~YCM's Dating Club~ (Join, because we're cool ;D)

[Cute Rotten Yoshika]

i feel like im in a different positing wrt school reading. i always loved reading my textbooks. id usually go through all of them the week we got them and when i wanted to look busy id read one. people sometimes bug you if youre reading a novel because they wanna talk about it but no one wants to have a chat about calculus out of nowhere haha.

as for doing the actual work i wasnt so diligent. part of it being that i was not (and am still not) being treated for a learning disability though part of it was my general attitude towards working which has changed for the better.

[DL]

Oh wow, smart talks o3o


Don't worry Marisa-sama, you'd do much better than me, since I'm so average xD



Also, as for love movies

I count Liar Liar as a love movie <3

[Rapidfire]

[quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1357269981' post='6110641']
i feel like im in a different positing wrt school reading. i always loved reading my textbooks. id usually go through all of them the week we got them and when i wanted to look busy id read one. people sometimes bug you if youre reading a novel because they wanna talk about it but no one wants to have a chat about calculus out of nowhere haha.

as for doing the actual work i wasnt so diligent. part of it being that i was not (and am still not) being treated for a learning disability though part of it was my general attitude towards working which has changed for the better.
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I feel bad now, I don't even know what color my math book is.

[Mugendramon]

Guys, don't you think some of your discussions are a bit... general? I'd like to remind all of you that this place is only open because it has an actual theme. Because, there are already other places for what would be general discussion. Don't have pages and pages about stuff like studies. It just doesn't fit the theme.

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[quote name='Mugendramon' timestamp='1357274595' post='6110681']
Guys, don't you think some of your discussions are a bit... general? I'd like to remind all of you that this place is only open because it has an actual theme. Because, there are already other places for what would be general discussion. Don't have pages and pages about stuff like studies. It just doesn't fit the theme.
[/quote]At least it's an engaging discussion

However, yeah, we should probly get back into the love thing soon.

=D



Anyone got any juicy gossips for us? ;D

[Mugendramon]

[quote name='Fluttershy401' timestamp='1357275332' post='6110688']
At least it's an engaging discussion
[/quote]

Yeah, but engaging discussion that causes the club to stray from its theme makes it another general club, wouldn't you say~?

And if this ever does become that, I'll lock it, archive it, then delete it to the ground. I WILL~

[DL]

[quote name='Mugendramon' timestamp='1357275432' post='6110690']
Yeah, but engaging discussion that causes the club to stray from its theme makes it another general club, wouldn't you say~?

And if this ever does become that, I'll lock it, archive it, then delete it to the ground. I WILL~
[/quote]
General clubs are badass- *shot*


Well at least it's better than spam, right? :3


Besides, iirc, a page or so of general discussion is fine as long as it doesn't go beyond that and such

At least, I believe that's how it works.

[Mugendramon]

[quote name='Fluttershy401' timestamp='1357275980' post='6110692']
General clubs are badass- *shot*


Well at least it's better than spam, right? :3


Besides, iirc, a page or so of general discussion is fine as long as it doesn't go beyond that and such

At least, I believe that's how it works.
[/quote]

It's not how it works, or at least potentially so. There are already [acronym="Striker's Treehouse or Jake's Hotel"]two general discussion clubs you can join[/acronym].

I don't want to say [i]I won't tolerate another one[/i] because I'd be forcing authority in an unfair way, but let me say I feel it would be a waste. Having a third thread for stuff like this is wholly unnecessary.

[Phantom Roxas]

For some reason, despite being a massive shipper, I don't read something purely for being a love story.

There, no we're back to talking about love.

[DL]

[quote name='Mugendramon' timestamp='1357276240' post='6110698']
It's not how it works, or at least potentially so. There are already [acronym="Striker's Treehouse or Jake's Hotel"]two general discussion clubs you can join[/acronym].

I don't want to say [i]I won't tolerate another one[/i] because I'd be forcing authority in an unfair way, but let me say I feel it would be a waste. Having a third thread for stuff like this is wholly unnecessary.
[/quote]
We'll try to keep the general discussions to a minimum. Of course, they might still happen.


But at a minimum.

[quote name='Phantom Roxas' timestamp='1357277291' post='6110711']
For some reason, despite being a massive shipper, I don't read something purely for being a love story.

There, no we're back to talking about love.
[/quote]
much wuv

Same, actually.

I'd rather see a romantic comedy, rather than just a romance

[Spirit of DMG]

Honestly, a story can be about as mushy-lovey as anything can really get, and I doubt I'd really read it. Unless it has a decent story behind it. [i]A Walk to Remember[/i] was good. And [i]My Best Friend's Girl[/i] was just hilarious. I'm not sure how to classify [i]Teenage Dirtbag[/i] but it was still a good movie non the less.

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

[quote name='Fluttershy401' timestamp='1357275332' post='6110688']
Anyone got any juicy gossips for us? ;D
[/quote]

It's not really gossip, but this fits in to the theme of love, but it's not very happy, unfortunately.

But luckily, it's all in the past.

I'm just feeling rather ill now because someone just brought up the last girl I was involved with and I have no idea why it still pains me. It's such a shame to never be completely healed. I'm over her completely, because the thought of her is revolting, but I can't shake away how uneasy hearing her name makes me, or how uncomfortable it is to see her.

And what's a bit sad about it is that I'm the one who called us off, but I'm the one forever scarred. I'm the one who was damaged more, when really I should've celebrated that day. It was, after all, the first step to getting out of misery.

But why are certain people you love poison? Why do they care about you one minute, and then throw you away the next?

I don't ever dwell on her, or our situation, but this is the first time a friend of mine brought her up in months. And it kind of came back to me. Forgive me for turning the direction of the topic so serious and depressing, I just needed to get it out there to people other than my irl friends.

[Spirit of DMG]

Marissa-Sama, I sympathize. Once you fall in love with someone, you can never really get completely back out of it. This goes for everyone, though the extent to which they are able to pull back varies. For some more than others, certain people in life will be poison, for one reason or another. I can't explain as to why this is, but there will be some people you meet in life that they will drag you down just by hearing their name.

[DL]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1357284298' post='6110777']
It's not really gossip, but this fits in to the theme of love, but it's not very happy, unfortunately.

But luckily, it's all in the past.

I'm just feeling rather ill now because someone just brought up the last girl I was involved with and I have no idea why it still pains me. It's such a shame to never be completely healed. I'm over her completely, because the thought of her is revolting, but I can't shake away how uneasy hearing her name makes me, or how uncomfortable it is to see her.

And what's a bit sad about it is that I'm the one who called us off, but I'm the one forever scarred. I'm the one who was damaged more, when really I should've celebrated that day. It was, after all, the first step to getting out of misery.

But why are certain people you love poison? Why do they care about you one minute, and then throw you away the next?

I don't ever dwell on her, or our situation, but this is the first time a friend of mine brought her up in months. And it kind of came back to me. Forgive me for turning the direction of the topic so serious and depressing, I just needed to get it out there to people other than my irl friends.
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...um....was this Jamie? O_O or someone else?

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

[quote name='Reiji Kokonoe' timestamp='1357284546' post='6110780']
Marissa-Sama, I sympathize. Once you fall in love with someone, you can never really get completely back out of it. This goes for everyone, though the extent to which they are able to pull back varies. For some more than others, certain people in life will be poison, for one reason or another. I can't explain as to why this is, but there will be some people you meet in life that they will drag you down just by hearing their name.
[/quote]

Yeah, love is such a tough thing. And you never know who'll end up being poison and who won't. It just happens.

However, on a lighter and much happier note, I do like someone new now, and she's been shedding light on the cracks in my heart, really. So I'm happy. My post above was about someone I was involved with about half a year ago, almost. So things have gotten much better, and I've grown from such an experience.

[quote name='Fluttershy401' timestamp='1357284589' post='6110781']
...um....was this Jamie? O_O or someone else?
[/quote]

Someone completely else. I'm actually not even friends with Jamie anymore. I changed a lot during the time that I liked her, and my feelings faded from her completely, to the point where I was just so disinterested in even maintaining a friendship.

[DL]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1357284859' post='6110783']
Yeah, love is such a tough thing. And you never know who'll end up being poison and who won't. It just happens.

However, on a lighter and much happier note, I do like someone new now, and she's been shedding light on the cracks in my heart, really. So I'm happy. My post above was about someone I was involved with about half a year ago, almost. So things have gotten much better, and I've grown from such an experience.



Someone completely else. I'm actually not even friends with Jamie anymore. I changed a lot during the time that I liked her, and my feelings faded from her completely, to the point where I was just so disinterested in even maintaining a friendship.
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It's interesting, cuz you were SO interested in her back then... ^.^''


I'm kinda curious about this other girl tho...is there anything you'd care to PM me, as in, more specific points of that?

[Spirit of DMG]

Well, that's good. For me, there's a girl I like. Even now, for some reason, I find myself drifting back to that first day we were at the lake together... I don't know why I go back to that point, but I do. I still maintain a form of kinship with her, and usually I'm happy just knowing we still have some form of a relationship, though, when... certain topics bring themselves to the fore-front, I tend to withdraw quite a bit...

[Phantom Roxas]

I can't keep the Reiji/Kyubey avatar for what I'm about to say. It doesn't work with the silliness of that.

I still carry the torch for someone I've known since elementary school. We didn't go to the same high school, so I only saw once or a twice a year, and I never saw her at all this year. Every time I had seen her, I had the chance to tell her how I felt, but I always wasted it. I guess I was just afraid of being rejected, but I shouldn't have been. In hindsight, she was one of my favorite people to talk to during elementary school, especially since I was basically the kid people either picked on or found weird. The reason I wanted to see The Perks of Being a Wallflower was because it seemed like a movie where I could truly identify with the characters, but I never got the chance to. I think it's still in theaters, but they're too far away that I at might as well just catch it on On-Demand.

The reason I'm so prudish is because she's someone who I want to spend those special moments with. Because I waited too long to do what I should have done, I feel that I've let her get away. I still hope that one day I'll be able to change all that. And with a heavy heart, I wish you all good night.

[DL]

[quote name='Phantom Roxas' timestamp='1357286237' post='6110801']
I can't keep the Reiji/Kyubey avatar for what I'm about to say. It doesn't work with the silliness of that.

I still carry the torch for someone I've known since elementary school. We didn't go to the same high school, so I only saw once or a twice a year, and I never saw her at all this year. Every time I had seen her, I had the chance to tell her how I felt, but I always wasted it. I guess I was just afraid of being rejected, but I shouldn't have been. In hindsight, she was one of my favorite people to talk to during elementary school, especially since I was basically the kid people either picked on or found weird. The reason I wanted to see The Perks of Being a Wallflower was because it seemed like a movie where I could truly identify with the characters, but I never got the chance to. I think it's still in theaters, but they're too far away that I at might as well just catch it on On-Demand.

The reason I'm so prudish is because she's someone who I want to spend those special moments with. Because I waited too long to do what I should have done, I feel that I've let her get away. I still hope that one day I'll be able to change all that. And with a heavy heart, I wish you all good night.
[/quote]Good night, Roxas

And I'm sure, you'll be able to change that someday ^.^

Besides, it's not over till it's over, dude ;D

[Spirit of DMG]

Hmmm... I hear ya, Roxas. And, even though the whole song-thing was a while ago, I can't help but be reminded of a couple here.
[i]While She's Walking Away[/i] by Zac Brown Band
[i]Life's A Dance[/i] by John Micheal Montgomery
Oh, and Marisa-Sama, for you, I have this:
[url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3ibjbUc_48"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3ibjbUc_48[/url]

Hmmm... I hear ya, Roxas. And, even though the whole song-thing was a while ago, I can't help but be reminded of a couple here.
[i]While She's Walking Away[/i] by Zac Brown Band
[i]Life's A Dance[/i] by John Micheal Montgomery
Oh, and Marisa-Sama, for you, I have this:
[url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3ibjbUc_48"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3ibjbUc_48[/url]

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

[quote name='Fluttershy401' timestamp='1357285073' post='6110784']
It's interesting, cuz you were SO interested in her back then... ^.^''
I'm kinda curious about this other girl tho...is there anything you'd care to PM me, as in, more specific points of that?
[/quote]

Yeah, I did like her a lot, but my reasons for liking her back then was because we had a lot in common, and after changing and outgrowing certain interests, we ended up having nothing in common anymore haha. It wasn't fun or interesting.

And nah, she's in the past now. Anything you want to know about her, I could tell you, but I don't want to write out the whole story. Especially because the past should be let go of, in this case. But thank you for reaching out.

[quote name='Reiji Kokonoe' timestamp='1357285874' post='6110793']
Well, that's good. For me, there's a girl I like. Even now, for some reason, I find myself drifting back to that first day we were at the lake together... I don't know why I go back to that point, but I do. I still maintain a form of kinship with her, and usually I'm happy just knowing we still have some form of a relationship, though, when... certain topics bring themselves to the fore-front, I tend to withdraw quite a bit...
[/quote]

That sound beautiful. I mean, the going to the lake with a loved one. And so I guess there's always someone we think about here and there, even after everything is said and done.

[quote name='Phantom Roxas' timestamp='1357286237' post='6110801']
I can't keep the Reiji/Kyubey avatar for what I'm about to say. It doesn't work with the silliness of that.
I still carry the torch for someone I've known since elementary school. We didn't go to the same high school, so I only saw once or a twice a year, and I never saw her at all this year. Every time I had seen her, I had the chance to tell her how I felt, but I always wasted it. I guess I was just afraid of being rejected, but I shouldn't have been. In hindsight, she was one of my favorite people to talk to during elementary school, especially since I was basically the kid people either picked on or found weird. The reason I wanted to see The Perks of Being a Wallflower was because it seemed like a movie where I could truly identify with the characters, but I never got the chance to. I think it's still in theaters, but they're too far away that I at might as well just catch it on On-Demand.
The reason I'm so prudish is because she's someone who I want to spend those special moments with. Because I waited too long to do what I should have done, I feel that I've let her get away. I still hope that one day I'll be able to change all that. And with a heavy heart, I wish you all good night.
[/quote]

I think the next time you see her, you definitely need to tell her how you feel. You can't let those moments slip away, Roxas! Plus, this is only one life you're living and you can't miss out on chances that'll change your life forever. Especially with something like this, since it means so much to you. Just work up the courage and push yourself next time. I think it's incredibly important, and no matter the outcome, you'll be glad you did it. Never regret things that you didn't do. Always go forth and do them.

I hope for the same for you, that things can turn around and the wait will be worthwhile.

[quote name='Reiji Kokonoe' timestamp='1357286707' post='6110807']
Oh, and Marisa-Sama, for you, I have this:
youtube video
[/quote]

Man, that's beautiful. And definitely fits the mood.

---

Also, I've been writing a lot and some of my entries are about love, so if any of you want to take a look at this thread, I'd be really happy:
[url="http://forum.yugiohcardmaker.net/topic/295220-a-compilation-of-some-poetry-and-some-not-really-poetry/"]http://forum.yugiohc...-really-poetry/[/url]

The "flowery writing" one is about the girl I like now.

[Rapidfire]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1357286965' post='6110810']
Yeah, I did like her a lot, but my reasons for liking her back then was because we had a lot in common, and after changing and outgrowing certain interests, we ended up having nothing in common anymore haha. It wasn't fun or interesting.

And nah, she's in the past now. Anything you want to know about her, I could tell you, but I don't want to write out the whole story. Especially because the past should be let go of, in this case. But thank you for reaching out.



That sound beautiful. I mean, the going to the lake with a loved one. And so I guess there's always someone we think about here and there, even after everything is said and done.



I think the next time you see her, you definitely need to tell her how you feel. You can't let those moments slip away, Roxas! Plus, this is only one life you're living and you can't miss out on chances that'll change your life forever. Especially with something like this, since it means so much to you. Just work up the courage and push yourself next time. I think it's incredibly important, and no matter the outcome, you'll be glad you did it. Never regret things that you didn't do. Always go forth and do them.

I hope for the same for you, that things can turn around and the wait will be worthwhile.



Man, that's beautiful. And definitely fits the mood.

---

Also, I've been writing a lot and some of my entries are about love, so if any of you want to take a look at this thread, I'd be really happy:
[url="http://forum.yugiohcardmaker.net/topic/295220-a-compilation-of-some-poetry-and-some-not-really-poetry/"]http://forum.yugiohc...-really-poetry/[/url]

The "flowery writing" one is about the girl I like now.
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Well that was incredibly deep. When I'm in love I just kinda lay in my bed for hours, and think of what to say, the next time I see him. Though even after hours of thinking, I say something stupid, and end up looking like a idiot. I'm hopeless when it comes to love, but being hopeless is never that bad. Just seeing the person walk by makes my day, and something as simple as greeting me gives me random bursts of niceness, and it just gives me the biggest grin on my face. The first semester of this year I liked this one boy, and I still remember what I was like when he first smiled at me. I literally died from happiness. I could not function properly for the last two hours of school. I laugh back at it now, and think maybe being hopeless isn't that bad.

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

I don't think you're really hopeless, you just aren't expecting much. Like you're happy with the little things, like him smiling at you, instead of wanting this full blown relationship right then and there. And that's really great to be, honestly.

I always "wear my heart on my sleeve", so when I like someone, I always show them. I just have a really great ease at expressing it, and most of the time, the person I like falls into it too. I guess I'm a bit of a charmer, or I just have a way with words, because I've always been good at getting the person I like to see me in a romantic light. But that doesn't mean I don't mess up, and man, I can go crazy over the little things. Stumbling over my words and over thinking things that don't matter.

But in the end, the way I see it is that no one is in your life forever. So if someone walks into your life and sweeps you off your feet, you have to do something about it. f*** the embarrassment that may take place and f*** rejection, because you can live on from that. But something that'll personally haunt you forever is not trying and not knowing what could've happened if you tried for them. And with that in mind, I'm fond of love because it brings a hell load of courage in me.

[DL]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1357326158' post='6111104']
I don't think you're really hopeless, you just aren't expecting much. Like you're happy with the little things, like him smiling at you, instead of wanting this full blown relationship right then and there. And that's really great to be, honestly.

I always "wear my heart on my sleeve", so when I like someone, I always show them. I just have a really great ease at expressing it, and most of the time, the person I like falls into it too. I guess I'm a bit of a charmer, or I just have a way with words, because I've always been good at getting the person I like to see me in a romantic light. But that doesn't mean I don't mess up, and man, I can go crazy over the little things. Stumbling over my words and over thinking things that don't matter.

But in the end, the way I see it is that no one is in your life forever. So if someone walks into your life and sweeps you off your feet, you have to do something about it. f*** the embarrassment that may take place and f*** rejection, because you can live on from that. But something that'll personally haunt you forever is not trying and not knowing what could've happened if you tried for them. And with that in mind, I'm fond of love because it brings a hell load of courage in me.
[/quote]I love every single word you say

o3o


But yeah

Nice words there xD


I personally like romance, because it's fun, and a way to make girls happy :3

[Rapidfire]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1357326158' post='6111104']
I don't think you're really hopeless, you just aren't expecting much. Like you're happy with the little things, like him smiling at you, instead of wanting this full blown relationship right then and there. And that's really great to be, honestly.

I always "wear my heart on my sleeve", so when I like someone, I always show them. I just have a really great ease at expressing it, and most of the time, the person I like falls into it too. I guess I'm a bit of a charmer, or I just have a way with words, because I've always been good at getting the person I like to see me in a romantic light. But that doesn't mean I don't mess up, and man, I can go crazy over the little things. Stumbling over my words and over thinking things that don't matter.

But in the end, the way I see it is that no one is in your life forever. So if someone walks into your life and sweeps you off your feet, you have to do something about it. f*** the embarrassment that may take place and f*** rejection, because you can live on from that. But something that'll personally haunt you forever is not trying and not knowing what could've happened if you tried for them. And with that in mind, I'm fond of love because it brings a hell load of courage in me.
[/quote]

I'm surprised by how deep you can be. Tho I'm not really a charmer, well at least I don't think I am. I am pretty honest when it comes to this stuff, it's bit me back a couple of times, but I don't really see the reason why I should not be blunt if they ask me "who do you like?" I'll tell them that, but I'm not gonna change the amount of effort I put in to this. I understand the concept of you only live once, but you know I don't really like rushing it. I feel like I'm more of a time person. Heck I like everyone at first, but to truly like someone I can only accomplish that over time. I feel like when I rush the process, it never ends well. Oh and you know the word courage is everywhere, except love. In my case my courage runs away around someone I like.