have been the victim of stuff like this. i dont want it to happen to anyone else. its not something anyone should ever go through. and also i care about people a lot. and i always try to help in any way i can. a lot of people like to call me their older sister and im okay with that. *shrugs* [/quote] =0 That seems really kewl of you :3 And you've been a victim of that too? seriously? O.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lust the Lascivious Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1356953235' post='6107041'] Weren't you going to get her phone number? Accepted~ If you are interested, we're having a love RP thing [/quote]a love rp thing? hun that sounds wonderful...........is it pg13 or can we get alittle more naughty? 8P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357781224' post='6116766'] =0 That seems really kewl of you :3 And you've been a victim of that too? seriously? O.o [/quote] yes though i got lucky for the most part. but i have a friend whos life was ruined for multiple years and had to get the police to step in and stop it because she online dated a guy who was 18 when she was 15. it was awful. and the worst part was she could only get the police involved because there were pictures involved. in most places stalking itself isnt a crime the police can do anything about. so again, be safe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 @Claire - That sounds horrible... D= I'm glad everything is okay... [quote name='Lust the Lascivious' timestamp='1357781440' post='6116773'] a love rp thing? hun that sounds wonderful...........is it pg13 or can we get alittle more naughty? 8P [/quote]We started already, actually ^.^'' But if you wanna join, you can read up ;D http://forum.yugiohcardmaker.net/topic/294874-north-frost-private-academy-ooc-pg-13not-startedaccepting/ We can imply we get naughty xDD Tho it's PG-16~ But it might be a bit hard, since everyone's competing for a relationship ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lust the Lascivious Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 well shoot i thought we could do more than just cuddlin' hun......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 It's interestin cuz I used to do a lot of naughty RPs back in the day We can start one, but it would have to be in a group PM with those interested, or in this one forum I'm a mod of, where I did the other sexy RPs @.@ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lust the Lascivious Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357783041' post='6116804'] It's interestin cuz I used to do a lot of naughty RPs back in the day We can start one, but it would have to be in a group PM with those interested, or in this one forum I'm a mod of, where I did the other sexy RPs @.@ [/quote]look at you being all sweet..........maybe if i get to know you better hun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 Sweet? No no, I was simply being factual, I assure you @.@ Tho I guess makin friends is nice~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 I think the worst that's ever been done on the forum is pretty much any RP that's had Kyng and Aisu. Those two always push the boundaries and I tend to have to make a character SOLELY to stop them so the thread wouldn't get locked. All the other RPers would just let them go on. .-. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 I made a large mistake on that post by deleting what I was writing. I meant to say that DL's ass belongs to me, so don't try anything. And that you have to be witty and seduced by him to have him, of which only I have done so far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hina~' timestamp='1357784003' post='6116832'] I made a large mistake on that post by deleting what I was writing. I meant to say that DL's ass belongs to me, so don't try anything. And that you have to be witty and seduced by him to have him, of which only I have done so far. [/quote] I've seduced lots of girls xD [quote name='Dwarven King' timestamp='1357783857' post='6116828'] I think the worst that's ever been done on the forum is pretty much any RP that's had Kyng and Aisu. Those two always push the boundaries and I tend to have to make a character SOLELY to stop them so the thread wouldn't get locked. All the other RPers would just let them go on. .-. [/quote]o3o Dang I can guess that might happen...but...really? o-o lol EDIT: Also, Lust, calm down, Hina shouldn't be taken too seriously xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.WHAM Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357783041' post='6116804'] It's interestin cuz I used to do a lot of naughty RPs back in the day We can start one, but it would have to be in a group PM with those interested, or in this one forum I'm a mod of, where I did the other sexy RPs @.@ [/quote] Sigh RPS...I remade one... Ill look at this one though... OT: I know someone whose 16 and likes me and is usually as mature as someone who is 22. And she looks older than that too to make it worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357784254' post='6116836'] I've seduced lots of girls xD o3o Dang I can guess that might happen...but...really? o-o [/quote] Oh yeah, it happened. I legitimately made a character that ACTIVELY searched out the group of players (my character was the only bad guy besides the main one) and joined them. Told Kyng and Aisu that she was working with my other character and was tasked with finding out more about their characters. But secretly it was just an excuse to keep someone close to LITERALLY interfere should they get to...far. And it was a good thing I did. We all know how sensitive Rinne is sometimes. .-. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357778616' post='6116707'] i have issues with it, mostly because in those kinds of situations it becomes much more likely that the younger person is being manipulated in some way. like i dont mind that kind of age differences if the younger person is older, like say around 19-20. but at 15 or 16 youre still very much not an adult and dating an adult opens up all kinds of safety concerns that should just be avoided. [/quote] So, what you're saying is, as an adult, you're magically immune to manipulation, and adults don't get raped or whatever? Hm, interesting... I'll just write down that adults don't have to worry about safety issues with people... [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357779085' post='6116717'] well in that case NEITHER person is an adult. it isnt the age difference itself. [b]its the fact that one person isnt fully grown and one is. thats the issue.[/b] [/quote] So that itself is the issue? I've heard that argument before, from many people, but none of them bothered to explain it. They seemed to have no way of backing up that argument. Apparently, that's the only argument in the world that needs no facts to back it up. [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357781596' post='6116776'] yes though i got lucky for the most part. but i have a friend whos life was ruined for multiple years and had to get the police to step in and stop it because she online dated a guy who was 18 when she was 15. it was awful. and the worst part was she could only get the police involved because there were pictures involved. in most places stalking itself isnt a crime the police can do anything about. so again, be safe. [/quote] I'm quite certain that there's more to this situation than that. I physically dated a 15 year old when I was 18. It ended when I was 20 and she was 18. (October Birthday and May Birthday, respectively.) So, clearly, that itself is not an issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DL Posted January 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 DMG The thing is It's not NECESSARILY an issue But younger people should still watch out when dating older people, as they have most likely not reached the same maturity level :I Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 I haven't joined a club on YCM in years, and I'm [i]really lacking[/i] when it comes to actual socialization since usually all I've been doing on this site is making and joining RPs, updating my status with random stuff and my strangely-revolving life, pointlessly asking questions... ANYWAY, this place looks kind of nice. [s]And it gives me an opportunity to complain to Hina about why she doesn't reply to me anymore [color=white]it's not my fault I'm inactive now! >.<[/color][/s] [color=white][i]Username:[/i] Merciful Idiot (just in case)[/color] [i]Gender?:[/i] Male [i]Are you in a relationship?:[/i] Yep, since May last year. That makes what, seven-eight months now? [i]Do you have love experience?:[/i] ...[size=2]yeah.[/size] [color=white]You're referring to sexual intercourse, right?[/color] [i]Do you mind having your relationship status open to public?:[/i] I believe so, yes. Anyway, about the current topic, age itself isn't an issue, 15-year-old girls can date 18-year-old guys and vice versa, it's the [i]person themselves[/i] that's the issue. Levels of maturity can vary greatly, but if a girl meets a guy online, chances are that he probably wouldn't be so much of a nice person (since why else would he be lurking on the internet, instead of actually going out there and having a life of his own?). That's just my opinion, anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit of DMG Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 ... Mercy? What are you trying to say about me? And probably 98% of people on YCM? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reinforce Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 Heya merciful, sounds similar to my reason for joining the club. As for this topic, well I don't really have a problem with younger people dating older people, but I do think that if they are teenagers and a couple of years apart, it would make lots people around their ages either question the validity of the relationship or just reject it entirely. That's what I've seen from the couple of such relationships that have appeared at my school. Around the teenage years, such an age gap seems massive, but later on it's only a small difference, which may have something to do with more the proportion of difference, rather than the exact difference in years. And also, lots of the people you meet online would be nice people, but if they spend most of their time on social networking or forums like this one, they most likely don't have that much social skills and probably aren't that great to date anyway (I know thats me anyway, at least as far as social skills and experience dating goes.). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merci Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 ....................uh. Okay, so I admit there were some flaws in that argument, but we're YCMers. YCM is a holy sanctuary where everyone is awesome. What I was trying to say is er, people on the internet can't be trusted? Especially those on dating sites, I guess. @Simdoggy; HEY! I didn't know you were here. Hello there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Hayate Ayasaki~' timestamp='1357783041' post='6116804'] It's interestin cuz I used to do a lot of naughty RPs back in the day We can start one, but it would have to be in a group PM with those interested, or in this one forum I'm a mod of, where I did the other sexy RPs @.@ [/quote]The vocaloid forum, I assume. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted January 10, 2013 Report Share Posted January 10, 2013 [quote name='Reiji Kokonoe' timestamp='1357795754' post='6117036'] So, what you're saying is, as an adult, you're magically immune to manipulation, and adults don't get raped or whatever? Hm, interesting... I'll just write down that adults don't have to worry about safety issues with people... [b]jesus christ no im not saying that in the slightest[/b]. [b]im saying that someone who is underage is MORE vulnerable, not that turning 18 magically makes you immune to stuff like harassment, stalking, abuse [/b]and worse. So that itself is the issue? I've heard that argument before, from many people, but none of them bothered to explain it. They seemed to have no way of backing up that argument. Apparently, that's the only argument in the world that needs no facts to back it up. I'm quite certain that there's more to this situation than that. I physically dated a 15 year old when I was 18. It ended when I was 20 and she was 18. (October Birthday and May Birthday, respectively.) So, clearly, that itself is not an issue. [b]the issue is that because one person is not fully grown and one is there is a much higher chance that someone is going to get hurt, especially because younger people are, on average, less likely to know or see the warning signs that someone who is interested in them is interested for the wrong reasons.[/b] [/quote] notice how i never said "absolutely never date someone younger." because i think that in some cases its acceptable as long as precautions are taken. dont you dare come in here and say s*** like youve just said to me in some attempt to defend something i didnt even say i was actually against. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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