Darth Revan of the Sith Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355881211' post='6097483'] Hay there everypony. *looks at giant pink teddy bear* That looks good. It could make a good gift for somepony. Anyway, how is everypony? [/quote] In 3 days I will be going with my girlfriend to Italy again The last time we went there we had a lot of fun so this should be equally good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Ginko The Mushi Master' timestamp='1355882188' post='6097501'] In 3 days I will be going with my girlfriend to Italy again The last time we went there we had a lot of fun so this should be equally good. [/quote] That's great, Izaya. What do you like about Italy? Is it the food, the romantic atmosphere? I bet it's the food, isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 So...anyone fancy a chat? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355882297' post='6097506'] That's great, Izaya. What do you like about Italy? Is it the food, the romantic atmosphere? I bet it's the food, isn't it? [/quote] Romantic Atmosphere DUH! That and the culture and people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Ginko The Mushi Master' timestamp='1355882364' post='6097509'] Romantic Atmosphere DUH! That and the culture and people. [/quote] I knew that, why do you think I mentioned it. And I only said food because I used to be in Culinary as a Freshman and Sophomore, and the Italians are known for good food. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 here is some general advice, for everyone looking to start a relationship: be comfortable with yourself!! that is more than just confidence. a lot of people (*coughcoughMENcoughcough*) are just told confidence confidence confidence. so they act really confident! except they 1) act overconfident which is really gross and offputting and 2) its bravado and not real confidence. which will always become clear. it may not happen instantly. in fact bravado has netted people relationships. but its not gonna get you anything that lasts. people are gonna clue in pretty quickly based on your behavior, since fake confidence turns to desperation. and when they do theyre likely not gonna stay. so dont be that person. if this sounds kinda goofy, ill tell you that this is exactly what happened with me. i didnt ever get relationships because i wasnt comfortable with myself (in more ways than one, but i digress) until last year, and since then ive been having trouble keeping up. so just be comfortable! dont make a big event out of trying to get a date. work on getting yourself to a point where you feel okay with yourself. once youre there people will respond to you. but dont rush it or put on an act or anything like that. those are just ways to drive people away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1355884815' post='6097545'] here is some general advice, for everyone looking to start a relationship: be comfortable with yourself!! that is more than just confidence. a lot of people (*coughcoughMENcoughcough*) are just told confidence confidence confidence. so they act really confident! except they 1) act overconfident which is really gross and offputting and 2) its bravado and not real confidence. which will always become clear. it may not happen instantly. in fact bravado has netted people relationships. but its not gonna get you anything that lasts. people are gonna clue in pretty quickly based on your behavior, since fake confidence turns to desperation. and when they do theyre likely not gonna stay. so dont be that person. if this sounds kinda goofy, ill tell you that this is exactly what happened with me. i didnt ever get relationships because i wasnt comfortable with myself (in more ways than one, but i digress) until last year, and since then ive been having trouble keeping up. so just be comfortable! dont make a big event out of trying to get a date. work on getting yourself to a point where you feel okay with yourself. once youre there people will respond to you. but dont rush it or put on an act or anything like that. those are just ways to drive people away. [/quote] Sounds like something a friend of mine told me last year. And I agree with this whole heartily, though it is still something I need to work on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 Confidence isn't the end-all-be-all though. I would rather date someone who has no confidence, but is overall a nicer person then a complete a****** who just so happens to feel good about himself. Maybe it's me though, I'm weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355886461' post='6097586'] Confidence isn't the end-all-be-all though. I would rather date someone who has no confidence, but is overall a nicer person then a complete a****** who just so happens to feel good about himself. Maybe it's me though, I'm weird. [/quote] I don't think it is you, though that is kinda how I acted a lot of the time back in the day. I may have a superiority complex (better than it was back in the day), but I do have emotions and can show sympathy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355886783' post='6097597'] I don't think it is you, though that is kinda how I acted a lot of the time back in the day. I may have a superiority complex (better than it was back in the day), but I do have emotions and can show sympathy. [/quote]However, you cannot just disregard the fact that Caeda is weird. I really look for someone who has more of an attachment to her feelings, thoughts, and/or emotions sometimes. I feel it is easier to connect and talk to them. Of course, it is not like that I haven't been attracted to the wrong people before, but that is bound to happy normally for people anyways. It just takes building upon a relationship that already exists. I am not into that kind of opening where you just talk to anyone and ask them out right there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355887212' post='6097602'] However, you cannot just disregard the fact that Caeda is weird. [/quote] Not going to say anything about that for fear of Black's wrath. [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355887212' post='6097602'] I really look for someone who has more of an attachment to her feelings, thoughts, and/or emotions sometimes. I feel it is easier to connect and talk to them. Of course, it is not like that I haven't been attracted to the wrong people before, but that is bound to happy normally for people anyways. It just takes building upon a relationship that already exists. I am not into that kind of opening where you just talk to anyone and ask them out right there. [/quote] Same over here. TBH, most of my rejections came from me being naive. Looking back, I didn't understand what the heck I was doing and essentially pulling a monkey see, monkey do stunt. Now, I want to get to know people. Though, that is a double-edged sword. However, anything can be a double-edged sword so it still isn't a bad idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355887581' post='6097609'] Not going to say anything about that for fear of Black's wrath. Same over here. TBH, most of my rejections came from me being naive. Looking back, I didn't understand what the heck I was doing and essentially pulling a monkey see, monkey do stunt. Now, I want to get to know people. Though, that is a double-edged sword. However, anything can be a double-edged sword so it still isn't a bad idea. [/quote]Not knowing what you're doing is probably a cute thing for guys though sometimes. It makes them clumsy and shows that they are trying, even if they have some failures when doing it. Sometimes it is the innocence that get people. I asked for a guys number about two months ago and he is probably one of the cuter people I know because he is more confident in what he can do that he doesn't know what to do in some situations like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355887785' post='6097613'] Not knowing what you're doing is probably a cute thing for guys though sometimes. It makes them clumsy and shows that they are trying, even if they have some failures when doing it. Sometimes it is the innocence that get people. I asked for a guys number about two months ago and he is probably one of the cuter people I know because he is more confident in what he can do that he doesn't know what to do in some situations like that. [/quote] To be frank, I still don't know what I'm doing. Though, I'm not ashamed of that anymore. And that sounds like me. I'm confident in my abilities for a lot of things, but I still don't know what to do in situations like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355887935' post='6097615'] To be frank, I still don't know what I'm doing. Though, I'm not ashamed of that anymore. And that sounds like me. I'm confident in my abilities for a lot of things, but I still don't know what to do in situations like that. [/quote]That is not like you though. You don't really have much confidence in what you do and you always have trouble with practically everything later on. It is many situations that you have trouble in and you keep asking for help in those specific situations to fix things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [spoiler=So I recently saw a Romantic, Action, Comedy film] [img]http://www.filmofilia.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/This-Means-War.jpg[/img][/spoiler] I made a topic about it in Movies and TV Shows, and it also reminded me of something. What do you guys feel about ponies dating two guys at the same time? I know instances where it has happened a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355888167' post='6097623'] That is not like you though. You don't really have much confidence in what you do and you always have trouble with practically everything later on. It is many situations that you have trouble in and you keep asking for help in those specific situations to fix things. [/quote] I get what you are saying. To be fair, I seem to be more sensitive online than irl because there isn't anyone to judge me for that (take with a grain of salt). And yea, I do agree with you on the second part of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355887212' post='6097602'] However, you cannot just disregard the fact that Caeda is weird. [/quote] Damn right you can't ignore that. [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355887581' post='6097609'] Not going to say anything about that for fear of Black's wrath. [/quote] He isn't active on YCM anymore. :'o [quote name='Ginko The Mushi Master' timestamp='1355888271' post='6097627'] I made a topic about it in Movies and TV Shows, and it also reminded me of something. What do you guys feel about ponies dating two guys at the same time? I know instances where it has happened a lot. [/quote] As long as there isn't a serious relationship going on and there is no serious commitment going on, I don't see a problem. The moment a commitment is made though, that other guy has to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355886461' post='6097586'] Confidence isn't the end-all-be-all though. I would rather date someone who has no confidence, but is overall a nicer person then a complete a****** who just so happens to feel good about himself. Maybe it's me though, I'm weird. [/quote] I agree with you. On everything you posted. Everything. *sips Dr. Pepper* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355889341' post='6097661'] He isn't active on YCM anymore. :'o [/quote] I have him on Skype, so he can still get me. inb4heisntactiveonskypeaswell Before you say that, CGC says hi, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Nathanael Darius Striker' timestamp='1355889980' post='6097678'] I have him on Skype, so he can still get me. inb4heisntactiveonskypeaswell Before you say that, CGC says hi, [/quote] I dunno how much he uses Skype, but it isn't much. And neither of us are [b]active[/b] on CGC anymore. xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355890132' post='6097683'] I dunno how much he uses Skype, but it isn't much. And neither of us are [b]active[/b] on CGC anymore. xD [/quote]But you're weird. And like you're important to me, hunnycake. How is MSN? I need to redownload it and not use it ever anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 Dae, I think you are pushing your luck there. And MSN is fine, I use it a bit with people who don't have Skype. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cute Rotten Yoshika Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355886461' post='6097586'] Confidence isn't the end-all-be-all though. I would rather date someone who has no confidence, but is overall a nicer person then a complete a****** who just so happens to feel good about himself. Maybe it's me though, I'm weird. [/quote] i agree, which is why i specifically advised people to not be confident a******s. you should never compromise on things like someone treating you well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Vivacious Skyfall' timestamp='1355890404' post='6097696'] But you're weird. And like you're important to me, hunnycake. How is MSN? I need to redownload it and not use it ever anyways. [/quote] That doesn't make sense, we never really talked enough for that to happen :'O It's good for seeing but not using. Trying to use it can be a pain though. [quote name='clairedestroyer' timestamp='1355890600' post='6097705'] i agree, which is why i specifically advised people to not be confident a******s. you should never compromise on things like someone treating you well. [/quote] Exactly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael D. Striker Posted December 19, 2012 Report Share Posted December 19, 2012 [quote name='Caeda' timestamp='1355890796' post='6097711'] That doesn't make sense, we never really talked enough for that to happen :'O It's good for seeing but not using. Trying to use it can be a pain though. [/quote] You use eBuddy though, and we both agreed that is kinda sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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