Official Relationships Thread

[Fog38]

So I just found this thread, looked over some of the story's (mostly from kitty princess) and I have a few thing to say. First off relationships are IMO the best part of life and I understand how someone can get swept off there feet, it's happened to me more then once. But to have a good relationship it takes two people. If it really means anything both people will do anything to keep it. That means sometimes you have to forgive and forget, not settle by any means, but let the small things go and focus on why you're together in the first place.

my 2 cents

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

Story of my life:

 

I really feel like I doubt liking my boyfriend =[

 

And I feel so sorry to be in the relationship because I'm showing fake happiness to him =[

 

We were alone together today, and he kept telling me that I looked sad and I don't smile as much anymore. It's because I'm not so happy with him like this! He doesn't make me so happy, and he's pretty annoying sometimes too =[ He's nice, though, but I'd like him as a friend.

 

I just can't break that to him >_<

 

Isn't a good relationship suppose to be when you can't stop smiling when both people are together? This isn't the type =[

[Dismal Euphony]

Story of my life:

 

I really feel like I doubt liking my boyfriend =[

 

And I feel so sorry to be in the relationship because I'm showing fake happiness to him =[

 

We were alone together today' date= and he kept telling me that I looked sad and I don't smile as much anymore. It's because I'm not so happy with him like this! He doesn't make me so happy, and he's pretty annoying sometimes too =[ He's nice, though, but I'd like him as a friend.

 

I just can't break that to him >_<

 

Isn't a good relationship suppose to be when you can't stop smiling when both people are together? This isn't the type =[

[/quote]

 

I'm just going to fill you in on something here. Relationships aren't always sunshine and happiness. Just because you're not always smiling when you're together doesn't mean it's a bad relationship. You very well may be having doubts about him. No one but yourself can tell you whether you like him or not. If you truly feel like you don't like him, let him know. There's no sense in staying in a relationship that you're unhappy in. It's only going to hurt you. If you truly don't like him anymore, end it as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more hope you give him. It'll just end up hurting him more in the long run.

[Marisa Kirisame-ze]

Story of my life:

 

I really feel like I doubt liking my boyfriend =[

 

And I feel so sorry to be in the relationship because I'm showing fake happiness to him =[

 

We were alone together today' date= and he kept telling me that I looked sad and I don't smile as much anymore. It's because I'm not so happy with him like this! He doesn't make me so happy, and he's pretty annoying sometimes too =[ He's nice, though, but I'd like him as a friend.

 

I just can't break that to him >_<

 

Isn't a good relationship suppose to be when you can't stop smiling when both people are together? This isn't the type =[

[/quote]

 

I'm just going to fill you in on something here. Relationships aren't always sunshine and happiness. Just because you're not always smiling when you're together doesn't mean it's a bad relationship. You very well may be having doubts about him. No one but yourself can tell you whether you like him or not. If you truly feel like you don't like him, let him know. There's no sense in staying in a relationship that you're unhappy in. It's only going to hurt you. If you truly don't like him anymore, end it as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more hope you give him. It'll just end up hurting him more in the long run.

 

I know it's not always sunshine, I know that. But on regular days, when I could be as happy as ever, I don't usually want to be with him.

 

And I don't want to hurt him at all, too =[

 

Alright, I'll let a couple more days pass by until I'm sure I don't like him anymore and then I'll let him know my feelings.

[Dark]

Update:

Beth broke up with Adam. Im not going to see her this weekend so I'll wait until next week to ask her out officially. Things are looking up. :)

 

What happened to Kayla? Where did Beth come from? Who is Adam?

 

Sorry if I haven't been keeping up on your story, since it's actually viable.

[Dismal Euphony]

Story of my life:

 

I really feel like I doubt liking my boyfriend =[

 

And I feel so sorry to be in the relationship because I'm showing fake happiness to him =[

 

We were alone together today' date= and he kept telling me that I looked sad and I don't smile as much anymore. It's because I'm not so happy with him like this! He doesn't make me so happy, and he's pretty annoying sometimes too =[ He's nice, though, but I'd like him as a friend.

 

I just can't break that to him >_<

 

Isn't a good relationship suppose to be when you can't stop smiling when both people are together? This isn't the type =[

[/quote]

 

I'm just going to fill you in on something here. Relationships aren't always sunshine and happiness. Just because you're not always smiling when you're together doesn't mean it's a bad relationship. You very well may be having doubts about him. No one but yourself can tell you whether you like him or not. If you truly feel like you don't like him, let him know. There's no sense in staying in a relationship that you're unhappy in. It's only going to hurt you. If you truly don't like him anymore, end it as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more hope you give him. It'll just end up hurting him more in the long run.

 

I know it's not always sunshine, I know that. But on regular days, when I could be as happy as ever, I don't usually want to be with him.

 

And I don't want to hurt him at all, too =[

 

Alright, I'll let a couple more days pass by until I'm sure I don't like him anymore and then I'll let him know my feelings.

 

That would probably be best. Don't rush into anything, but don't let the situation drag out either. I know it sounds cheesy, but if you truly care about him you're going to have to hurt him a little to avoid hurting him a lot.

[QuimicVital]

o.k.

i have a problem, a Flogger arrived school and 89% of the girls had a crush on him instantly (including the girl i like), what do i have to do? (no Dªrk answers stupid answers)

PS: The Flogger was in school for 2 days.

[Kitty]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel, because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[Dark]

I'd beat Mako up. Throw a baseball bat at him. That oughta hurt him/her.

[QuimicVital]

I'd beat Mako up. Throw a baseball bat at him. That oughta hurt him/her.

 

Intentional Spamming!!

PS:LOL

My story: any answer, i feel i have my heart is broken. D:

[† WWE †]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

[QuimicVital]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

you want her to lie?

[† WWE †]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

you want her to lie?

If by her lying is saying "it's true his parents won't let me see him"

then no ^_^

[Kitty]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

[† WWE †]

Then let go...

[QuimicVital]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

 

so he won't get out of the city? or will he?

[Kitty]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

 

so he won't get out of the city? or will he?

 

I dun't live in a city, I live in the south, like South south. We dun have cities here. I live in a Town. and the farthers they can move is is the county next to the one I live in. I live in GA, USA.

[QuimicVital]

C'mon, that parents are MEEEANN, not mean, MEEEANN!!

Are you telling the true?

[.Frostpaw]

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

 

so he won't get out of the city? or will he?

 

I dun't live in a city, I live in the south, like South south. We dun have cities here. I live in a Town. and the farthers they can move is is the county next to the one I live in. I live in GA, USA.

 

How did his parents react to him saying that he loves you? Oh, and you do realize that by hiding your love for mako from them, it makes them realize that you're afraid of them if they find out. If you'd tell them, they'd think you're not afraid of them. It should be the last thing you need to do to show your parents and his parents that they can't stop your love for each other. It should work.

[Kitty]

C'mon' date=' that parents are MEEEANN, not mean, MEEEANN!!

Are you telling the true?

[/quote']

 

I'm not lieing, I have a pick of mako and myself together if it would help.

 

 

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

 

so he won't get out of the city? or will he?

 

I dun't live in a city, I live in the south, like South south. We dun have cities here. I live in a Town. and the farthers they can move is is the county next to the one I live in. I live in GA, USA.

 

How did his parents react to him saying that he loves you? Oh, and you do realize that by hiding your love for mako from them, it makes them realize that you're afraid of them if they find out. If you'd tell them, they'd think you're not afraid of them. It should be the last thing you need to do to show your parents and his parents that they can't stop your love for each other. It should work.

 

I can't tell him parents, I am scared. But I get to nervous, I freeze up. I was going to talk to him mom today, but I didn't! I'm pathetic. :cry:

[† WWE †]

Your not pathetic, your human.

[Kitty]

Your not pathetic' date=' your human.

[/quote']

 

But I blame myself for everything. Damit. I am, you don't know how much I've funked up this relationship of mine, with my stupid overprotectiveness, my jealousy, my everything. I shouldn't have ever told Mako how I felt, that way I wouldn't have screwed up his life, and I wouldn't be in this much pain right now. Everything is my fault.

[† WWE †]

TBH it's not screwing up his life, it's screwing up his current relationship life so don't feel too bad.

[Kitty]

TBH it's not screwing up his life' date=' it's screwing up his [b']current[/b] relationship life so don't feel too bad.

 

He threatened to commit suicide... Cried his eyes out, and is hurt.. I think I screwed up his life too.

[.Frostpaw]

C'mon' date=' that parents are MEEEANN, not mean, MEEEANN!!

Are you telling the true?

[/quote']

 

I'm not lieing, I have a pick of mako and myself together if it would help.

 

 

*sigh* Nothing Can express what I feel' date=' because I am too emotionaly upset to explain in words. Yesterday Mako told his parents that he loved me.

 

Today might have been his last day at my school, and I avoided him, because if it was, I didn't wanna be with him, because it would only make the suffering more intense.

[/quote']

 

BS,

please tell me you're not implying that his parents would make him move school because of you.

 

Yep. Exactimundo. Pretty Much.

but he says he won't get transfered, but I don't have any hopes that he'll stay. I've pretty much given up...

 

so he won't get out of the city? or will he?

 

I dun't live in a city, I live in the south, like South south. We dun have cities here. I live in a Town. and the farthers they can move is is the county next to the one I live in. I live in GA, USA.

 

How did his parents react to him saying that he loves you? Oh, and you do realize that by hiding your love for mako from them, it makes them realize that you're afraid of them if they find out. If you'd tell them, they'd think you're not afraid of them. It should be the last thing you need to do to show your parents and his parents that they can't stop your love for each other. It should work.

 

I can't tell him parents, I am scared. But I get to nervous, I freeze up. I was going to talk to him mom today, but I didn't! I'm pathetic. :cry:

 

I meant you should tell your parents. Chances are, they'd tell his parents.

 

Also, you're not pathetic. TBH, when I tell Hannah how I feel about her, and if they overhear me or find out somehow, they'd be just a mad as your parents and mako's parents. Since my parents are divorced, my mom and grandparents can send me to live with him if they decide to. I hate my dad.