Organized Chaos Posted February 6, 2011 Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 Hello and welcome to YCM's unofficial group therapy. Please take a seat and help yourself to the refreshments. Now over the time I've been here, I've noticed a lot of people here have problems and things that they bottle inside themselves until they explode with rage or depression. Here you can talk out those problems with other members who will hopefully give good advice. I also hope this will allow shy or antisocial members to make new friends and to know their fellow members a bit better. We shall also have events and competitions. I do have some rules and things to over with you first : 1. Rude or innapropriate behaviour will be reported on sight. 2. Spam or posting cards (unless I say so or for a contest) will be dealt with immediatly and harshly. 3. Have fun !!! You dnt have to be too serious. Reps will be given out to helpful or funny (no offensive stuff). If a subject gets too confidential or boring, you can change it to whatever you want. If you dont want to discuss something on here, your more than welcome to PM me. Trust me I won't tell anyone. By the way, you dont have to become a full time member if you dont want to. You can join in for a quick chat. However you will not be able to join competions.If you would like to join, heres the app : Name : Occupation : Reason For Joining : [spoiler=Full Time Members]1. Swifty 2. Kelp[/spoiler] I will add competions and stuff if people join. Until then, I must say ciao YCMers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Nu-13 Posted February 6, 2011 Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 The joining system is bad. You should just post the application Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Organized Chaos Posted February 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 [quote name='.Kowalski' timestamp='1297014221' post='4993073'] The joining system is bad. You should just post the application [/quote] Fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 6, 2011 Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 Name: The Swift Assaulter(Call me Swifty) Occupation: Student Reason For Joining: A way to end my thoughts of suicide, along with getting help for bullying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Organized Chaos Posted February 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 [quote name='The Swift Assaulter' timestamp='1297017381' post='4993191'] Name: The Swift Assaulter(Call me Swifty) Occupation: Student Reason For Joining: A way to end my thoughts of suicide, along with getting help for bullying. [/quote] Thank you. You have been accepted. So why do you want to commit suicide ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 6, 2011 Report Share Posted February 6, 2011 Well, it's a long story, 10 years to be exact: Ever since I was 6, I had been a victim of annoyance and violence by my older brother, who at times is a year older than me. He never knew when to shut up, he always was an a**hole to me and always egged me on, you know, urging me to make a move, and I always ended up getting beat down. He thinks life's a joke, so he treats everybody like a joke, as though he believes he's invincible, above the law, and can get away with anything. He calls me a smartass even though it's truly him. I just can't stand him anymore. I just want to pull the trigger and get it over with! I don't want to live this kind of life anymore! Technically this started when I was 10, but everything that's happened is STILL happening, and I don't know what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Organized Chaos Posted February 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 7, 2011 [quote name='The Swift Assaulter' timestamp='1297025249' post='4993541'] Well, it's a long story, 10 years to be exact: Ever since I was 6, I had been a victim of annoyance and violence by my older brother, who at times is a year older than me. He never knew when to shut up, he always was an a**hole to me and always egged me on, you know, urging me to make a move, and I always ended up getting beat down. He thinks life's a joke, so he treats everybody like a joke, as though he believes he's invincible, above the law, and can get away with anything. He calls me a smartass even though it's truly him. I just can't stand him anymore. I just want to pull the trigger and get it over with! I don't want to live this kind of life anymore! Technically this started when I was 10, but everything that's happened is STILL happening, and I don't know what to do. [/quote] Well thats a a hard one. Have you tried telling an adult or someone you trust. If not, might I suggest Martial arts ? They can be used in self-defence. Whatever you do, dont give in. Thats what they want. Do you have many friends at school ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted February 7, 2011 Report Share Posted February 7, 2011 I do have a lot of friends, but they are in different schools, and telling an adult will just make things worse. I want to do Martial Arts, but I always think before I act, meaning that I think of something cruel I want to do to him, but I won't be able to do it. I would like to do Martial Arts, but I have a lot of problems with my legs and feet. The reasons are unknown to me, and it makes things harder for me if he actually knew Martial Arts himself. So, basically, I'm screwed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kelp' Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 Name : Kelp Occupation : Student Reason For Joining : This seems like a nice idea for a club. @Swifty: Remember that suicide is never the answer. I strongly advise the route of adult help. Maybe in addition to helping your cause, sitting down with an adult could help him out too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Organized Chaos Posted February 14, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2011 [quote name='♚Kelp' timestamp='1297130744' post='4996354'] Name : Kelp Occupation : Student Reason For Joining : This seems like a nice idea for a club. @Swifty: Remember that suicide is never the answer. I strongly advise the route of adult help. Maybe in addition to helping your cause, sitting down with an adult could help him out too. [/quote] Accepted and thanx for the good advice for Swifty. anyone else wanna join ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Organized Chaos Posted February 24, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 24, 2011 Seriuosly guys please join Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Kelp' Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 Well a friend of mine that I've known forever moved away recently, and it's hard to keep in contact with him. Should I go through the trouble just to hold a conversation with him, or should I just move on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōsuke Ueki Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 I say move on for now. Until you know how to keep contact with him more frequently, you should wait. If not, you should find him when you have a break and have enough money to get to where he is. I don't know. Do whatever you can to talk to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Organized Chaos Posted March 3, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2011 [quote name='The Swift Assaulter' timestamp='1299107681' post='5046683'] I say move on for now. Until you know how to keep contact with him more frequently, you should wait. If not, you should find him when you have a break and have enough money to get to where he is. I don't know. Do whatever you can to talk to him. [/quote] I agree. It also depends on how close you and your friend are (emotionally). If you want to keep this friendship because you and him are good friends, then yes please do keep in contact with him. If not, try to find an easy way to get messages to him. Whatever, you do try and keep your friendship alive and well. @ Swifty, try to find a way to become more relaxed, then try Martial Arts. If you go to the dojo with vengance in your heart, let me tell you, you'll leave with hatred in your heart. I would reccomend Taekwondo. It's quite relaxing and good for self-defence, also find a quiet place where you know you won't be disturbed and meditate for a few minutes. It really helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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