cerberus21 Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 Tell her: "We've together for a while, and I feel like I'm dragging you down. You can do way better than a slacker like me. You deserve a guy with a future, not some slacker like me. I just don't want to hold you back anymore. We can definately still be friends..." Obviously, this example is specific to me. Just make her feel like your leaving her because she's better than you. That way you give her a definite (albeit, fake) reason, so she doesn't have to wonder why, and you've raised her self-esteem. Win-win. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Phoenix Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 Serious answer: It depends on why you're breaking up with her. There is no generic break up method that actually works well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 No phone, no text. Face to face. Don't be a fluffy loser. Just say it straight up. "Dude, I'm breaking up with you." Walk away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Hollow Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 I never had to do that(yet) but let me ask:How long have you been together? Can't remember really. Couple/few months. How long've you so far? I saw your post now xD was asking Ghost But......i think 2 months? or 3? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smear Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 If she's in love with you heaps, make her break up with you.;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost-O Posted May 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 We've been together for about 2 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smear Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 Make her break up with you.Be as much as a dickhead as you can.;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Hollow Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 No that is bad. They won't be friends again if he does.2 years? Then say that those were the most awesome years you had but I want to break up, sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smear Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 Fair enough... I don't know... =/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plaguespreader Zombie Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 We've been together for about 2 years. Again, mind telling me the reasons for your seperation? Or is it personal? =/ You seemed perfectly fine last time I talked to you together, given that was a while ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 Text her' date=' and say... "It is Ovar"[/quote'] Follow up five minutes later with "NINETHOUSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND" "Also, I don't think we should be together. I'm glad for the time we had, but now I just don't see us working anymore." Insert whatever personal reason after that. Being someone who has been broken up with via e-mail, I say spare her some suffering and tell it to her in person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost-O Posted May 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 We've been together for about 2 years. Again' date=' mind telling me the reasons for your seperation? Or is it personal? =/ You seemed perfectly fine last time I talked to you together, given that was a while ago.[/quote'] My ex is back. And I have a very long history with her. 5 years to be exact. She has feelings for me still, as I have feelings for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aximil Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 We've been together for about 2 years. Again' date=' mind telling me the reasons for your seperation? Or is it personal? =/ You seemed perfectly fine last time I talked to you together, given that was a while ago.[/quote'] My ex is back. And I have a very long history with her. 5 years to be exact. She has feelings for me still, as I have feelings for her. That's no reason to break up with a girl. "Oh, sorry, but my ex is back so I don't need you anymore." That's it in a nutshell, and that's just wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost-O Posted May 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 I think I explained the other reason I'm leaving this one. She's so childish and immature. She makes the stupidest complaints about every little thing, and wants to pin them on me. Then, she whines and complains when I'm working, and wants me to pay attention to her. She texts me all day and night, even when I tell her I have things to do the next day or at the time. I don't have time for that type of foolishness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aximil Posted May 4, 2010 Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 I think I explained the other reason I'm leaving this one. She's so childish and immature. She makes the stupidest complaints about every little thing' date=' and wants to pin them on me. Then, she whines and complains when I'm [i']working[/i], and wants me to pay attention to her. She texts me all day and night, even when I tell her I have things to do the next day or at the time. I don't have time for that type of foolishness. Should have put that in the first post. That's the first time you mentioned anything other than your ex is back as to a reason for breaking up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost-O Posted May 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 4, 2010 I think I explained the other reason I'm leaving this one. She's so childish and immature. She makes the stupidest complaints about every little thing' date=' and wants to pin them on me. Then, she whines and complains when I'm [i']working[/i], and wants me to pay attention to her. She texts me all day and night, even when I tell her I have things to do the next day or at the time. I don't have time for that type of foolishness. Should have put that in the first post. That's the first time you mentioned anything other than your ex is back as to a reason for breaking up. Done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted May 5, 2010 Report Share Posted May 5, 2010 Isolate yourself SOOOOO much that it just becomes too awkward for her to talk to you anymore. >D Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gascan Posted May 7, 2010 Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 Cut the crap. There's no easy way to break it, so you may as well stop looking for one. Say you're finished, explain why, be amiable, move on with your life, she'll move on with hers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost-O Posted May 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2010 Cut the crap. There's no easy way to break it' date=' so you may as well stop looking for one. Say you're finished, explain why, be amiable, move on with your life, she'll move on with hers.[/quote'] I certainly hope so. She's just getting more annoying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shrekstasy Posted May 9, 2010 Report Share Posted May 9, 2010 Grab a gun and tell her to f*ck off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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