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Marriage: the begining of the end or the start of your life?


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[center]discuss marriage in general[/center]
[center]btw i personally invite raine and or userD swordsman to this thread lolz sparks[/center]
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Like you're the one to talk-*shot*

OT: Marriage can open up another world of opportunities in not only your own life, but your spouse's too. It's sad that so many people often make mistakes when choosing their husbands/wives, but I guess that's the best part of marriage: the divorce (except when she takes off with your car).

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The fact why people don't like the concept of marriage is because of their own lust and concept of male dominance. They think of marriage as an annoying process that isn't needed if they want to get laid. However, I consider marriage as a sacred gate of rites that will open a chapter of my life.

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[quote name='God Machismo!!!!!' timestamp='1350169257' post='6043825']
Marriage is overrated, and a waste of money. It's human nature that you [b]will[/b] cheat on your spouse someday down the road,
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That's not even true

The f*** makes you think that?
[quote name='Comrade TentaSparkle' timestamp='1350145972' post='6043578']
Politically speaking, I still think it should be removed from our legal system and its benefits dispersed amongst other things.
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I completely agree with this

I used to think marriage was pointless. Then I found someone special to me

oh how perspective changes things

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My main point with that is, we'll never all agree on what marriage or should be, so let's leave it to the individual instead of letting the Government decide who's right.

And to expand on what Marriage actually means to me, it is at it's core, a lifetime commitment to the one you love.

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[quote name='God Machismo!!!!!' timestamp='1350169257' post='6043825']
Marriage is overrated, and a waste of money. It's human nature that you [b]will[/b] cheat on your spouse someday down the road, so it's waste to "tie the knot" if you're just going to screw someone else when she isn't looking.
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Don't generalize marriage to be a waste just because you had a bad experience with someone else. Because that's what it sounds like: You lashing out at marriage just because someone cheated on you.

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[quote name='God Machismo!!!!!' timestamp='1350169257' post='6043825']
Marriage is overrated, and a waste of money. It's human nature that you [b]will[/b] cheat on your spouse someday down the road, so it's waste to "tie the knot" if you're just going to screw someone else when she isn't looking.
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Marriage can be a truly beautiful thing if one is patient in looking for the right person.
That bond you share with another is a sacred type, with nothing much else in the world to compare it to.
There are and always will be spouses who have been together for decades, and will continue for life.
That's what makes me so happy about human nature.
Sure, we fight a lot, but man, do we have the power to love each other just as much.

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[b]marriage is not overrated or bullshit, you are stupid, ignorant and have been heavily influenced by popular culture if you think so, the fact is that a marriage in most developed countries is just seen another step in a relationship, and when the going gets hard they hit the road.[/b]

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[quote name='david ice' timestamp='1350414155' post='6045865']
[b]marriage is not overrated or bullshit, you are stupid, ignorant and have been heavily influenced by popular culture if you think so, the fact is that a marriage in most developed countries is just seen another step in a relationship, and when the going gets hard they hit the road.[/b]
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Rant at me all you want, but my position (in it's most simplistic form) is about 99% where Dark was:

It's a paper documentation. Nothing more, nothing less. That's at it's most simplistic form. The "meaning" behind marrige is dulled though, mainly because of the whole LBGT rights since some people don't want "homos" to get married. Even though it's a paper thing, I really would like to have all my rights, be able to wed the person I will most likely spend the rest of my life with be him a man or a woman (I'd rather have a nice sensitive guy though who can hold his own), have a ceremony for the muse of it and be able to paint "Just Married" on the back of my vehicle or something.

That's what I think about marriage...

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[quote name='Chance Furlong' timestamp='1350422701' post='6046112']
It's a paper documentation. Nothing more, nothing less. That's at it's most simplistic form.
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This. What makes marriage important is the legal right that come with it for the two people involved in cerimony. Otherwise I don't see much changing comapired when your just in a normal committed relationship.



[quote name='Gue'O VK' timestamp='1350502418' post='6046778']
Honestly, I wouldn't f***ing get married. Hell, I wouldn't even want a boyfriend or girlfriend. Most likely they'll cheat on me and or use me for some sadistic purpose. The benefits are a drain upon society which could be used for a much more better reason. Oh I don't know, education or science?
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IMO, this is a very poor world view since it says you can't trust other people. The simple fact it we are social creatures and trying to find happiness without ever letting your guard down is so very close to impossible. Trusting others can be hard, but in life your going to need to do so if you want to get anywhere.

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[quote name='Gue'O VK' timestamp='1350591386' post='6047567']
No, I can't trust people with my feelings. Now as a teammate for some game or something, then I suppose I could somewhat trust you. But something important like my feelings? f*** that s***.
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I don't know you, so I wouldn't know the reason(s) on why you're so against commitment, but you really come off as a coward when you're shunning relationships for the fact that you [i]might[/i] get hurt.

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