Young Men'll be death of us?

[✪RION]

[color=#800080][b]I stare into the abyss and ladies and gents, the abyss did not stare back but a glimpse future did. Do most gals now what young men/dudes/male counterpart etc..etc..[/b][/color]

[color=#800080][b]At first I don't really care but then someone I know of start dating a 15 year old guy. It won't be a big deal but the fact is that we're both 19 and in college and this is the second sem for us and she, once had a crush on me kinda thick me off.[/b][/color]

[color=#800080][b]To make matter worst is, later on, few more girls I know of star dating young guys. They're not as young as the boyfriend of the girl who had a crush on me but still, they're younger that us. I really don't care. I really don't how young they are but deep down inside, I do care, I cared enough to think about it but not that I care about them dating young folks but the fact why are they dating folks? What's so good about younger guys?[/b][/color]

[color=#800080][b]So gals, do you think dating younger guys is better than dating guys your age or older, or what makes younger guys more attractable or if you just your general view on dating younger guys. If your a dude, what'cha think about this? Is this normal anywhere else or did Chicago just became a pedovile for girls?[/b][/color]

[color=#800080][b]Comment/Discuss/Give and input. I wanna know.[/b][/color]

[Cin]

I once dated someone 18 years older than me, that didn't end well. I don't think age gap matters too much it's the relationship that develops between two people.

[Fusion X. Denver]

I wish to tip my hat off to the dude that bagged a college girl in his freshman/sophomore year.

[✪RION]

[quote name='Yin' timestamp='1352667096' post='6066736']
I once dated someone 18 years older than me, that didn't end well. I don't think age gap matters too much it's the relationship that develops between two people.
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[color=#800080][b]Wow, that's a first for me. Although I never really get the relationship or the attraction of guys/girls younger or older but I do get what your saying though.[/b][/color]

[quote name='Fusion X. Denver' timestamp='1352669847' post='6066814']
I wish to tip my hat off to the dude that bagged a college girl in his freshman/sophomore year.
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[color=#800080][b]Nah, they only went as far as oral.[/b][/color]

[Fusion X. Denver]

[quote name='Hardcore Punk' timestamp='1352700523' post='6067301']
[color=#800080][b]Nah, they only went as far as oral.[/b][/color]
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By bagging I meant picking up.
The fact he got to 3rd base with her makes me want to give him a shiny medal.

[Darth Revan of the Sith]

Here is what I got from this topic.

-The girls you live near tend to date younger guys and not you.
-You are jealous because you don't seem to have what they "got".
-You are complaining about it on a forum.
-You aren't good at grammar.

If the girls like them the girls like them. This isn't f*cking sonic where us men go out into the city and grab women like their freaking coins. These women chose them for a reason, and they didn't choose you for a reason and honestly, I think I have a good idea why.

[Dwarven King]

I don't know about the guys you're talking about...but when I was 15, I dated a girl that was 18. Wanna know how I pulled it off? I was respectable and a gentleman to her. While other guys closer to her talked about her ass and other sexual things, I discussed literature and other things of that sort with her. And guess what? She dated me and not them.

In other words, quit complaining that you didn't have the courage to say you like some girl on a forum for a KID'S card game.

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

I wouldn't say that's common here. Most of the girls I know always, always, always prefer to date older guys, because they're more mature and life experienced for the most part. There's one exception, but her standards are only one year younger and that's not a big deal at all. Most of my friends are dating college guys actually (we're high school juniors now), which fits them a lot better than the guys in our grade and especially better than those younger.

However, once in and after college, I think the 4 year difference between your friend's relationship will mean nothing. Though it is strange when they're 15 and 19. I think by the time both partners are in their 20s, age really doesn't mean anything. I can imagine myself dating a 19 year old (I juuuust turned 16), but that's not saying much, considering I am a girl and I'm seen as a lot older than I actually am. When the roles are reversed, where the guy is 15 and the girl is 19, that just seems really strange.

[Darth Revan of the Sith]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1352749481' post='6067601']
that just seems really strange.
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I'd hate to pull the "Love has no age" crap but I think it applies here. I really don't understand why people feel they can identify what is "Strange" and what isn't. Everybody does at least one thing that people identify as strange. They want to date then fine.

Love is the most important thing in a person's life and I feel that people's love shouldn't be questioned unless it bears fruit of destruction.

What irks me the most about people nowadays is that they feel they have a f*cking opinion on everyone's relationship.
"They don't look good together!"
"Look at the height difference!"
"I'd be a better boyfriend than him."
"He's too young."
I hear the same old sh*t from a bunch of different people and it sickens me. People's love is constantly berated and disliked because some people choose to go a different way than other people.

And what sickens me the most OPer is you. You see girls your age dating guys who are younger and you wonder why. Maybe it's because of your selfish attitude towards other peoples relationships because they have a younger age than you. Why don't you stop complaining about how you aren't getting any T&A and start actually being supportive of their relationships.

It pisses me off to see a such a sacred bond turned into some f*cking joke by people who just have to have a freaking opinion on everyone's relationship. If those girls want to date someone younger, so be it. You should be supportive, not whining about it like your younger than them.

[Bahamut - Envoy of the End]

[quote name='Marisa Kirisame-ze' timestamp='1352749481' post='6067601']
I wouldn't say that's common here. Most of the girls I know always, always, always prefer to date older guys, because they're more mature and life experienced for the most part.
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Yeah that.

That and because they can drive.

Sorry, that was a light-hearted joke before people bite my head off But there is an element of truth in it. 16-17 yo girls can gain access to a whole element of new worlds/areas by dating someone 19-20. My uncle's a teacher, he's seen it for himself. And because all the 16-17 yo old girls are going out with older guys, the 16-17 yo guys have to go out with 14-15 yo girls. Because they're sl*gs.

Sad but true.

[Darth Revan of the Sith]

[quote name='Majestic Star Bahamut' timestamp='1352751109' post='6067623']
the 16-17 yo guys have to go out with 14-15 yo girls. Because they're sl*gs.

Sad but true.
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No it isn't. That is in no way factual. The choose to date a girl of a younger age because they like them in some way shape or form. What right do you have to call them such a name?! What did they do to you? Why do they deserve to be berated like that by you? Huh? Honestly...

You think you have a right to comment on what constitutes a good relationship when you don't. They can date younger girls if they want. They don't deserve that treatment.

[Bahamut - Envoy of the End]

[quote name='Mr. A.' timestamp='1352751747' post='6067629']
No it isn't. That is in no way factual. The choose to date a girl of a younger age because they like them in some way shape or form. What right do you have to call them such a name?! What did they do to you? Why do they deserve to be berated like that by you? Huh? Honestly...

You think you have a right to comment on what constitutes a good relationship when you don't. They can date younger girls if they want. They don't deserve that treatment.
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Yeah yeah yeah, I think you took that a bit [i]too [/i]literally.

Of course I completely meant that every single 14-15 girl who is in a relationship is a sl*g. Obviously they all are, clearly. What else could it be? I must tar them all with the same brush because I secretly despise every single one of them, and will spread my hatred here on a YGO forum. Although I'm sure the scores of 14-15 yo olds here are coming with the pitchforks and torchs right now.

Muppet.

I honestly couldn't care less about what other people want to do with their relationships or who they see or anything. Whatever floats their boat. I'm just open eyed and minded to the state of the world, which seems to be full of short skirts with 'pop my cherry' written on them at the moment. Which I find distasteful, but if that's what they want to do then whatever. Unless they want to with me for some reason, which is no thanks.

If a guy genuinely likes a girl and vice versa, good for them, whatever the age gap. It's no big deal and like you I don't see why the OP is whining either. But I'm aware that some relationships are less cutesy, a lot of boys of that ages only think about what's in their trousers, and some girls are happy to accomodate. Good for them if that's what they want (but my daughter will [i]not[/i] be doing if/when she comes into existance.)

I'm not judging, I'm just observing the world around. And it's not all nicey nicey.

['tyleR]

[quote name='Mr. A.' timestamp='1352751747' post='6067629']
You think you have a right to comment on what constitutes a good relationship when you don't. They can date younger girls if they want. They don't deserve that treatment.
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So he doesn't have the right to comment on what he thinks constitutes a good relationship but you have the right to tell him he doesn't? I don't understand your way of thinking.

Which saddens me, because I found your first post funny, but your posts deteriorated into an almost fanatical defense of "relationships", which is fine when in the correct argument, but this is not.

I'm sorry, but some 19 year old girl giving some little 15 year old guy a blow job hardly constitutes a relationship.

Oh, and some of them do deserve that treatment. That's just the truth. Doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. Most guys will date younger girls because they FALL for that "Mature man" s***. Not to be a bastard or anything, but it's easy pussy.

Let me give you an example, take the movie "KIDS". The main character in the movie has an obsession with younger girls, mostly because not only are they innocent, but they're easy. He would talk to them caring and kind, being mature and making it seem like because he's older that he's wiser and will guide them. He'd just end up screwing them and moving on to the next one.

That's how some people are. s***, I've been like that myself. It was awhile ago, and I'm not proud of it at all, but forrill, that's just how it is sometimes. Those aren't actual relationships, they're flings.

[bury the year]

What disturbs me the most about these kinds of relationships is the fact that they're often primarily sexual. Maybe this is just me being biased - I identify myself as demisexual and don't plan on taking any steps with my girlfriend until we're actually comfortable with each other - but going out on flings degrades the idea of a relationship for that person. This of course is a problem with society as a whole and not just with individuals, but when people start going out younger and younger it makes one question things.

[Rapidfire]

God I really think that some guys just don't know how to treat girls. I mean I'm not saying that every guy is like. Really I don't understand why guys complain about the fact that a girl frankly does not care about age, plus all you really need to do is be a gentleman like Dwarman said. I mean seriously when a guy says sexual things to a girl, or touches her and she does not like him. Well it's absolutely the most annoying thing in the world. I had a crush on a guy 2 years younger then me the whole summer. You know why? Because he was a gentleman.There was this other idiot who was a jerk to me half of the time (and was my age too it was so) and he liked me. But if he actually knew how to treat a girl like the guy 2 years younger then him I might have actually considered his feelings. Guys word of advice, stop complainig, and man up.

[Dwarven King]

[quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1352943343' post='6069800']
God I really think that some guys just don't know how to treat girls. I mean I'm not saying that every guy is like. Really I don't understand why guys complain about the fact that a girl frankly does not care about age, plus all you really need to do is be a gentleman like Dwarman said. I mean seriously when a guy says sexual things to a girl, or touches her and she does not like him. Well it's absolutely the most annoying thing in the world. I had a crush on a guy 2 years younger then me the whole summer. You know why? Because he was a gentleman.There was this other idiot who was a jerk to me half of the time (and was my age too it was so) and he liked me. But if he actually knew how to treat a girl like the guy 2 years younger then him I might have actually considered his feelings. Guys word of advice, stop complainig, and man up.
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Dwarman? DWARMAN?! Don't make me pull off my Gentleman's White Glove and slap you with it!

To stay more on topic, you guys should start listening to me, especially when a girl agrees with me. Use the head upstairs, not the one downstairs. ;3

[Sunshine Jesse]

>one is 19
>other is 15
>pedophile in any way

what.

Not only is the age of consent 16 with a 4 year age gap in most states, but at the risk of playing semantics there's nothing pedo about being with a 15 year old girl/guy in general

[quote name='Rapidfire' timestamp='1352943343' post='6069800']
God I really think that some guys just don't know how to treat girls.
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this

The stereotypical nice guy is at fault for this problem just as much as the a******s he complains about girls dating over him

[Merci]

Romance is romance. Some people love, others just lust sexually. Age does affect factors, including law, experience, even fertility, etc., but in the end it's all dependent on the couples' state of mind. If drama happens, that's drama, and it's their own fault for getting into that mess.

[Cin]

Age is nothing but a number when it comes to relationships. Also long as both parties treat each other with respect and trust, there's nothing wrong with having some younger or older than you. And what Rapidfire said. I totally agree with.

[Merci]

Indeed. Even when it comes to extreme pedophilia.

[Darth Revan of the Sith]

Honestly, I consider Sex and Love two completely different things.

While Sex is based around hormones, Love imho is completely separate. However, every single time I say this I get a sh*tload of heat from people who say I don't understand love and anything it entails.

I believe sex is not a sacred activity and shouldn't be treated as such. I believe it is a recreational activity and should be treated as such. And before I get blasted with the "You're a sick bastard." comments please let me clarify:

If you are single, have as much sex as you want IDC. However if you ain't single, don't cheat.

We cool now?

I originally had a reason for posting this do to it being relevant to the topic but I cannot remember why. It might be the references I saw to people saying that some relationships focus on sex a lot which the person believes is wrong, which I disagree.

[Sunshine Jesse]

[url="http://www.globalpost.com/dispatch/news/science/120621/scientist-find-the-difference-between-love-and-lust-the-brain"]http://www.globalpost.com/dispatch/news/science/120621/scientist-find-the-difference-between-love-and-lust-the-brain[/url]

You don't have to "consider" it because there's actually scientific evidence for it.

[Raine]

I don't care too much about age difference in a relationship... I care about being charged with statutory rape.

[Flame Dragon]

[quote name='Hardcore Punk' timestamp='1352700523' post='6067301']
[color=#800080][b]Nah, they only went as far as oral.[/b][/color]
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I think that is even more amazing.

Anyway, age is important since what kinds of things influenced you growing up will really start to splinter when its more than 5 years. This in turn means you'll have less in common. I mean, sure its fine still since if it works, it works, but it does hurt some compatibility.

Also, its strange that they would be dating guys younger than them. Most women tend to date guys a bit older, not the other way around.

[Raine]

[quote name='Flame Dragon' timestamp='1353118197' post='6071481']
I think that is even more amazing.

Anyway, age is important since what kinds of things influenced you growing up will really start to splinter when its more than 5 years. This in turn means you'll have less in common. I mean, sure its fine still since if it works, it works, but it does hurt some compatibility.

Also, its strange that they would be dating guys younger than them.[b][size=5] Most women tend to date guys a bit older, not the other way around.[/size][/b]
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