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Do you have a crush on your bestie?


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[quote name='Daemon' timestamp='1306641952' post='5239003']
I do have a crush, but I know that she doesn't share the same thing.
I really want to ask her out to a dance, but I feel that I like her too much, and if she says no it could mess many things up.
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Daemon advice from someone who has BEEN in that exact position . . . ask her.
If she denys you going to the dance as your date then you know that the feelings are not the same both ways. So, after feeling like your heart has been smashed to bits, get back up and agree to still be friends.

If she agrees to go to the dance with you as your date then the chances are the feelings you have for her are the same she holds for you. Use the dance, preferably a slow one, to tell her how she looks and how much fun you've had. At the moment you're comfertable ask if she loves you or, if you are bold enough, state that you like/love/adore/etc her.

Look at me . . . being all Doctor Phil here X3

[color="#FF0000"]That'll be $300 [holds out hand][/color]
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[quote name='Jake the Sage' timestamp='1306642473' post='5239021']
Daemon advice from someone who has BEEN in that exact position . . . ask her.
If she denys you going to the dance as your date then you know that the feelings are not the same both ways. So, after feeling like your heart has been smashed to bits, get back up and agree to still be friends.

If she agrees to go to the dance with you as your date then the chances are the feelings you have for her are the same she holds for you. Use the dance, preferably a slow one, to tell her how she looks and how much fun you've had. At the moment you're comfertable ask if she loves you or, if you are bold enough, state that you like/love/adore/etc her.

Look at me . . . being all Doctor Phil here X3

[color="#FF0000"]That'll be $300 [holds out hand][/color]
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It would be awkward to still be friends for me, I would feel a pain whenever I would be near her, and it would make me try to forget about her. That is what I am worried about, I like her too much to even try that.
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Daemon I dated a girl, who was one of my best friends, and she broke up with me via txt. After feeling betrayed and heartbroken for a couple of weeks I resumed my life. I remember the good times and, after seeing her again, figured that despite us not being in love anymore that doesn't change the fact I still love HER. Weither that love be as a man to woman or best friend to best friend doesn't matter.

We laugh and get along just as we did before, during and now currently after our break up. Dating honestly just means you are more "lovey-dovey" and "physical" in a relationship. If you cannot be around them and have fun normally then best not even attempt to date them.

Breaking up does hurt, but it will never be bad enough to truly make you not want to be around them.
Unless they cheated on you or some other douche move like that <_< just saying . . .

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Yes, and I actually asked her out during that long hiatus...(a month? Two? Eh I can't remember) I took just before school ended.

We actually went to a Faceless show, and I swear she was thrashin' harder than anyone else there.

Also took her to the AAC (American Airlines Center) to watch game 4 of the West Finals.







I. Love. This. Girl.
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[quote name='Jake the Sage' timestamp='1306643088' post='5239041']
Daemon I dated a girl, who was one of my best friends, and she broke up with me via txt. After feeling betrayed and heartbroken for a couple of weeks I resumed my life. I remember the good times and, after seeing her again, figured that despite us not being in love anymore that doesn't change the fact I still love HER. Weither that love be as a man to woman or best friend to best friend doesn't matter.

We laugh and get along just as we did before, during and now currently after our break up. Dating honestly just means you are more "lovey-dovey" and "physical" in a relationship. If you cannot be around them and have fun normally then best not even attempt to date them.

Breaking up does hurt, but it will never be bad enough to truly make you not want to be around them.
Unless they cheated on you or some other douche move like that <_< just saying . . .
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Jake, you have a point.
I might try it, thanks friend.

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[quote name='Daemon' timestamp='1306644146' post='5239081']
Jake, you have a point.
I might try it, thanks friend.
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No problem

[color="#FF0000"][still has hand out]
You still owe [i]us[/i] $300[/color]

*shoves Jesse aside*

Just remember, no matter what if she means something to you the both of you wont break up and instantly hate each other for no reason

[color="#FF0000"]Unless of course the douche move comes in, then it's all up to how bad the move was[/color]
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[quote name='Jake the Sage' timestamp='1306644362' post='5239090']
No problem

[color="#FF0000"][still has hand out]
You still owe [i]us[/i] $300[/color]

*shoves Jesse aside*

Just remember, no matter what if she means something to you the both of you wont break up and instantly hate each other for no reason

[color="#FF0000"]Unless of course the douche move comes in, then it's all up to how bad the move was[/color]
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Jesse *Tosses $300*

Jake, I know. I am ready for what will happen, her and I will still be friends.
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[quote name='Half Vamp Riku..!' timestamp='1306696726' post='5240177']
Yes, her name is Kara and she has the most prettiest eyes I have ever seen. I want her to be more than friends, but I have no balls when it comes to women ><
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You and me both bro. :<

Also, currently my best friends are all guys...and I'm not gay. I did have some best friends that were girls...but we kinda stopped talking and reverted to just...friends. So...no. I do not have a crush on my "bestie". -_-

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