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I'm sorry to break the conversation, and to change the topic but boy I had one hell of a night. Alright so bear with me because I'm gonna cram everything together. So I'm greek orthodox, and today for us is Christmas eve. My family is not the most religious, but we do go to church on days like this. So me and my friend are huddled up laughing, and talking, and stuff. Since I barely go to curch I don't know a lot of the teens, so I try to be as nice, as possible. My friend on the other hand has really religious parents so she knows everyone. Our little group of two turns in to 3. The other girl is really nice, and has a chill but fun vibe to her. After a while another girl comes, and so like any normal person I introduce myself. Now she basically gives me the crappiest hi in the world. I don't really pay much attention to it, and move on. I actually start paying attention to what she is saying, and realize that she is the stereotypical blond. She pretty much completely ignores me. I don't really mind it, and move closer to the bond fire. Eventually I notice this guy that I have only talked to once, but dear god he is attractive. So my friend is like hey let's go say hi, like almost immediately the blond girl breaks away. I don't really care, but when I was standing next to her I felt like my brain cells were ding. So she wonders off, and the other girl that was with her finally drops the nice act and starts mumbling about how stupid, and annoying the blond girl was. I kinda push it aside til she asks me for my opinion. I kinda look over and say "you know she probably was the stereotypical blond, but she never even looked at me, so I can't really judge her." So I move away and I start having this conversation with the guy. Everything about him attracts me, for Christ sake he literally talks and walks in slow motion. Something about him makes me have a fan girl moment. But the one thing I notice right away is his presence, he never makes me feel nervous. I could literally tell anything and I would have no regrets. I feel calm around him, it's he slowed me down as well. Then he gives me a feeling like he's flirting with me, and like literally just leaves. This pretty much confuses the f*** out of me. I'm already to curious about him for my own good, later on we meet again by the bond fire. We talk, and laugh a bit. It's all chill, til he tells me about the fact that he dislikes the blond girl. So I just say "hmm, I'm guessing you don't find her attractive". He replies "I would have sex with her, but I wouldn't call her." I don't think much of it at the time, so later on me and my friend go inside her parents car and talk about everything (like always). She brings something really interesting to my mind, she says "you'd probably like it when he flirts with you, I don't I find it a bit creepy" of course it's because I'm two years older, and she's 4 years younger so it's a bit creepier for her to flirt with a senior. I say you know he might be so different, and unique but I would never go out with him, because he's too much to handle. I never thought I would see the day where I thought about that I could not handle a guy. So the rest of the car ride home I keep thinking to myself what the f*** is this s***? I mean it was a weird night, plus I don't think I have ever met a more shy girl. Or she might be a jerk. Ether way to be that unsocial that you pretty much don't even acknowledge my existence... I don't really see the point of it. I don't really care about that, but it still makes me wonder why so mean to someone you never even looked in the eyes.

Sorry for writing this much.

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tbh, when I meet someone, I usually have no interest in that person unless something about their appearance or personality shines through. However, when it comes to stuff that nake me lose interest, it's basically anything negative towards me. Because I have Asperger Syndrome, everytime I do something that is not normal to others, like...Hm...What's a good example...? OH! Everytime someone says something that pisses me off, I end up snapping at them both knowingly and subconsciously, and I just want to knock them the f*ck out (That's not a reference to the Friday movies, btw). I try my best not to do it, but I do it because I'd like to not hold my anger in. Plus, when I do yell at them, they laugh at me, feeding off of my rage until I'm pushed too far (Which hasn't happened yet, thank God).

This has been happening for God-knows-how-long, and sooner or later, I'll be done with all of this crap, and my subconscious will cause me to black out while it finds the bastards who have been screwing with me all this time and put an end to them already. It won't be my choice, because my anger will take over and I'll go straight to jail after I figure out I did it. I don't want to do that, but I'm always being pushed so far, and I'm yet to know my limit before I go Hulk Smash on their asses. I try not to think about that stuff, but it's always on my mind. And nobody tell me the bullsh*t "Just ignore them". That sh*t doesn't work with me. My brain keeps me from ignoring what angers me, and now I'm moving on to actual threats of violence or urging the people who mess with me to take the first shot. Thank God I'm a pacifist, or I would have been dead already.

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[quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1357531119' post='6113829']
I'm sorry to break the conversation, and to change the topic but boy I had one hell of a night. Alright so bear with me because I'm gonna cram everything together. So I'm greek orthodox, and today for us is Christmas eve. My family is not the most religious, but we do go to church on days like this. So me and my friend are huddled up laughing, and talking, and stuff. Since I barely go to curch I don't know a lot of the teens, so I try to be as nice, as possible. My friend on the other hand has really religious parents so she knows everyone. Our little group of two turns in to 3. The other girl is really nice, and has a chill but fun vibe to her. After a while another girl comes, and so like any normal person I introduce myself. Now she basically gives me the crappiest hi in the world. I don't really pay much attention to it, and move on. I actually start paying attention to what she is saying, and realize that she is the stereotypical blond. She pretty much completely ignores me. I don't really mind it, and move closer to the bond fire. Eventually I notice this guy that I have only talked to once, but dear god he is attractive. So my friend is like hey let's go say hi, like almost immediately the blond girl breaks away. I don't really care, but when I was standing next to her I felt like my brain cells were ding. So she wonders off, and the other girl that was with her finally drops the nice act and starts mumbling about how stupid, and annoying the blond girl was. I kinda push it aside til she asks me for my opinion. I kinda look over and say "you know she probably was the stereotypical blond, but she never even looked at me, so I can't really judge her." So I move away and I start having this conversation with the guy. Everything about him attracts me, for Christ sake he literally talks and walks in slow motion. Something about him makes me have a fan girl moment. But the one thing I notice right away is his presence, he never makes me feel nervous. I could literally tell anything and I would have no regrets. I feel calm around him, it's he slowed me down as well. Then he gives me a feeling like he's flirting with me, and like literally just leaves. This pretty much confuses the f*** out of me. I'm already to curious about him for my own good, later on we meet again by the bond fire. We talk, and laugh a bit. It's all chill, til he tells me about the fact that he dislikes the blond girl. So I just say "hmm, I'm guessing you don't find her attractive". He replies "I would have sex with her, but I wouldn't call her." I don't think much of it at the time, so later on me and my friend go inside her parents car and talk about everything (like always). She brings something really interesting to my mind, she says "you'd probably like it when he flirts with you, I don't I find it a bit creepy" of course it's because I'm two years older, and she's 4 years younger so it's a bit creepier for her to flirt with a senior. I say you know he might be so different, and unique but I would never go out with him, because he's too much to handle. I never thought I would see the day where I thought about that I could not handle a guy. So the rest of the car ride home I keep thinking to myself what the f*** is this s***? I mean it was a weird night, plus I don't think I have ever met a more shy girl. Or she might be a jerk. Ether way to be that unsocial that you pretty much don't even acknowledge my existence... I don't really see the point of it. I don't really care about that, but it still makes me wonder why so mean to someone you never even looked in the eyes.

Sorry for writing this much.
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So.... I'll actually respond.

There are a few things I would like to note.
1. She is insecure and your not, or that is the vibe I get from her. This intimidates her most likely and makes her you know not want to notice you.
2. "Typical Blond" as she may be I sense she was placing up a facade and only came out to you because she saw something good in you.
3. Don't judge her cause as you said you know nothing about her. She seems off puting
4. People sometimes don't mix well with others. I don't like people or when people deny the truths that they need to see, which is a lot of people. Why? Because I myself am never allowed such a luxury & I feel the need to know and know truth.
5. I would say try to befriend that girl and see if it works out and hope not to prove me wrong. Cause in honesty people thrive off others whether we like it or not.
6. Did you get his number?
7. Why did he mention sex at all...
8. If you did get his number are you going to call/text?
9. It's odd but not that strange...


And a turn off for me is true stupidity & arguments.

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I have his fb, and no I tried talking to her but she literally ignored me, and only bragged about the fact that she works in Hollister. Fact through the whole thing I was nothing but nice to her. Oh and I don't know why he mentioned that. Plus I'm not gonna message him, I don't want anything to do with him. I'm not messing with love for a wile.

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[quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1357533912' post='6113864']
I have his fb, and no I tried talking to her but she literally ignored me, and only bragged about the fact that she works in Hollister. Fact through the whole thing I was nothing but nice to her. Oh and I don't know why he mentioned that. Plus I'm not gonna message him, I don't want anything to do with him. I'm not messing with love for a wile.
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Well then, at the end of the day she's trying to prove something to a person who needs no proving and you might as well leave it alone. I cannot dig deeper into her mind with out actually having a conversation with her but she's self absorbed it seems. Let her stay that way and you stay out of it, which I imagine you're going to do anyways.

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I am used to 4-6 hours of sleep.

I always try for it to be at least close to 5.

Even if that causes me to be sleepy.


Also, Rapid, I read that big thingy.

Even though it's ONE HUGE WALL OF TEXT.

Anyway, that's kinda mean, to the blond one xDD

Everyone was secretly disliking her it seems.



Also, you and your love-strike o3o

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I usually try to get between 6-8 hours of sleep, but then my sleeping patterns aren't that regular anyway. Especially so since I believe it's recommended that people my age get around 9 hours of sleep a night. Who they think will actually manage that I don't know, since no-one around my age that I know gets that much. I'm 17 by the way, just to clarify that.

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[quote name='Steel Crimson' timestamp='1357561950' post='6114035']
Hello! How are you?
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That's kind of spam, js

I'm fine tho,


Also, you are accepted.

@Simdoggy - When I lived in the US, I used to sleep at like 8 (due to siblings) and wake up at like 6. Soooooo~

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I get 3-6 hours of sleep every night because sleep is for the weak etc. Also because I suffer from sleeping problems, but THAT'S ANOTHER ISSUE

[quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357502436' post='6113245']
call her a future alice margatroid
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pssst does this make you a patchouli or a marisa

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[quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1357531119' post='6113829']
I'm sorry to break the conversation, and to change the topic but boy I had one hell of a night. Alright so bear with me because I'm gonna cram everything together. So I'm greek orthodox, and today for us is Christmas eve. My family is not the most religious, but we do go to church on days like this. So me and my friend are huddled up laughing, and talking, and stuff. Since I barely go to curch I don't know a lot of the teens, so I try to be as nice, as possible. My friend on the other hand has really religious parents so she knows everyone. Our little group of two turns in to 3. The other girl is really nice, and has a chill but fun vibe to her. After a while another girl comes, and so like any normal person I introduce myself. Now she basically gives me the crappiest hi in the world. I don't really pay much attention to it, and move on. I actually start paying attention to what she is saying, and realize that she is the stereotypical blond. She pretty much completely ignores me. I don't really mind it, and move closer to the bond fire. Eventually I notice this guy that I have only talked to once, but dear god he is attractive. So my friend is like hey let's go say hi, like almost immediately the blond girl breaks away. I don't really care, but when I was standing next to her I felt like my brain cells were ding. So she wonders off, and the other girl that was with her finally drops the nice act and starts mumbling about how stupid, and annoying the blond girl was. I kinda push it aside til she asks me for my opinion. I kinda look over and say "you know she probably was the stereotypical blond, but she never even looked at me, so I can't really judge her." So I move away and I start having this conversation with the guy. Everything about him attracts me, for Christ sake he literally talks and walks in slow motion. Something about him makes me have a fan girl moment. But the one thing I notice right away is his presence, he never makes me feel nervous. I could literally tell anything and I would have no regrets. I feel calm around him, it's he slowed me down as well. Then he gives me a feeling like he's flirting with me, and like literally just leaves. This pretty much confuses the f*** out of me. I'm already to curious about him for my own good, later on we meet again by the bond fire. We talk, and laugh a bit. It's all chill, til he tells me about the fact that he dislikes the blond girl. So I just say "hmm, I'm guessing you don't find her attractive". He replies "I would have sex with her, but I wouldn't call her." I don't think much of it at the time, so later on me and my friend go inside her parents car and talk about everything (like always). She brings something really interesting to my mind, she says "you'd probably like it when he flirts with you, I don't I find it a bit creepy" of course it's because I'm two years older, and she's 4 years younger so it's a bit creepier for her to flirt with a senior. I say you know he might be so different, and unique but I would never go out with him, because he's too much to handle. I never thought I would see the day where I thought about that I could not handle a guy. So the rest of the car ride home I keep thinking to myself what the f*** is this s***? I mean it was a weird night, plus I don't think I have ever met a more shy girl. Or she might be a jerk. Ether way to be that unsocial that you pretty much don't even acknowledge my existence... I don't really see the point of it. I don't really care about that, but it still makes me wonder why so mean to someone you never even looked in the eyes.

Sorry for writing this much.
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DK has only one response to that. Don't talk to the guy. He seems like bad news.

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If you're looking for an anime to watch, you could try Sword Art Online, that's a really good one that's recently come out. And anyway, I would not survive on 3 hours of sleep each night, but I tend to sleep from about 2 am or so until between 8-10 am, so not exactly a typical sleeping pattern anyway, though I guess it kinda is fairly normal for an online gamer in australia.

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[quote name='Simdoggy' timestamp='1357567538' post='6114074']
If you're looking for an anime to watch, you could try Sword Art Online, that's a really good one that's recently come out. And anyway, I would not survive on 3 hours of sleep each night, but I tend to sleep from about 2 am or so until between 8-10 am, so not exactly a typical sleeping pattern anyway, though I guess it kinda is fairly normal for an online gamer in australia.
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I can imagine it'd be hard being online in Australia, everyone else being on at different times, I know I don't get enough sleep but find it difficult to sleep when in bed.

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